I am looking forward to the healing part of this drama🥰 good endings would not taste so sweet if not for these heartbreaks... prayerfully the end will be good😅🤣😂
I like how real this drama is. Simply chaotic mess.
This cancer arc brings me memories of a close friend who was diagnosed many years back for cancer. The news came out and in less than a year she was due to hold her wedding. She was confused and shocked. They had to postpone their wedding at the request of her coz of the multiple therapies n surgery that followed. Nonetheless, her fiance still chose to carry on with the wedding, and when asked why, he said because he wanted to be with her even though the time left might be short. And good news, now she is still alive and well happily married with a child...
Not everyone can be like this fiance who is willing to stand by his lover, before marriage, in sickness or in health, for better for worse. There are parents who even request pre marriage health clearance before giving their blessings!
Additionally, when she was first diagnosed, her mum hid in the hospital toilet screamed n brawled devastatingly. And for the first time, her dad cried n broke down his strong facade. This resonates with FL mum n dad where shock, sadnness and regrets all collide.
Chaotic mess but these are real.
The struggle n trauma is devastingly shattering for both patients and loved ones as carers. For patients the fear of death, not being able to be as independent as before, the physical pain, mental pain and list goes on... these not to be understated. Carers fear of losing their loved ones... the heart break and physical and mental draining to take care of patients, and to be someone else's strength. These not to be belittled, too...
This drama is indeed a chaotic mess. But isn't life this way? We will never know what is coming, and we need loved ones' support, a positive mind n strength n grace from above... it is very easy as onlookers to judge instead of empathise, to degrade one's weakness instead of standing into the big shoes they are wearing. A simple smile, a simple encouragement, a simple prayer or a simple presence may be what they need - just a glimmer of hope that if there isn't a tomorrow, strength is still available outstretched to them.
B4 completing episode 8, i wandered why SR was not telling family regarding her sickness ... after watching, could it be she doesnt want to burden her parents with yet another sick child😢 not telling her 2 bff was to me what i might do coz she was so far away and might not be regularly in touch... hence she chose to shoulder it all on her own and perhaps was good her fiance was taking care of her. Eh he had her records in hospital!!! I was like what??? Do u have it with you everytime???😅
do you think he was upset by not being informed of diagnosis 😭 or another proposal😅 ???
If so, i would be happy it got revealed next episode and not drag on😅then we can proceed to see how they reconcile 😁 and move on coz now it is like something is blocking them since she cant be open about her health 🤣
Loved the journey where the main leads are gradually discovering the importance of each other in their own hearts... how they perhaps liked and still like each other even after so long - just buried just as the time capsule did...
tada ex!!!🤗🤗🤗 all the best!!!🤪🤪🤪
This cancer arc brings me memories of a close friend who was diagnosed many years back for cancer. The news came out and in less than a year she was due to hold her wedding. She was confused and shocked. They had to postpone their wedding at the request of her coz of the multiple therapies n surgery that followed. Nonetheless, her fiance still chose to carry on with the wedding, and when asked why, he said because he wanted to be with her even though the time left might be short. And good news, now she is still alive and well happily married with a child...
Not everyone can be like this fiance who is willing to stand by his lover, before marriage, in sickness or in health, for better for worse. There are parents who even request pre marriage health clearance before giving their blessings!
Additionally, when she was first diagnosed, her mum hid in the hospital toilet screamed n brawled devastatingly. And for the first time, her dad cried n broke down his strong facade. This resonates with FL mum n dad where shock, sadnness and regrets all collide.
Chaotic mess but these are real.
The struggle n trauma is devastingly shattering for both patients and loved ones as carers. For patients the fear of death, not being able to be as independent as before, the physical pain, mental pain and list goes on... these not to be understated. Carers fear of losing their loved ones... the heart break and physical and mental draining to take care of patients, and to be someone else's strength. These not to be belittled, too...
This drama is indeed a chaotic mess. But isn't life this way? We will never know what is coming, and we need loved ones' support, a positive mind n strength n grace from above... it is very easy as onlookers to judge instead of empathise, to degrade one's weakness instead of standing into the big shoes they are wearing. A simple smile, a simple encouragement, a simple prayer or a simple presence may be what they need - just a glimmer of hope that if there isn't a tomorrow, strength is still available outstretched to them.
Loved the journey where the main leads are gradually discovering the importance of each other in their own hearts... how they perhaps liked and still like each other even after so long - just buried just as the time capsule did...