It's complicated ,,,My mom was tough on me when I was young and may be still tough and I'm now in my thirties…
Don't care that the mother is trying to teach her for her own good, anyways she's trying to find faults in the daughter so she can feel less guilty of abandoning her. Her daughter is traumatized and was deeply neglected, she owes her love and affection, that's it. Etiquette, education, discipline and impassiveness are unimportant when your child is starving for human empathy. Mothers are not immune to criticism. Since the moment she came back, no, since the moment she gave birth to her, she's been an piss-poor excuse of a mother.
You can secretly love you child as much as you want but if you don't show it, it's as if you don't love them at all. She deserves nothing but regret and guilt.
I used to be exactly like you and give reasons to my mother's neglect and emotional unavailability because she provided for me, but I realized later in life that it's insane for a child to be the bigger person.
the total dismissal of business etiquette and realism is so frustrating. The way he didn't want to shake her hand when they met because he's a cutthroat CEO is nothing less than total unprofessionalism and how she rejected a job offer because "her company is like a family" she's supposed to be smart yet she's breaking the first rule of the corporate world. I know its a show but its so ridiculous 😠lmaoo
I would definitely understand if anyone who is Japanese finds the clothing a problem and considers it cultural…
I see how it can be offensive, but it was obviously not done with ill intention, the whole team that worked on the drama is literally chinese. prayers to the editors 🫡
I get that but its a good thing they edited it out. The Legendary Life of Queen Lau also has japanese inspired clothes and the chinese netizens did not hold back. Its a really delicate subject and it so obvious that it will get backlash so why would a designer take that artistic direction in the first place. Anyways poor editors lmao ðŸ˜
apparently it took a while to air because they had to edit out the japanese inspired elements of the clothing 😠why did the costume designers even think it was ok
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You can secretly love you child as much as you want but if you don't show it, it's as if you don't love them at all. She deserves nothing but regret and guilt.
I used to be exactly like you and give reasons to my mother's neglect and emotional unavailability because she provided for me, but I realized later in life that it's insane for a child to be the bigger person.