Noy

The person who can save you...is...yourself *

No truer words.....our surroundings can be a catalyst, guide, hint....tool....ect...

But at the end...it is on us how....if we chose to use those tools/resources....how things affect us....

This drama is not about solving others ppl problems.....

It's giving highlights...reminders ...of issues that exists....

Can make ppl look within themselves....to see how they can save themselves

I.e.

AAA - sponsors and counselor....are mostly recovering addict

Many ppl who volunteer or work at suicide center...were suicidal

1 of the best speaker i listened to was Kevin Hines....he survived his suicide attempt

His book - Cracked not broken

He's a wonderful speaker...ppl should ....look him up on YT

Same

That is the neighborhood that knows him

It is not a show about psychiatrists....

I understand wanting to know more...mental health issues is a long battle and process

These characters are just a tool...a catalyst.....a reminder to those in are at that wits end.....either they want to continue or move forward.

I work in the mental health field.... I'm their catalyst and resource ....but that is all i can do... it is on them...if they really want it...their desire and motivation for the process of change

A psychiatrist also can't solve the person problem...they are also just a tool...they can help process things...guide...med

Also you need to find a good one to match.

I don't follow all their processes....you're not suppose to....to get that emotionally invested is harmful

Again in the end it depends on the individual person...how much they want it...motivated

Many of us are dog lover....they are a family...i loved that ep

They are helping ppl want to find the solution and work on it.

They are not psychiatrist.....

But we all need that base ans push to realize if we want to do it or not...they are in a sense "tools" to help them try...move forward

I work in the mental health field....we can't solve it for those
who are suffering....we
can provide them tools.....

I.e....they show intervention....they confort the the ppl...but majority of these people don't succeed because didn't really really want it...there was not a big catalyst for a change

Like myself....i can provide them that push...but that catalyst....but at the end ...it is on the person....if they succeed on how much they want...their motivation

These characters are reminding them....showing them...to come to that realization they want to do that...they want to move forward

I felt they did well not to focus on the romance....it was a sub plot back story.

I actually found the mother episode too long and got bored with that.

The story was fine...it should have been 1 ep...i felt like 3 ep focusing on that

I love all the focus on the characters and what they arw going through

He needed them to be sane.....

They push for him to be a better person

The situation puts their family in danger.....

It is selfish and easier for all...to when the tie..is cut... you need to go cold turkey

The child live with a stigma...trauma

Who is her dad Gf....they barely know each other....1st meeting...she insulted a dad and his child

The girl is 11 ? It is hard for that bond and rapport. It can take years....or it won't happen

I see it in many step families....they don't achieve that bonding esp. When the child is older

A current family i work with...the step daughter is ok with the step mom...but they don't have that bond....

I can see she doesn't fully have that type of relationship

Are they airing back to back?

There is no love bond between touch and nuch.

She is there for a purpose...solely to make a baby.

Everything was rushed....someone can just cut off their feelings like that.

Touch....himself had a hard time getting over shane.....

So when touch does the same thing....it is not nasty? Shameful?

I don't think any of the 3 main leads were such. All 3 of them tried really hard to move on and forgot their love....it is not an easy thing to do....esp...for the main leads...they live in the same household and see each other everyday

They all tried to restrain themselves. The main leads...finalized the "ending " on ep 6. They recognize that the time is past and they need to do their duties.

Touch ans Nuch....don't have a romantic relationship ....physically or mentally. They both love other people. Touch still think/image about his ex.

They have a bonding like siblings

Just like touch who is having a hard time when he sees his ex....these 2 exes sees each other everyday and is also having a hard time....none of the 3 main characters has malice intent towards each other

ML love his brother a lot and you see their good relationships that we don't see in other drama. They both cry with and for each other. Comfort and support each other.....their relationship as brothers was beautiful

He misunderstood her intentions and thought she was scheming

He also didn't esculate it

Tre did well with his crying scene....emote well....i love thr loving relationship with the brother....we usually don't see that as much...

