hey ya all. This drama is 75% over and Da Rim is THE SAME AS IN THE BEGINNING, that is the problem. She can start…
Not everyone heals at your preferred pace. Some people grow quietly, slowly, and in ways that arenât flashy, but still matter.
And saying the audience is âaggressively defendingâ her just because they understand her situation better than you⊠thatâs not a critique, thatâs just you being mad people donât agree with you.
âPeople supports Da rim lies and they probably lie too in realityâ
Da-Rim doesnât lie about big things to manipulate or hurt people, she lies out of panic, insecurity, and survival mode (the only victim is ML since he develop feelings for her). Her intentions is not to hurt anyone, she just canât think of any other way. She doesnât even know ML is hurting because of her as well. For her colleagues, I donât think they will hate her after finding out due to understanding her situation.
Yeah, she could have told ML when she opened up about her personal problems, but from her POV, that moment was already vulnerable enough. Admitting the fake husband thing means risking her job, her dignity, and the only financial stability she has while taking care of her mom. (If I were her I would tell ML the truth and tell him to keep it secret until ML finds another way to support her). I admit she is not too smart. We also have to consider Da-rim as a strong independent girl. What if she thinks she doesnât deserve the support? ML might be able to help her now, sure, but her mindset might be different. I support both Da Rim and Ji Hyeok characters. I hope both of them found a solution.
Youâre right lying is definitely wrong. But Darim keeps lying about things that donât even matter. Also, Darim…
itâs also important to look at Darim as a character, not just as the story as a whole. She doesnât lie about big things to manipulate or hurt people, she lies out of panic, insecurity, and survival mode.
Yeah, she could have told JH when she opened up about her personal problems, but from her POV, that moment was already vulnerable enough. Admitting the fake husband thing means risking her job, her dignity, and the only financial stability she has while taking care of her mom. JH might be able to help her now, sure, but Darim doesnât see herself as someone who deserves that kind of support. That mindset matters.
- She shouldâve married Junseo. Heâs just as wealthy as her husband, so why marry a complete stranger for…
I had the same questions but I found out that she didn't married him because or his origin (he is not the biological heir to the wealthy family). She knew that since as a child. She wants a perfect image and a perfect status despite who she is.
One thing that this comsec taught me is sometimes man and women are not that different. I just saw a comment saying"…
So many sided with them. I almost sided with them until there were victims who didn't want any of that. Some people even hate Jun Seo for exposing her and her struggles.
This drama is so much fun to watch. The way it had me giggling and ragebaiting is insane. I really love how this…
Same here! The K-drama world really knows how to drop the best shows at the end of the year. Honestly, I hadnât watched any new dramas at the start of this year.
The first one I dove into was Bon Appetit, Your Majesty. At that moment, I was like, âYes! This is my top pick!â But then came Dear X, and I was totally convinced that this one stole the crown⊠until Dynamite Kiss dropped. Oh man, that drama? A solid 10/10 for me lol.
Lying is definitely wrong from a moral perspective. But what really hit me about Da-rim is how much sheâs struggling, to the point of almost taking her own life because she couldnât find a job. Most people her age, or even younger, already have stable jobs or families, and she doesnât. The unfairness of that, especially in todayâs biased and extremely competitive job market, really stood out to me.
Her struggle reflects a reality many of us face now: opportunities are scarce, and sometimes survival feels impossible. She kept thinking about how she would survive if she didnât lie. Of course she knows lying is wrong, any child knows that, but as adults, sometimes survival forces impossible choices. She canât just âloseâ to the job market or sell her organs, thatâs not even humanly acceptable. The government isnât helping her, so what else could she do? How would anyone handle that if they were in her shoes?
And about her not telling Ji Hyeok, she didnât really know him yet. Meeting someone briefly on Jeju Island doesnât exactly inspire full trust. Anyone in their right mind wouldnât trust a man they just met, even if thereâs attraction. She almost slept with him because she was drawn to him, not because she trusted him, LMaoo. To me, thatâs what makes her so relatable. Sheâs making bad choices under impossible circumstances, and while that doesnât excuse lying morally, it shows just how human and real her struggles are.
