As You Stood By

당신이 죽였다 ‧ Drama ‧ 2025
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lesunkie
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Dec 27, 2025
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 8.0
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 10
Music 6.5
Rewatch Value 6.0

Their friendship was stronger than anything .

The story of this drama was truly sad; it showed the reality that many women, unfortunately, go through.
Lee Yoomi's acting is always so good. You know a drama is good when Lee Yoomi is in the cast.🙏
I love how Jeon Sonee always has a drama in which she talks about and values the power of friendship.
The sequence of "revenge" scenes makes us think "oh my god," but then it stops and shows the reality.
The main plot twist was simply insane! I don't think anyone was expecting it at all. ( Seungjo's character was really scary )
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Maya kotori
1 people found this review helpful
Jan 28, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 10
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 9.5
If you don't like violence, don't watch this, I'm telling you in advance. The series is about domestic violence and it's really powerful. It's crazy how realistically it's depicted that it gives me chills.... The series tells the story of the main character who grew up in a family where domestic violence was a daily occurrence and now the same thing happens to her best friend, who helps her get rid of her husband. And really, it's crazy. At first I thought it would only be one episode or that I wouldn't even enjoy it, but in fact I started watching it as soon as it came out and I was so angry that I didn't finish watching it until today. Yes, you read that right, it was so crazy that I cursed and got really angry. It's crazy that something like this happens to some people every day and people around me turn a blind eye to it and God forbid this all ends in my death. It makes me sad, sick and cold. So this series is definitely not for the faint of heart, but otherwise I have to highlight the acting, which was really great and I even hated the husband of the main character's friend so much that I really couldn't even look at the actor (proof that he's an amazing actor!!)

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Joy101
1 people found this review helpful
Apr 3, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 7.5
Music 5.0
Rewatch Value 1.0
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Wish I could kick their husbands myself

It was a good story with decent enacting. Overall a fun watch with a bit of anger issues towards the husbands.

I liked the friendship, I think that’s what made this worthwhile. Seeing them going so far to protect each other was very satisfying.

However, had she not been lucky to meet the CEO of the marketplace, this whole story would have failed sadly. To be honest, I did like his role in the story, but at some point it’s obvious that without him, they would have failed and probably ended up dead because of Jin young.
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viking
1 people found this review helpful
Feb 3, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 8.0
Story 7.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 5.5
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Strong female leads but at what cost?

The first 4 episodes of the drama are by far the best. They introduce us to our main characters excellently and I felt they managed to show not tell us a lot within a short span of time. I truly enjoyed the cinematic shots and the main leads, particularly Hui-su, were so evocative I need to see more recognition for her range. That being said, I felt the drop off towards the end, particularly with Kang Jang's character.

The concept of a lookalike alone was very interesting since it involves making people think the murder victim is still alive. I dislike how they had Kang Jang come back to blackmail the two main leads. It just contradicts his previous characterisation and uses the cheap clichè of a poor man being swayed by greed. Additionally, despite such a strong presence in the first episode, the Mahjong guy (sorry his name eludes me since I am writing this a few days after watching), could have been involved more earlier without placing the main leads as damsel in distress.

Anyway, there is rewatch potential but seeing Hui-su get beat up and dragged by the hair by Jin-pyo had me on the verge of tears, and I will most certainly be skipping the blackmail scenes when I do come back to rewatch this.

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Softe
1 people found this review helpful
Feb 5, 2026
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Overall 10
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 10
Rewatch Value 10

Woah.

Everything about this from start to finish was amazing. The cinematography, the acting, the story. You can really tell that every little detail was carefully crafted, the amount of symbolic messaging that I picked up on was crazy! Maybe it's because I haven't watched a lot of kdramas but I seriously have never seen one that pays so much to detail. The topic of abuse is so heavy and sensitive that I was terrified that they'd misrepresent it somehow but they really went above and beyond my expectations. 10/10, would recommend.
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nazli
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17 days ago
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Overall 8.0
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 10
Rewatch Value 5.0

Unexpectedly heavy

I for one don't read info before watching a series, it adds more mysteriousness and suspense. This for me was truly heavy. I could feel most of the emotions like frustration, sadness, anger, vulnerability, uncertainty and more. This was well done even though there are some parts I would love the writers to add or delete. But it really portrayed what is really happening out there in the world. It's just sad that there are such human beings out there that would do such atrocious things to another being. But as the ending said there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. So let's be more compassionate and caring towards our own kind. I rate this an 8 and I would recommend this if you are a person who watches series based on how you feel at the moment because if you want something heavy this would be it. It won't be a waste of time just 8 episodes and you done.