It is decent.....

☆love the Main leads
☆I like the brothers
☆ML and his friends

I haven't really watched a lakorn in yrs as well....

1st time watching Tre....and I'm a fan.

Fern is good too.

I do feel like it is a lil slow...the revolving/repeating family drama....

I hate angst and the actors did well here...

I do ffw the nonsense family drama

I don't like the cliche ...trope of the gay relationship. As in there is always cheating/betrayal and unhappy ending.

Even in BL drama. They do sequels and make they cheat on each other...ect....my bro who is gay would tell me how he is no longer interested in the series becausw they always have them cheat on each other and make it seems like gays are mostly promiscuous.

The subtle smile and smirk... the love glaze

When he smirk... knowing she told ppl they are dating

Relationship is not a Disney....fairy-tale...or kdrama rom com

Those rom com isn't sustainable in real life.

Ok....so some ppl are saying TY should stop apologizing anymore...it is now pestering

I agree...the writer needs to do better and chill it out

She is maing JY upset in seeing her

....but ....JY chose to come back...to that organization because TY is there.....that is her whole purpose of coming back....

She looked at her article

I feel bad for both

It was an accident...but these ppl are 2 grown adult...1 is older...FL...looked up to her

Both has personal responsibilities.

FL is always willing to take the responsibilities.

In earlier Ep the Ex wanted to expose it. She said fo ahead but you know JY didn't want that...again both ppl are honoring her words....that is how much she means to them

I wish the writer had this conflict without adding malice/revenge

I feel it would be more meaningful of what both ppl are going through.

Have her (jy) back and she can be hostile for what happen to you. It is understandable. She don't have to accept her or anything. But she needs to go through her shit and deal with her new circumstances

Both have to go thorough it and deal with the new circumstances

But jy is manipulating...shaming and being cruel to everyone. I don't care what you go through...it's not ok to be an assholes to all

I work in the mental health field. I tell my client ...its ok to have that anger...but not ok to project it to all

Or me... I'm moody on my period...don't mean it justified me being a bitch to others

Ok....so some ppl are saying TY should stop apologizing anymore...it is now pestering

I agree...the writer needs to do better and chill it out

She is maing JY upset in seeing her

....but ....JY chose to come back...to that organization because TY is there.....that is her whole purpose of coming back....

She looked at her article

I feel bad for both

It was an accident...but these ppl are 2 grown adult...1 is older...FL...looked up to her

Both has personal responsibilities.

FL is always willing to take the responsibilities.

In earlier Ep the Ex wanted to expose it. She said fo ahead but you know JY didn't want that...again both ppl are honoring her words....that is how much she means to them

I wish the writer had this conflict without adding malice/revenge

I feel it would be more meaningful of what both ppl are going through.

Have her (jy) back and she can be hostile for what happen to you. It is understandable. She don't have to accept her or anything. But she needs to go through her shit and deal with her new circumstances

Both have to go thorough it and deal with the new circumstances

But jy is manipulating...shaming and being cruel to everyone. I don't care what you go through...it's not ok to be an assholes to all

I work in the mental health field. I tell my client ...its ok to have that anger...but not ok to project it to all

Or me... I'm moody on my period...don't mean it justified me being a bitch to others

I feel the writer cheapen it ...when they add the malice intent/revenge aspect

Also...why is she soo cruel to ex who is soo caring to her

I feel she can add conflict without the cruelty

I sympathize with both...

But JY has malice intent and is cruel...she is cruel to her ex...her bro...for no reason

If they didn't make her getting revenge and being cruel....it would have been a bettet storyline

I.e. they got to resolve their issues....with time...characters growth....

There can be conflict with out the revenge and malice intentions

That would have been better /different

Jy don't want that though

Ty said to him earlier on...i don't care if it is exposed.... but you know JY don't want that

I'll hold him tight and will never let go!