Itās not as simple as one person being right or wrong. Lu Feng made serious mistakes and crossed boundaries, but Xiao Chengās lack of clarity and avoidance also played a role in how things fell apart. The situation is messy because both of them handled their emotions poorly in different ways thatās what makes their story so complex. And honestly, the fact that weāre this emotionally invested, even to the point of saying we hate a character, just shows how well the director has portrayed them. Actors acted well!!! No harsh comments, we can be optimistic please!!
Lu Feng left his dad for his love, why cant xioa cheng think one min of that! And about the letter by lu feng.…
Iām not saying Lu Feng is a saint! he clearly made mistakes. But reducing everything to āitās all his faultā ignores the emotional complexity of what happened. People donāt act irrationally in a vacuum they act out of fear, attachment, and desperation. Lu Feng didnāt just try to control Xiao Cheng for no reason, he was scared of losing him, especially after everything he had already sacrificed. Was that healthy? No. But it was still a very human response. At the same time, Xiao Cheng isnāt completely blameless either. Avoiding clarity, not communicating properly, and leaving things unresolved also played a role in how things unfolded. Relationships donāt fall apart because of just one person itās usually both sides contributing in different ways. So itās not about defending Lu Feng blindly itās about acknowledging that both of them made choices that led to this outcome. Calling one ātoxicā and the other āinnocentā just oversimplifies a complicated relationship.
No harsh comments, we can be optimistic please!!