" why never any of his costars or people who worked with him mentioned about his bad behavior." With this much…
How am i defending him? I have never watched him as an actor and isn't his fan girl. Believe or not is irrelevant to me. I have no emotional connections with the actor.
Did i said he isn't wrong and shouldn't be responsible. Nope...
Just because i pointed out Asian culture being toxic. Fuck ya they are. I lived it. Anyone who watched kdrama seen it as well.
Korean ban porn....yet also sexualize kpop/celebrities
They try to ban and cancel an actress who post a book about feminist.
Sulli - suicide because she was bullied for not meeting the korean standard (she was out spoken)
The person pose a question.....i responded with possible senario.
And fact i know.
I know nothing. I'm an outsider who read what is display.
I know he Bully in middle school. Those who is involved knows best. And whatever evidences or spoken words.... I'm not judge or jury
Another fact i know is the frontal cortex in our brain isn't fully developed. Any one in human growth and development /psychology major would know.
Fact. He did something wrong in middle school. To what extend only him and the others ppl knows.
That is all any of us really knows.
Should he have karma /responsibility for his actions. Yes. But i don't believe it should be damnation for life.
Asian culture is toxic as hell. I lived it. Parents bulling you. Your neighbors.
Koreans just ban ppl and never look at the source. Their culture.
How many kdrama displays these abuse.... the characters with abusing parents are also the bully. Heck they normalize some of these toxic behaviors.
I watched uncanny carrier....i thought one of the best scenes at the end was the Bully....he was shown kindness and a different way and he changed.....he was shown that is was wrong and not normal.
I'm not excusing any behaviors.... I'm not his fan girl or even seen his drama.
He should reap what he sow....but I'll reframe from condemnation. He will get whatever karma and hope it holds a valuable lesson.
But the issue is the culture....they need to use this as a better teachable moment. Of showing ramifications and redemption
Robert downey jr. That man was broken...drugs...ect....he changed....some1 gave him a chance ...iron man...it probably saved him life.
The asian culture is the issue. Don't get me started on thai drama....hitting and rape is a norm. Parents are the biggest controller and bullies.....i lived that life.... I'm lucky I'm in America and not stuck in the asian culture criteria.
I had a friend who was korean and committed suicide in high school. Pressure from home was too much.
My now sister in law....was dating my brother. She was 25? 26? Her dad harrassed them...drove by beeping non stop...banging on the door...threatening us.
My dad beat my mom....my bro in law hits my sister....keep them in line....according to their culture it is their right. There is a saying " i hit you because of love you. "
My parents hitted me. I stayed after school for detention and was accused of being a bad person. I was not the Asian girl that i was suppose to be. Obedient...cook and clean...ect...i was put down by my older siblings because i was " americanize".
My brother struggled during his teen years because he is gay. Had to hide it. It is not acceptable in asian culture.
My parents did change as they got older....also because i showed them something different. I taught them something different by setting boundaries. My brother told them he is gay a few year back and they accept it. My brother in law who is old school says....it is his karma for his past life for being a player.....hahahaha.... I'm dead
What my problem with these type of issues why does does these people apologize right after they are exposed? So…
I don't fully follow but i agree. Bully is bad....not excusing it....as you mentioned it was in the teen years....we all done stupid mistakes. I don't see many ppl think of what they did in the past ....to recount what they need to apologize for.
I been bullied.....i have unintentionally been mean to other ppl.
Should we suffer for our whole life or end our career. ....ppl can change and reset. He got a valuable lesson here. I wish they had them show how they change and still have a career/job.
Speak at these schools. Asian country are the worse.
In kdrama everyone is always hitting each other.....parent's themselves are bullies to their children. They blacklists the person but don't look at the source.... the culture that make/causes it.
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Did i said he isn't wrong and shouldn't be responsible. Nope...
Just because i pointed out Asian culture being toxic. Fuck ya they are. I lived it. Anyone who watched kdrama seen it as well.
