GySgt213

Well, the show didn't really need 3 idiots in one family.

Trying to solve everything yourself does not make you strong, responsible or wise. Knowing when you need help and asking for help and support does. There is this thing in some cultures that you don't burden anyone else with what might be considered your problems. I personally feel this type of mindset makes people feel very lonely during tough times.

I sure wish they had wrote is character as a little bit more responsible. At least have with the ability to keep a job even if it was low paying and he still has to live with his parents. As it is, he is way too old to not even be able to keep a waiter or delivery driver gig. It's hard to root for someone who fails at everything.

I should add though I do like the fact he knows his mom is an idiot. Not saying much since everyone does, but still.

I do think the writers made NY too one-dimensional. She is just all evil intentions and no other sides to her. I find it hard to believe she even cares about the baby she is carrying because I have seen no real affection from towards anything or anyone. No humor.

I hope the cracks have finally started. HS needs to redeem himself by opening his mouth also. JS gave him the perfect chance to spill the tea.

If you still need a recap:

There was a lot of discussion between DY, DR, SJ and WR about the pregnancy. DR still has not told her mom yet and SJ and WR agreed to give her time to spill the bean her self.

WR and DY had a heart to heart where DY said he would take responsibility. WR listened to him but also told him how difficult it would be for him to win over both families.

The Hans had a ceremony for WR bio dad who passed away of course. JT told WR everything about the situation.

NY got caught by SJ in her office looking at the research she was doing on WR's disappearance as a child. SJ let her know she can see through her lies from now on or something to that effect. Anyway she of course is spilling the beans to JT about SJ still doing her investigation.

Since it was a holiday SJ and WR showed up at the Jin's. NY and HS were already there but I don't think anyone was expecting SJ and WR because they were caught off guard. JS ended up spilling the beans during dinner that they knew about WR being MR's lost son before anyone in the Han family knew which SJ caught on to right away and the episode ended with her asking JS to explain himself and HS and NY and NY's mom looking all kind of nervous.

Someone can fix if I got anything wrong or left out something important.

Well, I have quit dramas before and waited for the end because the tropes can be so tiring to watch, the breakups that don't solve anything, the angry interfering parents with their he or she is not good enough bullshit, the trucks of doom, the going off to the states where email, text and letters don't exist.

I don't think I would mind them so much if they didn't show up in almost every K-drama making it seem like you are watching the same K-drama over and over again only with different actors each time.

OMG. Is SJ going to put the pin on WR? ????? I was going to suggesting bringing it out at the dinner table in front of everyone but this is good too. Also, NY's and JT's plans are starting to develop cracks. Finally.

That was before he calmed down and talked to him. Of course, he was pissed.

HA. Loved the look on their faces when SJ and WR showed up at the Jin's and took the spotlight away from NY and pissed off her mom to boot.

I am glad WR treated DY more like a big brother instead of just bashing and giving him a hard time for the pregnancy. I hope and it looks like to me, DY figured out for himself he has to grow up if he wants to take responsibility.

I must say the drink until you blackout and forced drinking scenes are so irresponsibly portrayed. Almost always the truly terrible consequences that can from this type of behavior are not shown.

Of course showing adults in their late 20s and 30s acting like middle schoolers when it comes to intimacy is standard.

A key and often frustrating element of K-dramas is to not share information with others who should know. The person withholding the information always has what they think is a compelling reason to do so. This is almost always used to drag out scenarios that could be easily resolved or prevent people from working together to solve an issue too quickly.

We should send HS down the Yellow Brick Road to see the Wizzard for a backbone and brain.

WR is a grown man, both SY and SJ are wrong for hiding things from him.

You are so right. Everyone needs their own space. Even in the closest families there will be conflict.

I hope this not the tool they use to bring the families together. Not to have NY and her mother pay for 100 plus episodes of evil is just wrong.

HS can't handle NY in Korea or the U.S. Doesn't matter. He is better off getting a divorce , kid or no kid. NY is on a runaway train to self-destruction. She has a severe mental disorder that won't be fixed by changing countries.

You would think she would trying her best to win the girl over. She even knows the girl does not like her from the start. So, it would make sense to change her impression of her since she has lost her own baby and will need anyone she can get in her corner when it comes time to get her out.

What made PMR so enjoyable for me was the way it was written. The couple was presented with a challenge from the evil side each episode which they then had to work together to solve by the end of the episode. You never got bored because the same issue was unresolved for long stretches of the drama.