Devoted ML (or matrilocal husband vibes)

Devoted ML

Devoted ML and matrilocal husband mentioned by chara as a joke first but it practically became canon in the end

Devoted ML with matrilocal husband vibes (FL marries into his family but becomes family head and is supported in her decisions by his family)

Devoted ML 

kinda devoted ML & matrilocal husband vibes but with a lot of distrust/scheming at the start (but light hearted show)

devoted ML

Devoted ML + matrilocal husband

Devoted ML, matrilocal husband vibes with side charas

Devoted ML

Devoted ML

Devoted ML

Devoted ML

Devoted ML, later on matrilocal husband to keep FL's powerful leader status

Devoted ML 

Devoted ML

Devoted ML

Devoted ML + matrilocal husband 

Devoted ML & matrilocal husband vibes (bodyguard ML + princess FL)

Devoted ML (tho FL & ML start out as enemies)
matrilocal husband vibes ~5% (she is a tribe leader, but most of the story plays out on 'his turf') (show sadly falls flat a bit at the end due to pacing issue & lack of storyline time for the plot twists, but I still enjoyed it)

Devoted ML (tho with antagonistig phases between the couple ^^ )

Devoted ML & kinda running gag that ML is 'useless' and needs to be taken care of by FL + FL running the business (similar for side.couple)
(but no role-reversal society situation since it's more about the women sticking with their goals despite the very patriarchal society and their men supporting that)

starts out with some antagonistic fun between ML & FL, later on too, but overall ML is in full on self-sacrificial-xianxia mode for FL (they both are) lol

devoted ML
(he also jokes about becoming a matrilocal husband once cause he would def prefer it compared to his own family for most of the show ^^ )

slight exception to others in the list since FL/ML are married from the start
the romance takes a backseat to investigations in this one, but still devoted ML
(kinda) matrilocal husband, it's not explicitly mentioned if I remember correctly, but he does marry into her family since he's taken in as an orphan ^^  

matrilocal husband, it doesn't play a big role and only happens at the very end ^^
but it overall reflects well that FL tries to defy patriarchal expectations for women and cares about rebuilding her family's legacy after being orphaned

devoted ML is more an honorable mention, cause they reach a 'ready to die for each other' level but only after a lot of misunderstandinsg, up+downs, bickering ^^ 

Devoted ML

devoted ML ( but sloooow burn - kinda due to circumstances)
matrilocal husband at the end but it doesn't play a big part ^^

devoted MLs (2 main couples)
another show for the 'starts out antagonistic but develops into xianxia self-sacrificial-level of devotion' category (for both MLs & FLs) ^^

K-Drama
romance is not the main focus and it's a slow burn & antagonistic until they finally reach the 'devoted ML' stage, but def deserves a mention here since ML is so damn proud of his kick-ass strong demon girlfriend ^^

K-Drama
another sloooow burn with romance just as a side-dish between 2 'broken' charas
devoted ML

KDrama

contract marriage plot, but still devoted ML ;)

short-drama
antagonistic phases, but overall devoted ML & practically matrilocal husband-vibes ending
they also have fun playing around with power-dynamics a bit & role-reversal for some tropes, so we get sick/whumped ML and spitfire FL kicking his ass but also saving him :)
(2nd couple has minimal screen-time, but 2nd ML is devoted loser in love too haha)

at first I didn't think this short-drama would make the devoted ML list due to the antagonistic start haha, but if I didn't mention it for devoted ML it would be an insult to ML's development & effort :')
also 'matrilocal husband vibes' (some role-reversal aspects) overall since FL is crossdressing and acting as the emperor and ML is posing as eunich close to the emperor ;)

they def have their antagonistic phases, but overall devoted ML through lifetimes ^^
some role-reversal aspects since for a while ML has a hidden identity and lives at FL's home as her slave and as her guard
both couples have some unhinged aspects to their relationships, but that just made it more fun for me personally :)