the most problem I have with a bl character which I genuinely find mostly in jbls and second being kbls, (although not as much), is the stoic, awkward way of realizing their emotions and expressing it. Like why is it that awkward for the characters and even we the viewers? I feel so awkward and cringed put buy the over exaggerated nonsense when I watch some of these characters being displayed. is that a thing in Japan?