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She’s such a “tough nut” — basically a career-driven woman . And he’s constantly adapting to her and accepting her conditions. Although I feel that, deep down, he was actually upset and frustrated by her demands; he just pretended that everything was fine because of his pride.

And when he said, "Each of us expresses our individuality in our own way,” I think this line from the male lead describes their inability to truly understand each other so well. It’s a very profound thought.

Personally, I think the guy is incredibly patient and loving here. The girl, on the other hand, needs more confidence in herself and needs to understand that she has the right to love openly and to be loved. She needs to stop living with this closed-off, career-driven mindset.

I feel like she’s the one who doesn’t allow herself to be happy or to love openly.

The guy, even if he can be a little narcissistic in the way he carries himself, is actually kind, caring, respectful, and protective. So I wouldn’t really put him in the category of a classic narcissist. It’s more about his constant need for recognition and glorification, combined with being extremely demanding of himself and a perfectionist.

His ego doesn’t allow him, at least for now, to express himself as openly and explicitly as he should. I don’t even think he fully realizes how attached he is to her, how jealous he can be, or how protective and emotionally invested he actually is.

I think the central theme here is this young woman’s emancipation and autonomy — her journey toward becoming a woman who knows what she wants and is independent, etc. (this has become the central theme in 99.9% of modern romance stories...)

You’re absolutely right to bring up these points, and I agree with you. I think giving a 10/10 can sometimes be too generous, just as giving a 1 or 2/10 can be unnecessarily harsh. But ultimately, what matters isn’t really the score, it’s the text, our feelings, and what the series made us experience.

I agree with everything you mentioned, and I actually gave the story a 9/10. As for the overall 10/10, it’s mainly because, compared with everything I’ve watched this year, this is one of the series that truly delivered emotions, a strong overall atmosphere, and convincing performances as a whole. So, if I were rating it purely as a technical critic, the score would probably be lower. But as a viewer, taking the overall experience into account, it deserves a 10/10 from me.

Here is my subjective list of the 2026 releases I’ve watched and how I ranked them with reviews.:)
https://mydramalist.com/list/Lp6EYq84
However, the appreciation of a film or series remains subjective. A critic may recognize its technical or artistic qualities without necessarily liking it, while a viewer may love it simply because it moved or entertained them. In the end, a “good film” and a “film I love” don’t always mean the same thing :))

yes !

Could you please tell me whether, in the novel, the second part after their separation—the reconciliation/reconciliation process—is only near the very end, or whether it takes up a larger part of the story than their initial relationship?

Episodes 5–6: Here, we clearly see a guy who doesn’t know how to express his intentions and emotions properly, which can make him come across as narcissistic. Their relationship is becoming toxic for both of them.

He barely communicates at all, while the girl talks too much and sometimes says things she doesn’t really mean. And honestly, why give her a bag? I really don’t understand the logic behind it. Of course she would be offended.

Maybe, because he is used to spending time with wealthy people, he has developed the habit of trying to buy love or build relationships through expensive gifts. But this type of girl clearly doesn’t share the same values or social codes.

I do think he meant well, though. Since the bag was stained, he probably wanted to do something nice for her — as a gesture of attention and appreciation.

On her side, when she left that message on the bed, he read it and was clearly disappointed because it sounded more like something you would say after a one-night stand. However, her reaction is completely understandable because, in reality, she barely knows him.

And the fact that he let her go — meaning that he left the decision entirely up to her — is also proof that he is not narcissistic or manipulative, of course. He understood her very well and even proved, in the process, that he had read her personality almost perfectly, whereas she hadn’t understood him at all.

She is still quite naïve when it comes to human relationships. He, on the other hand, is not naïve, but his bitter experiences in the past — whether in his professional life or elsewhere — seem to have made him cynical, or perhaps simply more closed off and emotionally guarded.

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in Love Story in the 1970s she play well also

Finally, something worthwhile among the Chinese ongoing dramas! This year, this actress has completely convinced me that she’s natural, talented, and quite versatile. Her previous drama with Arthur is easily among my all-time favorites, and it’s the same story here — this project definitely deserves a closer look. I really like her.

And the actor — he’s absolutely on fire!! Sure, the styling team may have gone a little overboard at times with the open shirt and the whole “Sunday crooner” 😅 But what a charm!!!!

Alright then, it’s decided — time to check out this actor’s other works!