Like, seriously, people lie all the time to get a job. Lying about skills? Sure, thatâs bad and can tank a company, but a job has nothing to do with marital status or whether you have a baby. Honestly, Ji Hyeokâs older sister just picked those candidates to make life harder for her brother, classic sibling sabotage. And come on, just because you donât have a baby doesnât mean you donât know baby stuff. Some parents who actually have babies still struggle to change a diaper. Skill is skill, lol.
However, that job does seem professional, and itâs really the companyâs fault for hiring people with zero experience & all moms! Despite all that, Da-rim works her butt off and shows her boss and her colleagues what she and her team are capable of. Honestly, without her, those moms with zero experience wouldnât stand a chance, lol.đ
I know right! The hate for Darim feels so forced đ. Like letâs focus on her talent and hard work instead of spreading negativity. Haters really need to chill đđ
So basically this drana boils down to - is chronic lying ok or not? Should Da Rim be held accountable for her…
Lying is definitely wrong from a moral perspective. But what really hit me about Da-rim is how much sheâs struggling, to the point of almost taking her own life because she couldnât find a job. Most people her age, or even younger, already have stable jobs or families, and she doesnât. The unfairness of that, especially in todayâs biased and extremely competitive job market, really stood out to me.
Her struggle reflects a reality many of us face now: opportunities are scarce, and sometimes survival feels impossible. She kept thinking about how she would survive if she didnât lie. Of course she knows lying is wrong, any child knows that, but as adults, sometimes survival forces impossible choices. She canât just âloseâ to the job market or sell her organs, thatâs not even humanly acceptable. The government isnât helping her, so what else could she do? How would anyone handle that if they were in her shoes?
And about her not telling Ji Hyeok, she didnât really know him yet. Meeting someone briefly on Jeju Island doesnât exactly inspire full trust. Anyone in their right mind wouldnât trust a man they just met, even if thereâs attraction. She almost slept with him because she was drawn to him, not because she trusted him, LMaoo. To me, thatâs what makes her so relatable. Sheâs making bad choices under impossible circumstances, and while that doesnât excuse lying morally, it shows just how human and real her struggles are.
there's no equality in this non-relationship. I'm not even talking about how he's her boss or the class differences.…
Ji Hyeok definitely falls first and harder but just because Da-rim takes longer to respond doesnât mean she doesnât care. Her life has always been about getting by, taking care of her mom, and handling her responsibilities, so it makes sense that she doesnât have the headspace to think about love the way he does. Sheâs never experienced being loved like he loves her, so she literally doesnât know what to do with it yet.
Thatâs actually what makes their relationship so interesting to me. He can throw himself into love without holding back, while she has to slowly learn, through her own struggles, that she deserves it. Watching her grow and catch up emotionally is part of her journey, not a weakness. And when she finally reaches that point, it makes their connection feel real and earned, instead of just happening overnight.
I agree with what you wrote. Regarding the ML, he is facing this moral dilemma: his forbidden love (which we can…
It definitely was one lie (lying about her marital status), but that lie turned into a bigger lie, something she needs to act it out. But at the same time, we have to look at Da Rim too. She didnât keep lying because she wanted to hurt anyone; she was scared of losing her job, insecure, and kept digging herself deeper. She is not even sure if someone as rich as ML is into her. This whole situation is not right, but it explains why she froze every time she had the chance to confess.
And saying the audience is âaggressively defendingâ her just because they understand her situation better than you⊠thatâs not a critique, thatâs just you being mad people donât agree with you.
Da-Rim doesnât lie about big things to manipulate or hurt people, she lies out of panic, insecurity, and survival mode (the only victim is ML since he develop feelings for her). Her intentions is not to hurt anyone, she just canât think of any other way. She doesnât even know ML is hurting because of her as well. For her colleagues, I donât think they will hate her after finding out due to understanding her situation.
