Honest Swan

Yeah, that's the sad part. I think we were duped. No one on the show except a few look like they have that mindset they're looking for marriage. For example, Jeyeon. How come she does not try to make an effort if someone is a potential husband. Maybe she's making up her mind but the show is almost over. She is still deciding? I thought in such a show where marriage is the end goal, people are less hesitant. This is because they have one month to know everyone there but its not enough to really know someone on a deeper level. So the sooner you settle on a person, the higher your chance of finding a genuine person. Jeyeon doesn't even try to know what the other person likes and do a little gesture for them. In other words, she's just passive. Maybe less confident. She may be different once she's confident. But its taking too long. She's just as frustrating to watch as Shin Min Gyu of HS4. They're so indecisive.

Anyway, I can't fault Haneul. I know everyone has an opinion about the topic but I can imagine if Jimin was around me, I would literally go all in. He has the characters I appreciate in a partner. Someone witty, you can talk to and funny. Appearance matter too but once you like his personality, you see him as the most beautiful being in the world. Those little things are so huge to me. That's why I wonder how Jeyeon isn't smitten yet. Or maybe its the editing. We can't see the full picture yet. I want a relationship where I can banter with the person I am with. Chanhyoung and Chaeun are on the same wavelength and they're cute. But I feel like its like agreeing with everything the other person says. I don't know if that makes sense. So that explains what I like about Jimin's interactions. Its witty and by that I mean you can't predict what he will say next and whatever he says its humorous. So you can't feel offended.
So, that's why I can't fault Haneul because I know I will be worse. I will express myself whole heartedly for that 1 month that you guys would feel I have no self-respect and I will accept whatever results it would come out of it.
I think Changhwan and Soo Ah conversation reflects my mentality. I used to have some ego and pride while I was young. But now that I am older (27years), I don't think those things are important anymore. I don't easily fall for someone so when I do, I always know its someone worth it. They have to be such a good person that I can put my pride aside.

I am sorry to hear that. People you make connection with can make or break your life.

The air time police won't have anything to complain about this week.

You're right. That should count.

I understand him though. 15 years age gap could very well be my niece or nephew. Add 3 more years and she is my daughter. Its just my opinion but a huge generational gap may also mean we may not be compatible in most things.

I was just sympathizing with him in terms of having someone compatible on the show. I very much sympathize with Haneul too even though she also had an option. But an option doesn't always mean its compatible.

You don't care yet took time to respond, LOL. Here's some good news for you, neither does Haneul🤣😂

You're not a good reader, are you? I asked you a question which you didn't answer.

Did I get you triggered? Lol.

Ditto.

Force? Do you understand that terminology? You sound single so I will leave at that. You're not Jimin's spokesperson. He can tell her that himself. Maybe go get someone and leave Haneul alone. She's trying her best.

The pre-release shows that the female catfish took interest in Jimin when she first saw him. Reminds of the scene when Jimin came in on the first day and was instantly smitten by Jeyeon. The smirk she gave is almost similar to the one Jimin had when he first saw Jeyeon. Unfortunately for Soo Ah, she doesn't have enough time to change Jimin's heart even if she could. The pre-release is a little too short but I tend to judge people's interest when they're seated in a group. I may be deceiving myself but I somehow felt Jeyeon has a stronger feelings for Jimin than Sang Yun. Its my first time seeing her smirk while watching Jimin's little behavior. Its as if she finds him cute. And you know what they say, 'if you start finding someone cute, you're falling for them'. Anyway, that's all my opinion. It may change once the episode is fully aired.
Towards the end of it all, I felt really sad for Changhwan. It seems like there's no one for him there. I can imagine how it might feel for him, you are at a mature age and really want to settle down but there's really not much opportunities.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6cwCHq8FnvA

