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It’s ok. Yeah I don’t understand why they couldn’t warm water up whether it’s summer or winter. Actors can act cold as opposed to the other way around where the water is freezing whether it’s the summer or the winter and then you have an actor that may get very sick. It doesn’t make any sense. If you have the extra change, you can definitely warm up water or add layers to winter costumes or take away layers for summer costumes.

Those are for winter production. I don’t get it either. Especially if the production has money.

I know they filmed back in 2023. The phones are product placement too. LYN wore a lot of Chanel jackets which he doesn’t endorse nor fit his character. Should have focused on the show now weird clothes placement.

I forgot where they filmed.

Thought process on production not the show or storyline; they filmed in the dead of summer but literally everyone for the most part wears long sleeves, pants and sometimes even sweaters. This is a modern drama. If you’re filming in the summer, dress appropriately. It’s not a costume drama, with layers regardless of season. I’ve seen similar stuff in winter filmed moderns; they pretend it’s warm outside but in btwn takes, wear heavy ass jackets freezing cold. I don’t get it. Modern dramas should have appropriate costumes for the weather as they have that option to play with. Don’t know why 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Neither; I think he’s waiting for her to open up herself and tell him. He respects her enough to let her have her space and be comfortable to tell him. Something we see little of here is respect for others and their feelings, relationships, etc.

Oooo bad girl you lol. 😝 Yeah I had a naughty streak in my hay day. I did read what you wrote; Gong is def a no. He’s artistic and he comes through for his friends but he’s a total loony tune lol. If you think about it he and Bei are total polar opposites and they have this unspoken language where they understand each other very well hence they’re able to stay friends. But most of the time I feel Bei wants to toss him down some stairs 😂. And I feel him lol. Gong is the realistic yet dramatic comic relief doofus of the group that we need. But to now understandably you and me, not dating material. I’d love to be friends with someone that eccentric and loyal to his own extent but that’s it. Everyone else (Bei not included) is a hot mess lol.

Personally for me, maybe it’s age but he’s not boring. I’d rather have a green flag like him than any of these other colorful ones with issues they keep creating for themselves. Red/morally gray flags are just not my cup of tea anymore. I’m no one’s mom nor therapist. Those are either available through parents or found through Google lol. I think They added ML as the green flag to balance out both FL and his friends. He learns as he goes. I think his flaw is not letting go of the past (his ex) because he never got closure so for her to appear in his life; that’s coming soon, will throw his world and relationship upside down. He’ll have to figure out whether he wants to live in the past or let go of his obsession and be with the woman he loves now.

That’s another topic discussed here; obsession. Like SD is with MM or the marriage trio. Everyone is a psychology case lol. But yeah give me the “boring”green flag (Weibo manhua readers also want him; think there’s a line lol), yall can have the rest.

Exactly. She’s the third wheel that keeps inserting herself when she’s unnecessary. If she loved AX as she claims, she would let him work out his marriage and whether he wants to stay or go instead of dangling herself in front of him making the dilemma worse. She’s the temptress. She’s not making things better; she’s not being the higher or better person by just letting go; she’s holding on to someone that isn’t hers and being selfish about it.

With one tall dude to measure lol.

Agreed. Sometimes just setting each other free is the absolute best choice because then you really have the options to explore every option. Sticking around just out of habit or whatever does not and won’t necessarily help unless you are very willing to work hard on the marriage and this has to come from both sides. And let the third party drift away. No verbal abuse, no playing dirty and making the other person feel even more rotten than they already do but real actual work with a licensed professional. I mean, there wouldn’t be any marriage counselors out there had that need not been there.

Other than therapy, I think that all three need to just separate and go three separate directions until they can figure out exactly what they want and whether they want to be together with anyone. AX so far has been getting the best deal because he’s not choosing one woman or the other woman meanwhile, the women one is obviously his wife, and she should be getting his primary attention and everything else while the other one I don’t even know what they are to each other to be honest. LL just seems like a temptress that as soon as AX tries to distance himself away she pulls some kind of sub story or routine to get him back claiming that she loves him, but at the same time also saying that he needs her. I think it’s become a parasitic relationship between the three. Whether AX and LL have slept together or not is beside the point, but it’s not all innocent either. It’s not like they just chill and make music and what not there’s a certain level of intimacy there that he should be reserving for his wife, not the side piece.

But he and his wife have to sit down with a marriage counselor and talk out whatever it is that they need to talk out. Because it seems like every single time they start to have some form of conversation it turns into an argument, and then it’s verbal abuse from her side and then he just runs away and nothing gets resolved. Plus that whole going to see LL’s play was incredibly spiteful and stupid and not a way to make a man whose ego is already pretty fractured in the marriage. Want to be there longer Plus that whole going to see LL‘s play was incredibly spiteful and stupid and not a way to make a man who’s ego is already pretty fractured in the marriage. Want to be there longer. He definitely got himself into that mess, but the wife isn’t helping. People are seeing her as just the victim, but she’s really not. There’s plenty of stuff that she has done that she has gone back on her word as well. A small example was before they got married they talked about having a dog after they got married she refused to until just recently. I’m not really sure what her deal is either. Does she want to stay married or is she just afraid of being single after so long. In any case everybody needs therapy and hopefully they will figure themselves out by the time the show ends probably next week at some point lol.

Some food for thought for us viewers; if AX never met LL; would he and Yu be any less miserable? LL is an added complication but the problems in their marriage don’t stem from just her alone. I think that’s something Yu may not have thought of. It’s convenient to blame LL but they have a boatload of issues from money problems to total lack of communication and so forth that has nothing to do with her.

ZLH in general gear: https://weibo.com/7967655953/5272707983737607

Now why couldn’t they show us this even with out the obvious BS under covers lol: https://weibo.com/7316846334/5272715503078263

That’s what I said I think yesterday or the day before this entire group of people needs therapy first singularly and then if they’re in a relationship like they’re married couple. lol.

I think both LL and MM are self absorbed.

Complicated clothing bts lol: https://weibo.com/7967655953/5272685305401246

Me too. She needs to stop her little tests and live what she wants and tell her bf the truth.

What Yu did with the play left a bad taste in my mouth. She was being spiteful a lot like the verbal abuse she deploys when frustrated. Not a great tactic for working things out. Gong to the rescue for everyone lol; does LL’s costar have to be another scumbag?

I hope little sister doesn’t become a thorn in our leads side just because of what she wants. She’s smart enough to know that if she does something to harm the relationship, she’s going to lose the friendship with the ML that she supposedly treasures. Yet she’s still nosy as hell; bringing up ML’s sore subject. I don’t like her and hope she goes away soon. The fact that she actually told the FL that if they break up, she has some sort of a chance with ML and I’m like that kind of talk is like the ML has no say in who he dates. Yes he does. He’s already told this chick he doesn’t like her, never did so instead of acting like a nosy threat with FL and ML she should just keep her damn distance. But the fact how everyone runs into the most unnecessary people in this show is definitely meant to make things more uncomfortable, and spin more webs when you need to start un spinning them. Is their city really that small?