@Jordan Regarding that trapped Dijun with FengJiu and sea of Fuling petals.
In my translated v. this moment was about Miao Luo laughing at DJ that his weakness is this rain of flowers, but then she points out that he might just hide his true heart feelings behind it (as he knows that this was visualisation of his feelings due to spell or so). And then at the end of 2nd Book it's revealed that behind this DJ hid his love for the Baby Fox - probably first thing he actually loved in his long life. The only one whom he searched so deeply after the discovery of her disappearance. He was never actually attached to anything. I related it to the last chess scene with Liansong, when he reveals his findings about who was the Baby Fox.
She also recalls a memory about DJ brushing away petals from her fur when she was a fox and just rested on his lap.
So I'm guessing that was his favorite moment - that peaceful time with the Baby Fox next to him. Simple but
And by the way - every time Dijun is in lovey dovey mood or rather deep emotions there is this sea of flowers which by the way is also favorite of FengJiu.
They appear in the fight with Miao Luo, then when he listens takes FJ in the dream to festival,
FJ also create Fuling flowers from this jade from Lianson, as the main decoration on her sword casing. She knows he likes them - talk in the Blue Sea house.
FJ, her love and his feelings towards her changed him, he's more human but still egoistic in wishing to have her only for himself :P
Anyway maybe I have different translation (am I missing a lot?)
Regarding waiting - omg - I just can't - and giggling just like a teenager with every found scope, sneaky pictures or theories :P Sweet pain ;)