I have no knowledge of martial arts or any form of defense whatsoever but I can never understand how fl is able…
Just like Xie Zheng explained, it's not about being stronger or bigger, it's about the movements, the nuances. There are several martial arts cause of that. Depending on the movements you can outperform anyone. Changyu explained some episodes ago, and Tian Xi Wei does the same to lift her male co-stars (she said it), she doesn't use strength, but kinda uses her body to be able to move fluidly + lift weight. It's about knowing how to use your core, your thighs, your waist, and where to use more weight, where to use less.
Owwwn, my baby Bao'er felt so safe when his uncle Yan appeared. He acted just like Ning did when she saw Changyu, he started telling him what the 'bad person' did🥺😭
You know what else I feel iffy about is the physical violence. Like if it's a bad guy, go for it. But if it's…
I've never seen males slapping females, not even in modern drama iirc. And you're right. I felt uncomfortable when he held her hand very tight till he bled, so why didn't I feel uncomfortable with her slapping him? Double standards are dangerous. But I'm thankful for this opportunity to learn. God bless you
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* cuts the eunuch's ear *
Zheng: the only one that can order me is my wife
Changyu explained some episodes ago, and Tian Xi Wei does the same to lift her male co-stars (she said it), she doesn't use strength, but kinda uses her body to be able to move fluidly + lift weight. It's about knowing how to use your core, your thighs, your waist, and where to use more weight, where to use less.
2. Xie Zheng
3. Changning
And you're right. I felt uncomfortable when he held her hand very tight till he bled, so why didn't I feel uncomfortable with her slapping him?
Double standards are dangerous. But I'm thankful for this opportunity to learn. God bless you