Korean ban porn....yet also sexualize kpop/celebrities
They try to ban and cancel an actress who post a book about feminist.
Sulli - suicide because she was bullied for not meeting the korean standard (she was out spoken)
The person pose a question.....i responded with possible senario.
And fact i know.
I know nothing. I'm an outsider who read what is display.
I know he Bully in middle school. Those who is involved knows best. And whatever evidences or spoken words.... I'm not judge or jury
Another fact i know is the frontal cortex in our brain isn't fully developed. Any one in human growth and development /psychology major would know.
https://www.thescienceofpsychotherapy.com/prefrontal-cortex/
I'm also Asian and know the toxic Asian culture. I lived it.
We see it in the drama....we read about these idol mistreated....we watch the bullies in the kdrama.
I also had the same issued with full house.
They need to adjust and change some things.
Biological fact. The judgements part of the brain...frontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25 years old.
https://www.thescienceofpsychotherapy.com/prefrontal-cortex/
Fact. He did something wrong in middle school. To what extend only him and the others ppl knows.
That is all any of us really knows.
Should he have karma /responsibility for his actions. Yes. But i don't believe it should be damnation for life.
Asian culture is toxic as hell. I lived it. Parents bulling you. Your neighbors.
Koreans just ban ppl and never look at the source. Their culture.
How many kdrama displays these abuse.... the characters with abusing parents are also the bully. Heck they normalize some of these toxic behaviors.
I watched uncanny carrier....i thought one of the best scenes at the end was the Bully....he was shown kindness and a different way and he changed.....he was shown that is was wrong and not normal.
I'm not excusing any behaviors.... I'm not his fan girl or even seen his drama.
He should reap what he sow....but I'll reframe from condemnation. He will get whatever karma and hope it holds a valuable lesson.
But the issue is the culture....they need to use this as a better teachable moment. Of showing ramifications and redemption
Robert downey jr. That man was broken...drugs...ect....he changed....some1 gave him a chance ...iron man...it probably saved him life.
The asian culture is the issue. Don't get me started on thai drama....hitting and rape is a norm. Parents are the biggest controller and bullies.....i lived that life.... I'm lucky I'm in America and not stuck in the asian culture criteria.
I had a friend who was korean and committed suicide in high school. Pressure from home was too much.
My now sister in law....was dating my brother. She was 25? 26? Her dad harrassed them...drove by beeping non stop...banging on the door...threatening us.
My dad beat my mom....my bro in law hits my sister....keep them in line....according to their culture it is their right. There is a saying " i hit you because of love you. "
My parents hitted me. I stayed after school for detention and was accused of being a bad person. I was not the Asian girl that i was suppose to be. Obedient...cook and clean...ect...i was put down by my older siblings because i was " americanize".
My brother struggled during his teen years because he is gay. Had to hide it. It is not acceptable in asian culture.
My parents did change as they got older....also because i showed them something different. I taught them something different by setting boundaries. My brother told them he is gay a few year back and they accept it. My brother in law who is old school says....it is his karma for his past life for being a player.....hahahaha.... I'm dead
Again Asian culture is toxic as fuck
No issues on set....probably cuz he behaved himself.
It happened in middle school.
Biological fact. The judgment part of the brain... the frontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25.
I'm not his fan ...never watched him. Just stating a fact.
My issues is with the asian culture....we asian are toxic....parents are bullies
We all clearly sew it in the drama of the controlling parents....normalizing...hitting....ect....
Agree the all of a sudden now?
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/china-proposes-teaching-masculinity-boys-state-alarmed-changing-gender-roles-n1258939
I been bullied.....i have unintentionally been mean to other ppl.
Should we suffer for our whole life or end our career. ....ppl can change and reset. He got a valuable lesson here. I wish they had them show how they change and still have a career/job.
Speak at these schools. Asian country are the worse.
In kdrama everyone is always hitting each other.....parent's themselves are bullies to their children. They blacklists the person but don't look at the source.... the culture that make/causes it.
It thought s1 was OK ....i only skim this & again think it's ok