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applesydervinegar
0 people found this review helpful
Jul 7, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 4.0
Story 5.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 3.0
Rewatch Value 1.0

it was good until it wasn’t…

writing this as I’m watching the last episode because it’s lost my interest but I’m almost done so.

the first 5 episodes were almost brilliant. depictions of very graphic abuse, the victims who suffer, the bystanders that permit it, and the impact it can have on those around the person. it handled such a difficult discussion really well.

seeing Eun-su do everything she can to help her friend, Hui-su, get out of the DV she was experiencing. inspite of what happened in her past, she was determined to help - and seeing that come about was masterful. how the both of them carried out the plan to free her was meticulous yet believable. it didn’t feel like an exaggeration even though it still is a “drama/thriller/mystery” esque show. everything felt very appropriate.

until it didn’t. spoilers: but making Jang Kang return was such a foolish move. it took the spotlight from a victim who would’ve finally have found a life for herself free from the violence that she once would experience everyday to a full fledged mystery drama. had the show chosen down its initial path, it really could’ve said something productive about the severity DV survivors may go to to escape their abuse all because of the world that ignores their suffering. there was sm that couldve been happened outside of the whole noh jin young covering everything for a promotion plot. honestly that second half was not even worth the time watching, it felt so messy and rushed just adding details to make it reach the 8 episode mark while still being “interesting” (which it could’ve been had they decided to focus on hui su instead of characters that were initially unimportant).

it’s unfortunate, it had great potential to be something really well done with such a stacked cast and great beginning plot. had it not tried to outdo itself with plot twists and suspense it could’ve prevailed in demonstrating meaningful commentary about abuse victims and the way they are silenced.

Lee you mi’s performance is absolutely commendable that’s fs. even playing a role like this must’ve been so mentally difficult and to do it as well as she did is just… wow. I cried so hard.

overall I think the first few episodes may be worth it but afterwards it falls off really hard. can’t say if it’s worth the watch because again the first few episodes are so raw and emotional but after that don’t be afraid to drop, it doesn’t get better than that.

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darywzc
0 people found this review helpful
Apr 11, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 10
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 8.0

Eyes Filled with Pain and Determination

This is a dark, tense, and truly harrowing story—about the price of silence, about trauma, and about how far a person is willing to go to protect those they love.

The plot never lets you relax and can be quite brutal at times. Neither skills nor truth can save you when the other side has more power, money, and influence. If it weren’t for the "safety net" in the form of Mr. Jang, the ending for the heroines would have been far more tragic. Yet it’s precisely within this sense of hopelessness that the theme of female friendship truly unfolds: the women hold on to each other, showing resilience, resourcefulness, and a willingness to sacrifice themselves.

The acting is a standout strength. The lead actress doesn’t just play her role—she lives it. You can see pain, fear, and resolve all at once in her eyes, making you believe in her until the very end. The antagonists are also remarkably well-developed, their hypocrisy is so vivid it triggers an almost physical revulsion.

But there are some pretty questionable moments: the plotline with the double feels like something out of a sci-fi movie and sticks out from the overall realistic tone. In real life, something like that wouldn’t work. In situations like these, the fewer people "in the know," the lower the chances of getting caught. And some plot details, especially those related to the consequences and punishment, raise questions. I still don’t understand how long they served? In South Korea, crimes like these usually carry sentences of at least five years, yet it seems the heroines served much less time.

Even so, the series leaves a strong impression—thanks to its emotional depth, tension, and that harsh truth you simply can’t ignore.

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DutchAjumma_APD
0 people found this review helpful
Feb 5, 2026
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 5.5
Story 6.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 5.5
Rewatch Value 1.0

Wouldn’t rewatch it

The plot is great.
In my opinion this subject about domestic violence/abuse should be mentioned more in dramas. It’s a situation that’s silent to often, like s€ual assault.

During watching the serie it was Hard to maintain my attention. It’s a good story, but it somehow it missed something to catch my full attention.

What I also didn’t understand is why the in-laws were so delusional and supportive of the abuse.
It made my skin crawl.

The actors and actresses did a good job. Nothing wrong with their acting.

Wouldn’t watch a second time.

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Ta_Da
11 people found this review helpful
Nov 9, 2025
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 8.5
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 8.5
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 6.0

EVERY STORY DESERVES TO BE TOLD!!!

Every story deserves to be told. Every problem deserves to be seen and understood because that’s how we enlighten people about what’s really happening. Yes, domestic abuse is a serious issue, but that doesn’t mean we should stop sharing these stories. Too many people still feel like they’re suffering alone. The more we speak up, the more we remind them: you’re not the only one, and you’re not invisible.

Drama review:
Everyone delivered seriously, I loved every bit of it!! That scene where the officer snatched the cap off that clueless detective head so the press could get a clear shot of her face? Iconic. We need more stories like this. Domestic violence survivors deserve to know they’re not alone. Sometimes, all it takes is one brave person or one decisive moment to change everything. Keep speaking up. Keep walking forward.

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jayspeaks
9 people found this review helpful
Nov 8, 2025
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Overall 10
Story 10
Acting/Cast 9.5
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 9.5

Got me at the beginning

Sometimes narrative like this mirrors someone’s personal experience. It’s raw and very difficult to unsee it because women do go through this. Painful memories are relived and although family members can see through the pain, they look the other way. I just wished everyone has someone who’s willing to help. There’s light at the end of the tunnel.
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noiremmanuel
7 people found this review helpful
Nov 9, 2025
8 of 8 episodes seen
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Overall 9.0
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 7.0
Rewatch Value 6.0

A tough watch but too powerful to look away

This drama was really hard to watch, not because it wasn’t good, but because it hit every nerve. I found myself getting angry at almost every scene, which just shows how powerfully it was written and acted. The emotions felt raw and painfully real.

The cast delivered incredible performances, bringing out every bit of frustration, guilt, and tension the story demanded. It’s not an easy watch, but it’s one of those dramas that stays with you long after it’s over.

Beautifully acted, emotionally heavy, and deeply human. I wouldn’t call it enjoyable, but I’d definitely call it unforgettable.

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