Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
you know what ? she (CH) said in her inner prologue that "Can Love itself enough for one's relationship" repeatedly..!
in my opinion yes..! it is..! why because.., when two people in a relationship understands one another, shares their pain or when one person is constantly trying to improve their relationship by financially aiding.., then the other person must be understanding regardless of culture, or whatsoever..! but she never agreed to his hardships..! (being a cheater or a slacking person is another type..!) but he is very hardworking (only for her and for their relationship..!) she just talked the most selfish way and broke up with him..! (personally for me those Reasons for her break-up seemed very childish and dumb..! sorry for that..! π )
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
so tell me..! you have written the conversation very clearly..! Kudos to that πππ
now tell me.! the words CH used here.., are they even correct..? after how Min Jun stayed by her in her most deadliest time ? is that even necessary to talk all this s**** shit before him ? or did MJ really deserve all this ?
I know she is very weird but atleast she should've respected MJ..! shame on her..! it may seem the word s**** word is way too misogynistic..! but her actions can't denied either..! so yupp..! π
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
So by this we can come to a conclusion that it's not at all his wrong..! it's only her who didn't understand him enough..! she never talked about his parents with him..! like what kind of a mother his mom was.., what type of relationship he has with his mother and all..! all she do is talking trash and misunderstanding things..! now she even talked mean to Min Jun also like a slut..! I mean who in the world can talk like that ? like even if we are married and had children happily, I'll go behind him when he appears (like she said her heart will drop means in other words it's the only meaning..!) like see how slutty her words are..!
she really doesn't have the right to talk about those things there..! girl..! you can't two time at the same time..!…
if she doesn't know if she is really over Jungo or not or if she is uncertain about her current thing with Min Jun are not at all concerned..! what she said was not at all ethical..! if she doesn't get over Jungo then she should have said as it is..! but she said what ? "eventhough I'm married to you and had kids with you.., if he comes infront of me then my heart will drop..?" like put yourself in Hong's husband's shoes..! if your wife really says like that after you got married and had kids..,what will you do after hearing those things ?(if that's happened before your marriage definitely you'll call of the wedding and if it's happened after you had kids with her.., you'll definitely kill her β οΈ) mark this thing..! when she said those things, she really looked like a slut to me..!
First Love is something else man, even after 10 years people don't forget their first love. It doesn't mean they…
yes..! if a man does it.., then he is also considered flawed and When compared to a woman, a man don't stop right there.., he'll do more mistakes in his flawness..! so he deserves to be killed..!
It was wrong of her to talk like that, but you also shouldn't call her a slut over this. Emotions are something…
she said it already..! she said "eventhough if she married Min Jun and had three kids with him.., then after if she sees Jungo coincidentally, her heart will drop means what ? despite everything she had, she will shamelessly leave everything and will follow her ex..! otherwise she shouldnt've said that..! π
First Love is something else man, even after 10 years people don't forget their first love. It doesn't mean they…
still you shouldn't be talking like that..! to your current partner..! goddamn..! she has no right to hurt him (MJ) like that..! if she loved him (Jungo) dearly then she should've fought her feelings..! but what she did ? she broke Jungo's heart yet again with that Marriage stuff and when comes to Min Jun ? there also she talked so meanly like a slut.! I mean what does she want actually?
Choi Hong when she is with Minjun in that restaurant and when he proposed.., that one dialogue from her..! look at her being so slutty π only sluts can talk like that..! "Even before going to Japan or meeting him.., even before him we are dating, married with 3 children., my heart will still drop when I will see him again..! like girl..! you are already married happily with your loving husband and when your ex appears in front of you.., your heart will drop ? what a means slut you are..!
there is nothing to talk about..! it's clearly her who didn't even thought about how hard ML works for their future…
you are wrong again..! she has to leave him alone..! she doesn't even have to feel weird when she may see whomever is with Jungo or not..! by only looking at their expression we can see that she never lets go of him that easily..! she is obsessed not him !
PS: sorry for anything could've hurted you - this is solely my pov nothing else..!
in my opinion yes..! it is..!
why because.., when two people in a relationship understands one another, shares their pain or when one person is constantly trying to improve their relationship by financially aiding.., then the other person must be understanding regardless of culture, or whatsoever..! but she never agreed to his hardships..! (being a cheater or a slacking person is another type..!) but he is very hardworking (only for her and for their relationship..!) she just talked the most selfish way and broke up with him..! (personally for me those Reasons for her break-up seemed very childish and dumb..! sorry for that..! π )
now tell me.! the words CH used here.., are they even correct..? after how Min Jun stayed by her in her most deadliest time ? is that even necessary to talk all this s**** shit before him ? or did MJ really deserve all this ?
I know she is very weird but atleast she should've respected MJ..! shame on her..! it may seem the word s**** word is way too misogynistic..! but her actions can't denied either..! so yupp..! π
and there is no regret for me saying it..!
but luckily here the ML is Gold..! π
thanks man.! π«