Yeah, she could have told ML when she opened up about her personal problems, but from her POV, that moment was already vulnerable enough. Admitting the fake husband thing means risking her job, her dignity, and the only financial stability she has while taking care of her mom. (If I were her I would tell ML the truth and tell him to keep it secret until ML finds another way to support her). I admit she is not too smart. We also have to consider Da-rim as a strong independent girl. What if she thinks she doesnât deserve the support? ML might be able to help her now, sure, but her mindset might be different. I support both Da Rim and Ji Hyeok characters. I hope both of them found a solution.
Yeah, she could have told JH when she opened up about her personal problems, but from her POV, that moment was already vulnerable enough. Admitting the fake husband thing means risking her job, her dignity, and the only financial stability she has while taking care of her mom. JH might be able to help her now, sure, but Darim doesnât see herself as someone who deserves that kind of support. That mindset matters.
The first one I dove into was Bon Appetit, Your Majesty. At that moment, I was like, âYes! This is my top pick!â But then came Dear X, and I was totally convinced that this one stole the crown⊠until Dynamite Kiss dropped. Oh man, that drama? A solid 10/10 for me lol.
Her struggle reflects a reality many of us face now: opportunities are scarce, and sometimes survival feels impossible. She kept thinking about how she would survive if she didnât lie. Of course she knows lying is wrong, any child knows that, but as adults, sometimes survival forces impossible choices. She canât just âloseâ to the job market or sell her organs, thatâs not even humanly acceptable. The government isnât helping her, so what else could she do? How would anyone handle that if they were in her shoes?
And about her not telling Ji Hyeok, she didnât really know him yet. Meeting someone briefly on Jeju Island doesnât exactly inspire full trust. Anyone in their right mind wouldnât trust a man they just met, even if thereâs attraction. She almost slept with him because she was drawn to him, not because she trusted him, LMaoo.
To me, thatâs what makes her so relatable. Sheâs making bad choices under impossible circumstances, and while that doesnât excuse lying morally, it shows just how human and real her struggles are.
Like, seriously, people lie all the time to get a job. Lying about skills? Sure, thatâs bad and can tank a company, but a job has nothing to do with marital status or whether you have a baby. Honestly, Ji Hyeokâs older sister just picked those candidates to make life harder for her brother, classic sibling sabotage. And come on, just because you donât have a baby doesnât mean you donât know baby stuff. Some parents who actually have babies still struggle to change a diaper. Skill is skill, lol.
However, that job does seem professional, and itâs really the companyâs fault for hiring people with zero experience & all moms! Despite all that, Da-rim works her butt off and shows her boss and her colleagues what she and her team are capable of. Honestly, without her, those moms with zero experience wouldnât stand a chance, lol.đ
Her struggle reflects a reality many of us face now: opportunities are scarce, and sometimes survival feels impossible. She kept thinking about how she would survive if she didnât lie. Of course she knows lying is wrong, any child knows that, but as adults, sometimes survival forces impossible choices. She canât just âloseâ to the job market or sell her organs, thatâs not even humanly acceptable. The government isnât helping her, so what else could she do? How would anyone handle that if they were in her shoes?
And about her not telling Ji Hyeok, she didnât really know him yet. Meeting someone briefly on Jeju Island doesnât exactly inspire full trust. Anyone in their right mind wouldnât trust a man they just met, even if thereâs attraction. She almost slept with him because she was drawn to him, not because she trusted him, LMaoo.
To me, thatâs what makes her so relatable. Sheâs making bad choices under impossible circumstances, and while that doesnât excuse lying morally, it shows just how human and real her struggles are.
Thatâs actually what makes their relationship so interesting to me. He can throw himself into love without holding back, while she has to slowly learn, through her own struggles, that she deserves it. Watching her grow and catch up emotionally is part of her journey, not a weakness. And when she finally reaches that point, it makes their connection feel real and earned, instead of just happening overnight.