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I think he 's imprtant for so far 2 failed marriages have husbands who wore benign masks.

1st brother divorced but 2nd marriage was happier.
2nd sister was the happiest with a loving husband
3rd brother same as 1st, divorced but 2nd marriage was happier.
4th sister and 5th brothe - divorced .

Does anybody know the song title and the singer where the youngest sister played by Song Zuer as Qiao Simei went for an interview in an international hotel where she danced to a Chinese song in epi. 11 @ 5.15? Thanks in advance.

Sorry to trouble you, and not about this drama.But as you know Chinese and I think have good knowledge of Chinese singers and songs,Have you watched “The Bond”? In epi. 11 @ 5.15 where the youngest sister played by Song Zuer as Qiao Simei went for an interview in an international hotel where she danced to a Chinese song which I like to learn. Need your help if possible ,to know the song title and the male singer. Thanks in advance.

Thqnk-you. Very helpful as am learning Chinese thru. songs and this one has repititive words.

Does anybody know the song title and the singer which was played in the tennis match scene in epi 15 between the FL shapeshifted into male against the ML and and his friend? (That song was so cool and catchy.)

Right. You get it that the drama is explaining how some divorces happen.  (BTW have you finished the drama?)
Marriage is a legal contract joining 2 people. Like many contracts there are many hidden or unwritten terms and conditions

As a lawyer,QH failed to understand the full implications of violating the unwritten rule of going to the bridegroom's  home town for a wedding banquet. It's a once in a lifetime affair of the proud introduction and acknowledge of a new entry into the family. Its constituted a slap to the faces of husband, her in-laws, his relatives and friends.Henceforth she was seen in bad light as rude, disrespectful and badly brought up. It will be a very long time before that impression could be erased. 2nd violations,was her cancelling her honeymoon. Not withstanding hurting the feelings of QQ but it meant her career was more important than he. Unwritten condition; that she has to compensate with a honeymoon when the case is settled. She failed to do that. Taken for granted his love and understanding. Unwritten condition ; to nurture that love and understanding, on and off.
Being independent and self reliant at work and home are 2 very different things. At home it became a barrier to closeness and openness.She came across a unapproachable, cold and calculating.U nwritten terms and conditions for a marriage is to change some habits,attitudes, nature and lifestyle to fit and accommodate each other needs and wants.

Will there be Season 3 ? Definitely.
1st case of Teacher Mei have assumptions and replica of situations.(However , as I don't read Chinese ,so wouldn't know if they have done filming it or not) Drama had shown justice was always carried out. Those back-stabbers will have to face punishment one way or another.

For me, XS and HL are the contrast. Hl and QQ were seen by others as mediocre and wouldn't be a success.They have love interest who were smart and go-getters, which inspired them to better themselves.XS encouraged and supported HL. She became his debt collector with much needed funds.She persuaded ZL, who had recommended him to sell her shares to HL so that he can fight his uncles  forchairmanship.She rose to be a partner and wanted him to also riseup as chairman, hence his love for her grew daily.
In contrast,  QH, told her husband that if he stayed stagnant as a clerkshe was happy. She also discouraged him and his father to help with connections.,to rise up for promotions. She wanted  him to rise up through his own abilities.However when he did rise up, she took it as a matter of fact.There was no singing of praises, special celebrations or any rewards.Discouraging,disappointment and hurt his pride. It's like a mediocre student who suddenly topped  the class and nobody congratulated him on his hard work. Their relationship was stagnant and both don't know what's wrong.

ML 's way of getting quick karma for that "daughter" was to feel that same pain of getting cheated by her husband! Done it a legal way, of course ! This drama is very fun!

Knew the wife would make that decision.She is very strong in principles and has a guilty conscience for Zhongda and wife. He loved her but didn't really know and understand that part of her.

Based on commenter below and found this article.

https://inf.news/en/entertainment/413249c276e9c0abe8513d6c357e3103.html

I think your idea is good, only expand it to be broadcasted not just once but periodically on national TV during prime time. Now that they brought along their families ,their pictures should also be included. Such a large group especially to small, close-knitted communities would be obtrusive.Made the public be involved in their own safety from such predators.

Drama is now in its fascinating, fabulous and fanciful ways showing the evolution of split personality thru. ML.( Drama had dropped clues of “old friend” “part of my soul” from ZM to XXC).
Split personality- psy condition of the presence of two or more distinct personality states or identities within an individual. They have their own names and characteristics. It's a coping mechanism in response to traumas and conflicts.It's characterized by two contrary and independent identities where one of these conflicting identities repressed.the contrary one . The other personality is more suitable to cope with the circumstances. All 3 have split personalities.ML/ XXC/ZM, FL/MXL/AZ and 2ML/NXY/TM. Drama used Sigmund Freud's (father of psychoanalysis), principle of personality of ID, ego and superego. Id is fully unconscious and superego is part unconscious and part conscious parts of personality. (Ego is fully conscious). In the drama, HaoTian, God/creator/father-like figure created the universe.2 beings 2ML(superego) and FL(ID) as supervisors.

2ML desire for FL not to forget him
-When TM took over NXY, he said he was weak, soft and indecisive.Decisively embraced that charge and for it. Hence the weird and unforgettable marriage ceremony plus nobody can forget a husband.
FL desire to protect ML
-During her childhood and during the fighting she did that. Now as AZ, she will in her own way directly or indirectly protect him against the wrath of HT.
ML desire to protect FL and people.
-Following epi. will show how he will do that.

Educational.engaging and entertaining. This drama deserved a higher rating.

Liked the writer's interpretations and elaborations of the psy. terms.LOL! Thanks to the writer, for I  picked  up some things for self-improvement.
Thanks also to Youku, for braving big budget dramas for airing this drama in January. Made some new resolutions.

This is the best drama in stimulating and engaging from all the dramas now airing.
Drama has dropped so many psychiatry clues :- delusions, inner demons,hallucinations ,projections, split personality/(ZM ) and schizophrenia(HXW) facing distortion of reality.
-ML now wants to go back to the past to revive FL .It's using Freud's concept of mind; conscious, preconscious, and unconscious .
- To make FL conscious is to use Freud's principle of ID, ego, and superego( FL.ML.2ML.) Hence 2ML has to be subdue.
-To restart FL's brain would be like defib, - electric shock to heart to made it beat again .In psychiatric. treatment,, ECT is electric shock to the brain to rewire the neurons. Surmising as giving spiritual/divine power to the FL's 3rd eye. (Drama has already dropped visual clues of the red circle of eternity which the 2nd couple fell into, very much like an eye. Another clue was of 3 doors ; ;rehabilitation, death and life.)

BTW, you are AWESOME in subbing!(look at your profile)

Do you double post from your caption fry and your YT channel? I like your caption fry as there are options to increase font size to 400, whereas your YT doesn't have such an option.

Keep up the Good Work!

Depend on your prefences ie if you want to take your pc as mobile you need battery. I prefer no battery as I read in1 web site that if always on battery it will be ingrained, so when time for replacement as battery always make pc hang, I try without it.No more hang. Maybe Asus is hardy!15 years!(refomatted 2x)

What type of brand are you using? Mine is old, still on Win7 and Asus. Now completely using without battery meaning not portable. If you don't find this helpful: https://www.wikihow.com/Replace-the-Battery-in-Your-PC. Ask your tech. Shop, if you can operate without battery. I checked with google search that time and I took it out ,my pc can function wel without itl.

Take out the batteries like I did mine and connect direct to electric socket. Many years now since I did that and PC working fine and less problems now..