Don't worry. She's back so that Ling Xiao can have closure, so that he doesn't suffer from those dreads anymore.…
here is a thing though..
If FL was schizophrenic, always fighting etc.. and ML stood by her.. we as audience would be applauding it.. and the whole romance would haved been on unwavering love..
But when it comes to a mother and child, people are ready to blame mom, son in the drama is so desperate to jump the ship..
What if JJ was going through this???
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I don't think LX has been a great son either.. and the one who should have been party to the blame and managed his family went completely scottfree - his dad..
Why was all of this just mom's fault.. and when she was struggling what did the family do to help her? Yes, son was a kid and couldn't do much.. he was still very very careful of his mom..
LX's dad needs his share of blame..for runining wife and son .. both
I just found out that the author based some of the characters on Hinduism mythology. Luo Hou is a direct chinese…
So, if you go by history.. 6th century is when chinese monks came to India .. (this is BC btw .. and medival history.. not sure if 6th century, 2nd century BC is siddharth's aka buddha's birth)
Anyways, so that's how hinduism and buddhism traveled to other nations..and morphed/evolved over the years..
The whole concept of female and male energy as starting point with no shape, no form (SHIVA) is hindu mythology.. *************************************
Interesting, Christianity is believed to have emerged from Buddhism in the sense that the 3 men from the east hwo came looking for the child (and in buddhism, dalai lama dies informing them where the next dalai lama will be born... and current controversy over china killing the real next dalai lama)
************************************* You would find the same parallels in mesopotamian culture - roman, egyptian , greek etc.. which is the hindu concept of Dev (Gods .. more like cabinet ministers) Vs Asuras (Demon) ... on top of these sit the almighty (non changing position, ultimate god)
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If you read novel TGCF and the way the god world is explained, gives a very very clear picture of Chinese mythology.. and very clearly a derivative of hindu mythology (why temples are built, why are or are not these positions replaceable etc)
I think she might have gone into hiding because of ZQ's father, and cut all ties to ensure he couldn't find her.…
so i thought.. unless she adopted this new kid.. sorry.. she was having sex with someone.. and "liked" someone.. etc etc..
While i get , she left him with LHC.. and i remember that scene when she confirmed if he likes kids and all.. and i understand.. BUT that understanding works only if you suffered as much as your kid does..
I know she didn't want to come back and ask for him because LHC did all the upbringing.. but how difficult was it to maintain a cordial relationship if she was having fun with a man in her life
If this new baby is in kindergarten, he is 3 or 4 right. Meaning, ZQ's mom got into a relationship / became pregnant some 5 years ago only..
1. When she 1st visited when folks were 20 yr old.. then she said she got married.. maybe she did 2. When these guys turned 24 or 25 , she got pregnant (either same man or otherwise) 3. Guys returned when they were 27
No matter what backstory, this means mom was still having her affairs .. and hmm... was living her life well
I think if you’re attracted to someone a kiss will pretty much confirm it by your body’s reaction to the person.…
Drama has been ample clear that her feelings for him were never platonic, just that she didn't understand.. her ways of comforting him, how much she missed him Vs how she missed ZQ.. too many details were provided..
So in this case, kiss and LX's forthcoming attitude was required to jolt her into the romance area.. that is why it was so very easy for her to come to terms with this relationship..
If LX would not have done that, JJ would have still fallen for him and no one else.. at her own pace
Don't worry. Ziqiu is strong and has a very positive attitude that would get him through everything. He'll find…
he needs TC - happy .. MY will not be healthy for ZQ. .. mom would nag, she herself is so underconfident..
For MY Lawyer friend is best.. because for one, this time someone liked MY first and that's what her character needs.. to be priority for someone. Mom will also be happy.. and he can support MY emotionally and in her career which ZQ can't
I’m glad LL will have a happy ending https://twitter.com/dramapotatoe/status/1298850333976752130?s=20
who is LL's 1st male lead :P
Wutong was crying over her i think.. fell in love..
