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Thank you for your comment! I haven't realized that! XD

Happy Saturgay to you too, Sand protectors and Ray sympathizer!! I think I'm both too!

Hahaha. Yeah!
Poor collateral damage

If it wasn't for Ray, Mew wouldn't have manipulated Top with sex, Ton wouldn't have come after Top, Top wouldn't have had sex with Ton and Mew wouldn't have left Top and used Ray to make him jealous.

-Because when a person with a childhood trauma, as heavy as seeing your mother committing suicide, is said to end their addiction, their first response is to end their addiction. Right.
- He clearly told his friend about it, he wasn't expecting anything in return.
- Mew is a grownup person. He is the one deliberately getting close to Ray to live la vida loca. If one of them is capable of recognizing it's wrong, it is Mew, not the traumatized suicidal guy.
- Did we see the same episode? When was it said Mew and Ray were a couple? They hadn't even kissed, apart from the scene Mew pose to make Top jealous, yeah, using the traumatized suicidal guy.
- About Sand, I completely agree. Sand is love, Sand must be protected.

Yep. That's what I wrote. XD
They just tolerated him, made it clear it was difficult 'for them' to deal with him and sometimes make fun of the situation. I don't blame them for not knowing how to help an addict but I guess it's easy for them to blame on Ray everything else, even Mew's behavior consequence of the person she invited without asking and the other friend she is defending while sh!tting on Ray.

Somebody call me?
Who's talking sh!t about little Ray!?


Just joking. ^^;

What!? Mew messed up because of himself, it's not Ray's fault. He couldn't cope with Top's betray and is messing with all the people around him, even Ray. He is using his friend to hurt his ex. At least Ray has heavier reasons to be damaged.
But I agree Sand is the only person capable of healing Ray, not any of his hypocrite friends.

I'm with you!
I'd add more reasons to dislike Mew but I'm a lazy writer.
Thank you for putting my thoughts our there!!

'They are all so selfish! They don't care about ME.' Yeah, I dislike her character.
And what's up with all the hate to Ray!? Mew is the one wanting to drink, party and consume, which Ray thinks to be ok, so he agrees, but it's not his fault. None of them actually helped Ray to recover but now are upset because Mew is doing it? Hypocrites.
Ray needs Sand, he is the only one who really tried to heal him. But Sand needs to protect himself too... tricky situation.

Well, I think you wouldn't mind waking up hangovered to find yourself hugged in bed with the person who broke your heart and you hate. If Mew were sober, he wouldnt have let Top touch him, undress him, take him to his bed and sleep with him.

I think what's missing in this discussion is what agenda you are indeed supporting. What would 'your side' be? What is the shape of your box?

I think what's missing in this discussion is what agenda you are indeed supporting. What would 'your side' be? What is the shape of your box?

There's always gonna be an 'agenda'. I'd rather it be a progressive one than a retrograde one. More love and less hatred, please.

Perfect! Loved you comment.

Of which one!?

Really!? It's so sad I couldn't watch the Untamed again... and I can't even begin to talk about Word of Honor. T.T

Well, I think he manipulated Top with sex or the lack of it. You can make another person wait, that's comprehensive, and if the other person is ok with that, it's great. But Mew used his autocontrol to put himself and Top in sexual situations just to suddenly stop him. That isn't quite nice, and it's a manipulative behavior.
Now, I think he is gonna manipulate Top with the fact he cheated on him and wants to probe his love to him. There's a reason he coldly waited upto the right moment to expose him. He even punched his friend to prevent him from talking. Mew is a very cold person, closely to a psychopath if I can exaggerate a little XD

You can do it!
I know I can't...

I'm not trying to make him look like an angel. It's toxicity city out there, none of them are saints, not even Sand who lied to Nick and used Ray to hurt Top.

Nick is a horrible person, he bugged Ton's car to get that recording, he violated their privacy, My point is that Ray knows how hypocrite he is.

The girl exposed him in focusing him in front of everyone which is quite humiliating, I would hate a person doing that to me, even more if I'm in a sensitive mood. She is a crap friend as the rest.

I just UNDERSTAND where everything comes from, and Ray's behavior is more understandable than Ton's. Just that.

I support this Mew! Not the boring romantic guy... but I guess he will eventually forgive Top. I want him alone fighting the world.