Winny

well i see ..guess this drama does not communicate with you well..or the other way around. but i do not find anything shallow about this drama. the casting is just excellence.it is a tv series after all.

thank u lol...swimming and sailing ...with our fic husbands of course 😻💞

before properly review it in review section.. I want to write my thoughts here first.
XianXia is not my fav genre of drama. But I have to say this drama is absolutely awesome. Good directing, visual effects and good story. For me the plot is refreshing somehow. I randomly got into this drama actually. Without intending at all. I saw some clips on youtube and found it interesting. I had seen Yanzi in Ashes of Love before. She was very cute there. I am not familiar with all the male leads.
As I watched it, nostalgic of Scarlet Heart came (I have only seen Korean Ver). I don't know it is in the air. Then later find out the story was written by same author. No wonder. So far I am
enjoying it more than Scarlet Heart for some reason. Feel like I am engaged to the drama. It's 9.5/10...grade A+ for me so far. But its only S1. So I will wait to see S2 to
give the final score.
This is a story about one women going through life and got to involve with 3 men..(4 if Fenglong is counted) in xiaxian imperial vibe.
This story involve 3 male leads and not only one. They all love the female lead. female lead loves all three of them. I mean in real life, we can fall in love more than one time right. Besides strong bonds can happen in different type of relationship. Because of having mutiple mls, ships appear. I'm sailing on one of the ship. 😁
These type of reversed heram are fun to watch really especially in here because three male leads play vital roles. If you like this type don't ever miss this drama. Whether you fall into one ship or sail all three ships. It doesn't matter. It's all fun. But yep no ship war but peace. Even when fl doesn't end up with your fav ml, you can still change the ending in your imagination because it's all fiction.
I think I will discuss about how I think on
plot and characters more later while waiting for S2 since I'm married to this drama now.

Oki..i will try see him in good way in this drama.. as i agree he's the one to sacrifice later..we sometimes use the word "abuse" for physical hurting because he did hurt her lots of time early on.and seem very controling whenever they meet..throwing off her from tree, from above.(it's good he did't do anymore in later episodes)...while also attracted towards her.
The way he looks at her is something. Love bugs couple inside them is proof they are attracted to each other. The
chemistry
undeniable
indeed. 💞

I understand this is no rom com but a xiania historical (costume) drama, especially this one which is about wars and politics thing happening, I know you are saying Xiang Liu beat her for a reason and is justified in such situation. But what I am explaining is why would some viewers see him abusive still as he did not hurt her only once although it is more of teasing(bullying) at a times. And why two leads have to physically hurt each other maybe common? But that might bring uneasy feelings to some viewers. I know feeling of "tension" is popular.p I don't watch a lot of Xianxia. So I could not get into some perspective of fans. By that saying so, there's no way I think Xiang Liu is villianiously bad. Nope! I do sense he is more of portrayal of heroic lead who has demonic charm. I am spoiled that this original novel called "Eternally Missing You" is intended refer to him from Xiao Yao perspective. He has sacrificed some of his lives for her and as well as doing other things. I already have a feeling his character is supposed to hold this spot in viewers, eternally living in viewers' hearts. But still some other viewers may have different thinking at a times. Let my reply be a little longer, just think of it as sharing perspectives rather than arguing (since I am not changing anyone's opinion). 😅😊
This drama is about love and life of course. And I am too early to judge the whole thing as the drama is not done yet and I haven't fully read the novel yet but summary. I will focus on FL love line then. I think we all may agree she loves all 3 main guys at some point in her life in a times differently (Tension and attraction mostly with XL). Both Cang Xuan and Xiang Liu loves Xiao Yao. Both are essentially good guys. But whether they will get to live with her is another thing. They have other burdens. It is life experience and again their perspectives that they could not be with not be with her in the end. But there's 3mls and there's no way to avoid shipping war. People do have different view on same thing. I will be totally honest why I cheer Jing the most. No matter how you may judge and call him silly/weakline at his actions, I still think he needs Xiao Yao the most.I think she's most comfortable around him. I have seen many people blame him making Xiao Yao wait while he has dilemma issues with his family. It may sounds selfish of him but at the same time I don't mind it as I think he's not going to live with this Fengfei Yiyin anyway throughout life. I guess I have soft spot for people who are true to their feelings and said it out loud. There is no way to deny his flaws; his physical weakness, insecurity dilemma. But compare to the other two guys, although not wholly he's mostly out of this worldly matters (power, obligation, hatred,etc). His highest wish is to spend time xiao yao throughout life decently. He made it known and that is Xiao Yao ideal wish too. Lol this is too long now. It is good to share opinions as long as no arguments come but try to consider how other people can judge too. But thanks for the reply.

Yes lol... we all have different point of views on romance and other stuffs ..there's something about Xiang Liu that I could not be on YaoLiu ship at all although he seems to be the one sacrifice lives most...but then again this is drama ..very very fiction..I just hope that people just boast their favorite characters and not bash on other people ' fav too..I will try best to see good in all too ❤

Um... just to clear off some issues a little...about calling Xiang Liu "abusive". It's based some of his actions..I understand how much he sacrifices for Xiao Yao later in the story. However perhaps some actions are not so favorable. Such as he does physically hurt her several times early in the drama. I am not so fond of seeing how he drown(taken advantage of) Xiao Yao (Xiao Liu) just to hurt Cang Xuan. I guess that not everyone find it exciting and romantic. But I do understand why he maybe appealing to many viewers but not everyone. As for Jing to be so coward about dealing with his engagement, perhaps some viewers can forgive him because not everyone make the best choices especially about family issues all the time. I am not sure about prefering Jing or Xiang Liu being mature or immature as it is personal opinion and depending on which type you prefer😅...as it is still fictional. It's the same feeling for whom perfomance you prefer according to which actors you prefer.
That's it. I appologize if my reply may have bother you in any case as I may have had different perspective.