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so many people are saying that she is a red flag, can u all explain to me why she is a red flag???

i mean its just give an idea about how she feels about people leaving. there is no need to explain it too much in the drama. her mother left her, her aunt who was supposed to take care of her left her. that would have given her abandonment issues but then she still powers through and loves the 2nd ml but he too leaves her. so now she makes sure to have a proper goodbye with everyone and is a bit afraid of dating/falling in love, thats why she was saying goodbye to the ml every time they interacted in the beginning. then during their one argument, the ml realizes how afraid she is of him leaving her so he reassures that he will be by her side. adding extra episodes to explain this would be boring

why the fuck are u bringing another show here??? and what doble standard??? where tf in this show did their sexual life become a topic of conversation or a plot point. there literally 1000 of shows where the main couple's relationship becomes strained because a ex of the ml comes up. no where in this show they implied that he was 'waiting' for her. he left 10 years ago, coincidentally met her, wanted to reconnect, fell for her again, she was backing off cause her friend liked him and she knows he has to leave so she does her best to stay away from him. u dumb fucks don't even have the media literacy to comprehend even this much. just yapping

WHERE IS IT MENTIONED THAT HE IS A PURE VIRGIN U DUMBASS???? THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF DRAMAS WHERE THE MALE LEAD IS A PLAYBOY/DATES OTHER PEOPLE. u literally made up so many narratives here. also why is it offensive if ml are virgins? are u from the cavemen era where men should fuck anything they see and women should be pure angels??? there are not even many leads who are openly virgins in dramas, i can barely name one. also why are u so fucking obsessed with FICTIONAL characters sex life????this is not even a sex show

which most kdramas? plus its not even mentioned whether he is a virgin or not in this series, u just made that up in your mind. u made so many things up and are mad at the conculsions u drew up yourself

so u didn't even watch it and yet u are spewing all this bullshit????did u even read what i wrote??? nothing implies anything about their sexual life AND IT DOES NOT MATTER IN THE STORY. and also HOW TF DO U KNOW IF THEY SHOWED HIS STRUGGLES OR NOT IF U DON'T WATCH THE SHOW???? if u want to watch a red flag or more complicated guys go watch those shows....were u expecting a deep dive analysis of a guy in a 8 episode ROMANCE drama????

where did she ever say or imply that she wants him to be a virgin???are u all making scenes up in your head?

whats with you and virginity my god?????? what conversation even pointed to that?????

where did all the conservative brain dead people come from???? so many people arguing about virginity here when it is not even a plot here. nothing in this series has anything to do with anything sexual. just two grown adults reconnecting and falling in love. People are saying so many things they don't even know the meaning of. there is no 'abuse' or 'manipulative fl' here. are u all mad at the fact that both of them are taking their time and dating each other. so many people acting as if this series is a crime against men or something. if this 8 episode drama is making u all spew all this bullshit, maybe u all need to try therapy

jesus christ, what did she do to yall??? all of u are throwing words around. what abuse did she do to him???

they way there hasn't been a single conversation about anybody's virginity nor does any character imply anything yet we have freaks with no media literacy crying over here

The drama was going on very well, they just HAD to add an evil mother. But I liked the way both hong-ju and hoo-young handled her and gave her the facts. I think the argument was unnecessary but it ultimately made them understand each other better.
also sang-pil and hye-ji are absolute friend goals

jesus christ, u and your obsession with virginity

u are way too obsessed with fictional character's sex life. u need to get help. talk to normal people, touch grass and see a therapist

where did u get all that from??? If he had been deeply in love with her, he would have already known everything about her life in the past years or at least kept in contact with their mutual friends. i did not get the implication that he was deeply in love with her and was thinking abt her. he left, leaving her and his life in korea behind.....he came back, coincidentally met her, reconnected with his old friends and old life and now he wants to stay back and live his own life on his own decisions. its not implied that fl was dating men left and right, its shown that she has issues dating other people because of her trust issues. the ml nor the fl are not being shown as inexperienced people or people who waited for each other. it seems as though u have a issue with the writer being female. maybe u should check that out

i mean if u watch romance dramas, especially rom-com/feel good ones you will get people simping over their significant other. U can try thriller dramas or other genres to see other types of characters!

Um thats a big assumption to make. He was not hung up on the crush. He liked her but then he went away, lived his life for 10 years and his feelings reawakened when he met her, that too coincidentally. For him to be abusive or something he would have had to be stalking her while he was away or controlling her life or something. And he would have probably went to her when he landed back home. But none of that happened. If u don't like a drama u can just say that lol, no need to make such a big reach to justify u not liking stuff

i can't answer the first few questions but abt the ml and sfl it does not turn bad, it actually turns out to be a cute moment and makes their friendship more wholesome

why did we have two half-naked men in one episode lol

why didn't the writer guy just say to her that he will comeback and for her to wait??? like sir u were able to say it in the air why couldn't u turn around and say it to her face? would have saved us some time