They're in a dating show sweetheart. In real life when someone doesn't show interest in you, you get to go home and can potentially forget about it. But they wake up and get to sleep seeing each other everyday for weeks now. Its obvious even to a stranger that Jimin is interested in Jeyeon. All members are aware too. Haneul knows that too. She's not stupid. That is why she tried to get along with the doctor but ultimately she couldn't because he is not who she is attracted to. There's the brain that is logical on who we should like and there's the heart that can say otherwise. So don't call her a masochist. Its a bit insensitive considering we all see she has no one in the house who catches her eye. Its totally different for us who are outside. If one person doesn't like you, you have like a billion of other people to choose from. But she doesn't. In fact she is barred before going to the show and after the show until its finished airing from dating any other person outside the selected group. That's what keep the integrity of the show.
So yeah if you take time and consider all those factors, you can have some bit of respect for her and not simply call her desperate. She's only doing what she's supposed to do in a dating show as that is the only dating pool she has access to for maybe half a year. Also, we don't see any person showing interest in her that she has to settle in a so called bad option (Jimin). She is starved of options.
So you can't suggest she remains passive during her stay there. The only thing she can do is what she is about to do now. Express herself. But she has to be subtle about it without adding pressure on them. Even though Jimin seems uninterested, he isn't taken yet. No one is. So, you can't just be a side character in her circumstance. She should clearly but subtly express herself. I hope this enlightens you.

I think your comment itself is insufferable. I haven't seen such fans. And if there is any, it doesn't reflect the entire fanbase. So cut the generalization stuff. As Jimin's fan, I wouldn't mind if Jeyeon picked Sang Yun. Jimin deserves someone who is as sure of him as he is of them. If Jeyeon likes Sang Yun, it can't be helped. She deserves to follow her happiness just like everyone else.

That doesn't count, Soo Hee was not feeling well, LOL. Anyway, I must be among the chosen few who thought the show was so good and the win well deserved. Thats literally the game. Use your wits and knowledge to win games. Even the people you're calling good would team up against another. You must have thought they were good because they weren't against your side. So I don't get the hate. They played according to the rules.
I skimmed most of the comments and I would just call some of them ignorant. Someone said Soo Hee was a doormat. Oh well, let me guess you must have hated Hyun Gyu so her sticking for him had you feel that way. Well, I thought she was just loyal. You know its like me. When we have a connection I might be loyal even to a fault. Maybe thats the definition of a doormat.
Anyway, Hyun Gyu wasn't that bad. He didn't betray his alliance (unless they betrayed him first) and was loyal to his team mates. So, he treated Soo Hee better. If that still makes her a doormat, I don't know.
I didn't have anyone to root for in the final because I liked both of them. But I came to love Soo Hee even more at the end. I wish she didn't have cramps in that final game. It would have felt more level for everyone. But Hyun Gyu is so smart too and he deserves it.

All I can say is that I haven't seen anything convincing from Jeyeon that she is set on Jimin. She enjoys his company. I can't say she's not drawn to him but you may be right it might not be that strong to choose him. Anyway, I respect Jimin enough to not label him as a simp. Mainly because no one is committed to anyone yet. So everything is up on air, you can get matched with anyone. He's just following his heart until that deadline day when everyone has to make up their mind.
Having watched Jimin since 2021 in Love catcher both on the show and outside the show through his and other cast member's vlogs, I can say he is not a simp. He expresses his mind openly. If the time comes and Jeyeon chooses another over him, he will most likely give it up.

Yeah, l get it now. Jimin is capturing everyone's heart including us except for Jeyeon. He has been her second choice for most occasions. I have a feeling it might change though even if the rumors/odds are against him.

Well, that would work too. She should just let Jimin go. Her moving on easily to SY just tells you that she isn't bothered about Jimin. So that would make her realize her feelings. I would have said that would have worked in Jimin's favor but they only 10 have days left. So he not only gets heartbroken but leaves single too.

Makes a lot of sense. Jimin is opposite of what she goes for. Especially if your type is a tall guy then it would be difficult to find guys with average height that attractive.

I swear its because you have started to like Jimin. He is more attractive as you get to see him. At first he has cold impression. Trust me, if you read the comments made against him when the show started, you would think differently. I liked him since the beginning but it was after Love catcher so I could tell you he normally doesn't get that noticed.
But his humor and his skill in making conversation really changes people's perception of him including myself. I guess he's skilled at winning people over.