And also, did anyone notice the actress who seems to be playing the male lead’s sister? She was also in Love Story in the 1970s

Ling Khe, the official martyr of this series 😂 lol

Seriously, the poor guy has already endured three-quarters of humanity's suffering, and we're only halfway through the drama! I honestly wonder what the writers still have in store for him... At this rate, he'll end up crucified... (but resurrected in the finale, obviously). 😂

Still, he completely owns this role. Nothing to complain about. I've criticized quite a few of his recent dramas, but here he's absolutely in his element. This is what Ling Khe does best: arrogance, cynicism, mixed with innocence, toughness, and passion. That's his signature acting style. And yes, even when I complain about him or his dramas... I still like him anyway.

But above all, there's what I consider his trademark.

It's that moment when he says something with the most innocent expression imaginable, those soft doe eyes, that sweet little look... He acts as if he has absolutely no idea what's going on. Meanwhile, everyone else hears a much spicier meaning behind his words. 😂 Officially, he's completely innocent... but us? Not for a single second do we believe it! Sometimes I even feel like, in his own mind, he's pretending to be innocent and secretly enjoying the reaction he creates.

The perfect example?

He takes the heroine's hand, places it on his stomach, and says with a completely straight face:

"I've been hurting here for three years."
Yeah... sure. Nobody thought about his pancreas. Maybe it was spiritual pain? Right... if that's what you want to believe. Judging by the look in his eyes, I certainly don't think that's what *he* meant. 😂 Our minds went somewhere else at the speed of light.

I immediately rushed onto this site to talk about it with all of you... only to discover you'd already written exactly what I was thinking! So I guess we're all equally hopeless. 🤣

That's Ling Khe's special talent: corrupting our innocent minds... while remaining perfectly innocent himself.

What a guy, Ling Khe! 😂 lol

Very well said. Bravo!

In "Overdo" , the ML is a doctor who can no longer practice because of an injury to his fingers. It's hard not to think of "Shine on Me", where a similar emotional setup played a central role. Considering Zhao Jinmai—(Ling He's 2 time co-star) — the parallel feels more strategic than accidental.

From a commercial perspective, this is a familiar industry practice. When a drama becomes a major hit, producers rarely copy the story outright. Instead, they recycle the emotional DNA: a memorable character archetype, a symbolic injury, a familiar relationship dynamic, or even a visual style that audiences subconsciously associate with a previous success. You often see actors with a similar look, or couples designed to evoke previously popular pairings

It's a way of reducing financial risk :). Original ideas are unpredictable; familiar emotions sell

Thank you for all these great exchanges! I've really enjoyed discussing all of this with you. Looking forward to chatting again in the comments on future episodes!

@teens804 I don't mind a heroine having Einstein's intellect and a gladiator's strength. What I do mind is her acquiring both somewhere between breakfast and afternoon tea. She revolutionizes medicine, discovers unknown materials, invents the impossible, saves the kingdom... all without studying, failing, sweating, or simply putting in the work. As for her martial prowess, it appears to have descended from the heavens, requiring neither training nor discipline.

In the end, it feels like the perfect reflection of our Instagram age: genius without effort, success without learning, and greatness without ever breaking a sweat.

@AngelIP / To me, the real villain of this series is its determination to be commercial above all else.

I'm actually impressed that you were able to draw such accurate interpretations from it, because those ideas are genuinely there—but they're deeply buried, diluted by everything we've already discussed. As a result, the overall picture loses much of its impact.

When I watch a story, I can't simply ignore everything else and focus only on the themes you've described. I'm too aware of the choices the series makes along the way, and they constantly pull me out of those deeper ideas.

That's what I find so frustrating. There are genuinely brilliant concepts beneath the surface, but they're never allowed to take center stage. Instead, they're skimmed over rather superficially, as if the production never fully trusted them to carry the story on their own.

@Megumi-H : I completely agree. Commercial appeal, beautiful visuals, and return on investment seem to dictate almost every project nowadays—not just in C-dramas, but across the global film and television industry.

And with the growing use of generative AI in story development, we're seeing an abundance of content, yet very little real diversity. Many stories begin to feel as though they're generated from the same successful formula: different faces, different costumes, but essentially the same narrative structure recycled over and over again.
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Teens804 Haha, you summed it up perfectly! I completely agree with you.

Sana "but they're poorly executed".- Yes!
I don't necessarily think it's a matter of runtime, because I've never considered length to be a valid excuse. After all, a 90-minute film can convey every emotion it sets out to evoke if it's well written and properly paced.

Other than that, I completely agree with every point you made.

She could have left—I have no issue with that in itself. What bothered me was the way it was handled. It felt rather contrived, and I didn't really believe in what she was doing or what she was supposed to accomplish. Overall, it came across as quite childish to me, and I found the way that part of the story was written rather unconvincing.