i get what you mean ... normally she did what a 0.1% would do and she didnt do what a 99.9% would do ......
I disagree. I know plenty of women in the same situation and doing the exact same thing that she's doing. Unfortunately it happens to more women than you think.
Many of us individual would not do what she does. So you we don't understand that. The psychological damage a man put up on somebody.
My friend has gone through this. It's so hard. It's such a psychological battle for her. She battled the psychological battle for 2 years.
I didn't fully understand it at first. Cuz I would never do what she does. But seeing her go through it and everything. I understand it. I would never do what she does. But I could understand where it's coming from
Agreed. As a guy I was like tell her, he was obviously two timing. And if she didn't know he had a GF she NEEDS…
I agree. I wish she would have just said I'm not his cousin I'm his ex-girlfriend. But it seems like she's been so damaged by the whole situation.
she's empathetic towards the other person because of the pain she felt.
My friend is going through the same thing. Long relationship marriage and kids in mind. She was once a strong independent person. During the relationship with this person and afterwards. She lost herself. I always saw her as a confident independent woman. With this person she was a total opposite.
She want it so bad to tell the other girl and to say all these things into destroy him the way he destroyed her. But unfortunately certain things she says doesn't even matter. He's such a manipulative liar that the person didn't even believe her anyways.
And at the end it just cause her more trauma and she's only one really getting hurt
Each toxic fandom was saying stupid stuff. Her fandom said that he was touching and wasn't being a gentleman or something like that. His fandom says she's using him and she did this and that etc etc. Just toxic fan psycho fans. As a fan of the actors you should just support them
From what I can remember both leads ignored the toxic fandom.
These fans are psychotic. There was also issues with fan War for love between lines. In which that was a great drama. These toxic them should just be ignored
One thing I really appreciate about this drama is how realistic the breakups between the former couples feel.For…
That is what he said...with how he treated her so coldly after 7 yrs...makes me wonder if there is more to it...n to trash talk her in the company group chat....that is F up
Both still have walls up.In the novel...FL disapeared When someone is in pain...they think they can have a "distraction."......he…
That's his revenge. I didn't watch it so I can't say. But in the novel they reconnect and there is a lot of anger.
I felt it wasn't dragged out. They spoke and he had a lot of psychological issue. He eventually told her about his 10-year therapy because of everything that happened. I'm not saying he's right or excusing his behavior.
Book character did stuff to hurt each other. Both character did not talk or Express themselves to each other. In the novel it started off as him quote and quote wanting Revenge but it was actually very short. They talked and work it out and dated. They supported each other. He supported her in everything. And she learned to be more honest and open.
okay so I have some thoughts after finally catching up and I hope y'all don't mind if I share them with you all…
Both still have walls up.
In the novel...FL disapeared
When someone is in pain...they think they can have a "distraction."......he resorted to his coping machanism he had done since he was a kid after all the lost he had.
It's hard to break a habit that you've been doing your whole life.
In the novel. Female lead would observe him. She knows that even though he was surrounded by so many friends and a girl. He was pretty much lonely and dead inside. He was only existing in the environment would know emotional connection.
He never actively went after any girl or try to chase any girl. It's not even needed in his life.
He can commit to a girl. The girl he loved and wanted is a female lead and he waited for her for over 10 years.
Even before that. Once he knew he was interested in her. He did not try to entertain or mislead any girl. His friend's sister tried to hit on him and he did not give her any attention or push her off.
No he isn't. He never activately seek these girls out. He is not chasing tail. He doesn't care about any other girls. He can take or leave the girls.
He desire genuine love. When he had interest in FL and knew he really like her...he rejected all girls actively hitting on him because is not seeking selfish pleasure/enjoyment.
He never played anyone.
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Many of us individual would not do what she does. So you we don't understand that. The psychological damage a man put up on somebody.
My friend has gone through this. It's so hard. It's such a psychological battle for her. She battled the psychological battle for 2 years.
I didn't fully understand it at first. Cuz I would never do what she does. But seeing her go through it and everything. I understand it. I would never do what she does. But I could understand where it's coming from
she's empathetic towards the other person because of the pain she felt.
My friend is going through the same thing. Long relationship marriage and kids in mind. She was once a strong independent person. During the relationship with this person and afterwards. She lost herself. I always saw her as a confident independent woman. With this person she was a total opposite.
She want it so bad to tell the other girl and to say all these things into destroy him the way he destroyed her. But unfortunately certain things she says doesn't even matter. He's such a manipulative liar that the person didn't even believe her anyways.
And at the end it just cause her more trauma and she's only one really getting hurt
I watch this actress in other shows...but i can't get into here. I just skip them 🫣
Feeding them make it worse....
Why would any one want to sustain the pscyho fandom
I hope they continue to ignore these psychos
From what I can remember both leads ignored the toxic fandom.
I felt it wasn't dragged out. They spoke and he had a lot of psychological issue. He eventually told her about his 10-year therapy because of everything that happened. I'm not saying he's right or excusing his behavior.
Book character did stuff to hurt each other. Both character did not talk or Express themselves to each other. In the novel it started off as him quote and quote wanting Revenge but it was actually very short. They talked and work it out and dated. They supported each other. He supported her in everything. And she learned to be more honest and open.
In the novel...FL disapeared
When someone is in pain...they think they can have a "distraction."......he resorted to his coping machanism he had done since he was a kid after all the lost he had.
It's hard to break a habit that you've been doing your whole life.
In the novel. Female lead would observe him. She knows that even though he was surrounded by so many friends and a girl. He was pretty much lonely and dead inside. He was only existing in the environment would know emotional connection.
He never actively went after any girl or try to chase any girl. It's not even needed in his life.
He can commit to a girl. The girl he loved and wanted is a female lead and he waited for her for over 10 years.
Even before that. Once he knew he was interested in her. He did not try to entertain or mislead any girl. His friend's sister tried to hit on him and he did not give her any attention or push her off.
He desire genuine love. When he had interest in FL and knew he really like her...he rejected all girls actively hitting on him because is not seeking selfish pleasure/enjoyment.
He never played anyone.
A "playboy" typically refers to a wealthy man who leads a lavish lifestyle of leisure, devotes his time to personal enjoyment, and actively pursues casual romantic or sexual relationships without the desire for long-term commitment