She feels so useless, because she as a character has no goals and needs other than Tang Lici... not a very good…
We’re already at episode 18, and she still doesn’t have distinct character traits or an agenda outside of TLC. Even if her backstory gets revealed later, it’s still weak writing not to give any clues by now.
I also said she feels useless, not that she is, but as a character, she revolves completely around TLC, and he’s her only focus. That’s not limited to her either; it’s the same with Chi Yun, Shen Langhun, and even Liu Yan. It’s honestly disappointing because the show has potential for deeper, more layered characters but right now it just seems like your typical Liu Yun Xi drama... 90% at the center.
And about the idea that “people just don’t want the ML to interact closely with women,” that’s quite a dismissive and frankly misogynistic way to frame valid criticism. Many of us want to see strong, well-written female characters who can stand beside male leads as equals, not just orbit them. Wanting better female representation isn’t about jealousy; it’s about wanting quality writing and agency.
The “damsel in need” archetype with no inner drive or unique identity feels outdated. I’d love to see her and the other characters get more independent goals, choices, and internal struggles. That’s what gives characters real weight and makes dramas more meaningful too.
The hate on Ashui here is crazy. Well sorry to disappoint you, she is an important character. Her abilities to…
She feels so useless, because she as a character has no goals and needs other than Tang Lici... not a very good written character despite her abilities. It's a shame... without Tang Lici she would have nothing at this point 😬
100% agree about everything you said and I am still at ep 20 so far... but how could people enjoy this drama so much honestly. It baffles me that this is considered one of the best Cdramas 😭
Dropped that one at episode 27. I remember it vividly because I was so near the end but I couldn't force myself…
I am sorry that people accused you of being a troll. The community usually is very defensive when a drama they like gets criticized but they just do not know the art of criticism. Unfortunately the people here almost love every drama... they probably haven't seen top notch dramas or they just really do not know the difference but do not let that deceive you. I usually do not read 10/10 ratings and or the comment section but the feeds are very welcoming when it comes to criticism. Very brave that you bought the book though? Can I ask why? 😂 I mean seemingly, you did not like the drama at all.
Really good review! 😊 It tried to be feministic but failed so miserably. And what bugged me the most was, she was a man her whole life and when she needed to be a woman again, she had 0 problems with that. And I thought Lost You Forever was bad a portraying that.
Exactly! him trying to rape Da Bao is also really disgusting. kills the mood for me every f. time
what do you mean? he tries to have sex with him every time even if Da Bao is just sleeping in the same bed with him. That is not tempting him... that is normally spending time with him.
He did not threaten to SA Shuai , he said he will go after GCY's person( i.e., pursue the person GCY likes). He…
so he was anxious to not sleep with Da Bao... this doesn't make it better no matter what you are saying man. Of course Da Bao should want on his own. what do you mean he is forcing him this way now?
I am still at ep 20 where they marry, but you are so right! This drama could never be a 10 🥲 other small characters get more screen time than the leads... such a waste
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I also said she feels useless, not that she is, but as a character, she revolves completely around TLC, and he’s her only focus. That’s not limited to her either; it’s the same with Chi Yun, Shen Langhun, and even Liu Yan. It’s honestly disappointing because the show has potential for deeper, more layered characters but right now it just seems like your typical Liu Yun Xi drama... 90% at the center.
And about the idea that “people just don’t want the ML to interact closely with women,” that’s quite a dismissive and frankly misogynistic way to frame valid criticism. Many of us want to see strong, well-written female characters who can stand beside male leads as equals, not just orbit them. Wanting better female representation isn’t about jealousy; it’s about wanting quality writing and agency.
The “damsel in need” archetype with no inner drive or unique identity feels outdated. I’d love to see her and the other characters get more independent goals, choices, and internal struggles. That’s what gives characters real weight and makes dramas more meaningful too.
Very brave that you bought the book though? Can I ask why? 😂 I mean seemingly, you did not like the drama at all.