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Lol, yes it is.
Looking forward to all of this.

Thank you for pointing this out. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yes, I like the message as well. Very sensible.
I wish LiangHan hadn't gone so far as to keep her thinking she was captured all night.
My first thought after seeing that scene was that she must have been so scared of being killed, raped or sold off, as well as worrying about the fate of her sister. That was a terrible idea from them both, I'm glad she found out and dealt with him.

That is one thing most people are deliberately ignoring about this drama, the MLs barely ever get away with their antics. The FLs call them out on their nonsense and dole out punishments.

1pm for me.
But I don't know if our timezones are different.
Just check the timer on MDL, it should be the corresponding time.

My advice to people that want to check this drama out and are sceptical because of the wave of negative comments, as usual, try out the first few episodes and if you don't like it, drop it.

Of course they won't mention that, only the men have flaws, the women are perfect angels descended from heaven and walk on water as well, they can do no wrong. 🙄🙄🙄

I think the Li family's son will return and they'll be together. If you watch the ending credits, you'll see it.

LOL 😂😂😂
Resorting to snide comments now.
If you're not alright with it, drop it. Don't be talking smack here.

And besides, not everyone that is here is alright with the MLs actions. We just know and acknowledge that humans can be very bad sometimes but they should also be given the chance to grow and be better versions of themselves. Have any of the MLs killed anyone? Beaten up the females? Raped any of them?
If they had, I would bid good riddance to this drama as well.

Even when Chai An kicked the ball towards 3rd daughter's head, if you watch that part again he didn't do it with huge force because he didn't really want to hurt her. Compare the force with when she kicked it back at him.

And finally, FYI although I watched WTPR and you'll see it in my watchlist, I didn't enjoy it as much as most people did, I barely saw the last episodes. And for QOT, didn't bother with it at all.

Exactly.
Please, for those of us enjoying how the drama is going, let's keep the discussions about the relevant aspects of it and stay away from arguing about the same thing over and over.

It's because of the back and forth with all these complaints. Only few people are even able to talk about what is actually happening and the progress the drama is making. 😫😫😫

There is so much to still unpack.

Oh, I can tell you that some of us do defend the FLs. I remember when Fireworks of my heart was airing. The FL was bashed from beginning to end. Me and a few other users tried to defend her, she wasn't so bad imo, I could understand her because she had a terribly controlling mother (her mother was insufferable).

I didn't eventually finish it though because one of my favourite characters was killed, which was not how it went in the novel. I was mad.

Watch the video again, he wasn't beating her, he was going to hit someone else and she tried to protect the person and got hit instead.
It is a short video without any context.

That spoiler video making the rounds could be misleading. Why make conclusions from an 11 second video without any context?

Honestly, it pains me that we live in such an age where everyone is so impatient and judgemental.

I just knew that marriage issue was going too smoothly in the beginning. I was dreading what was to come. My heart broke for them both.
But she is right, when you marry someone, you marry their families as well. 😩😩😩

The many many many complaints and rants about this drama brings me to put forward the question "What level of abuse towards female characters by the ML in dramas is acceptable/manageable/tolerable?"

I know everyone will have different levels of tolerance, we can't all be the same.

Most people have complaints that the MLs here are abusive (I am not excusing that dummy Yang Xian). While most of us if we check out our Watchlists, we have dramas like Moonlight mystique, Blossom, LBFAD, TTEOTM, My Journey to you, etc. These dramas are just a few amongst many where the ML either choked, tortured or almost killed the FL in the beginning before warming up to them.
So, what is the deal about Perfect match?

Just a question o.

And the way he was smiling at her. So captivating.

Concerning Chai An as a businessman, I don't see why he should have to yield or go easy on them because they are a family of a widow and her daughters, business is business.
Big companies and businesses try to one-up their competitors all the time. It's no big deal.
Even when he tricked her mother, he returned the money, meanwhile she also tricked him back. She matched him aura for aura.

Who beat who?
There are no wife-beaters in this drama so far.

'if the historical drama doesnt show challenges for the women to overcome by themselves, is it historical only for the aesthetic? we have xianxia for that'

Thank you for this statement, it's exactly what I was thinking.
Also, if the Male characters don't have any flaws, how can we see their growth?
What's the point of the drama then? In this century, people aren't perfect, not to talk of portrayals of men that lived many years ago in a patriarchal society.
Come on, give us a break.
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Lol, they both enjoy the 'rivalry'. They're definitely flirting with one another and I'm all here for it, except now that Liang buffoon has caused a serious misunderstanding 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️