I knew it!!!>. you know why? In earlier episode, when XJ runs to men bathroom to steal SF's mom's hair pin and WT runs after LL thinking she is the one who picked the hairpin..
you see that scene how he removes her headgear and LL's hair flows out in a true drama fashion!!! :D :D :D ,, you know a typical moment of when a man sees how b'ful his woman is
Although it was obvious the 1st time they met that they will have a storyline
and i want other girls to find their own identities as well..
Lawyer can be with MY.. TC needs to find her own and so ZQ
If FL was schizophrenic, always fighting etc.. and ML stood by her.. we as audience would be applauding it.. and the whole romance would haved been on unwavering love..
But when it comes to a mother and child, people are ready to blame mom, son in the drama is so desperate to jump the ship..
What if JJ was going through this???
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I don't think LX has been a great son either.. and the one who should have been party to the blame and managed his family went completely scottfree - his dad..
Why was all of this just mom's fault.. and when she was struggling what did the family do to help her? Yes, son was a kid and couldn't do much.. he was still very very careful of his mom..
LX's dad needs his share of blame..for runining wife and son .. both
Anyways, so that's how hinduism and buddhism traveled to other nations..and morphed/evolved over the years..
The whole concept of female and male energy as starting point with no shape, no form (SHIVA) is hindu mythology..
*************************************
Interesting, Christianity is believed to have emerged from Buddhism in the sense that the 3 men from the east hwo came looking for the child (and in buddhism, dalai lama dies informing them where the next dalai lama will be born... and current controversy over china killing the real next dalai lama)
*************************************
You would find the same parallels in mesopotamian culture - roman, egyptian , greek etc.. which is the hindu concept of Dev (Gods .. more like cabinet ministers) Vs Asuras (Demon) ... on top of these sit the almighty (non changing position, ultimate god)
***************************************
If you read novel TGCF and the way the god world is explained, gives a very very clear picture of Chinese mythology.. and very clearly a derivative of hindu mythology (why temples are built, why are or are not these positions replaceable etc)
While i get , she left him with LHC.. and i remember that scene when she confirmed if he likes kids and all.. and i understand.. BUT that understanding works only if you suffered as much as your kid does..
I know she didn't want to come back and ask for him because LHC did all the upbringing.. but how difficult was it to maintain a cordial relationship if she was having fun with a man in her life
(You get rude with me, i am going to give it back to you.. unless you learn to be polite, no need to continue with me)
Meaning, ZQ's mom got into a relationship / became pregnant some 5 years ago only..
1. When she 1st visited when folks were 20 yr old.. then she said she got married.. maybe she did
2. When these guys turned 24 or 25 , she got pregnant (either same man or otherwise)
3. Guys returned when they were 27
No matter what backstory, this means mom was still having her affairs .. and hmm... was living her life well
now a days across forums, i see people using "without consent" so frivolously and can't differentiate between scenes..
half the time seems like some bookish words being thrown around just because a wrist grab happened (even if to save her from falling)
So in this case, kiss and LX's forthcoming attitude was required to jolt her into the romance area.. that is why it was so very easy for her to come to terms with this relationship..
If LX would not have done that, JJ would have still fallen for him and no one else.. at her own pace
drama is good..but i think binge watching will involve you emotionally better
all actors are superb..
SWL is also doing great!.. i think this is handled very well considering no formal training and at 21
For MY Lawyer friend is best.. because for one, this time someone liked MY first and that's what her character needs.. to be priority for someone. Mom will also be happy.. and he can support MY emotionally and in her career which ZQ can't
your logic is very flawed and absolutely disrespectful and super rude
Wutong was crying over her i think.. fell in love..
I knew it!!!>. you know why? In earlier episode, when XJ runs to men bathroom to steal SF's mom's hair pin and WT runs after LL thinking she is the one who picked the hairpin..
you see that scene how he removes her headgear and LL's hair flows out in a true drama fashion!!! :D :D :D ,, you know a typical moment of when a man sees how b'ful his woman is
Although it was obvious the 1st time they met that they will have a storyline