I felt the same but half way through his trip, i understood why it was written into the script. In the novel,…
I understand your point. For me, no matter how much time passes, as long as a wound never truly heals, it will still hurt when you think about it. Perhaps due to daily activities or other pressing matters, the wound will be forgotten for a while. But as long as it's remembered, the pain remains. And the healing time and the way it heals are different for everyone. Maybe for Lin Yusen, he hasn't found the healing he needs. That doesn't mean it has to come from Nie Xiguang. But, what is clear is that healing has to come from his willingness to make peace with fate. That's what I find difficult. And this is what he got after reuniting with Nie Xiguang. He began to make peace with fate. Of course, it seems unhealthy because he is constantly tied to the past. But, that doesn't mean he doesn't want to let go. It's just too difficult for him to let go. The ability to let go itself comes from effort and is also a blessing. Some take only a short time. And others take years. Like his mother, who still couldn't find a way to come to terms with the loss of his father (her husband) and chose to leave. Even now, she still cries when she thinks about him, which shows that it still hurts. But I understand your point about feeling that the direction this drama is going is perhaps not so good.
It's the mental -and sometimes more- manifestation of an obsession. It makes little sense outside of cultivation…
I've also read some cultivation novels đ. And what I've gathered from them is that inner demons are a kind of obsession that binds those who hinder their progress in cultivation and must be overcome if they want to advance. So, the context is very negative. Therefore, I found it quite odd that it was used in Lin Yusen's letter to Nie Xiguang. Because I felt that aside from his anger towards Nie Xiguang, Lin Yusen actually still liked her.
I felt the same but half way through his trip, i understood why it was written into the script. In the novel,…
Actually, I can empathize quite a lot with Lin Yusen. Because having your hopes shattered with no possibility of them ever coming back again, after you have tried so hard for them, can truly destroy a personâs life. Especially when it all happens because of a meeting that would never have taken place if there hadnât been a lie from the very beginning. So I really understand it when he says, âmy life turned into a joke.â And that is actually the hardest thing for him to accept.
At first, he could accept it because he believed that the meeting was with the person he liked. Thatâs why he was able to accept the consequences. But when that person showed no concern at all for his condition after the accident, he could no longer accept it. Then, when he finally chose to let go of the past because he cared so deeply about that person, he was eventually able to accept that fate. But once again, fate seemed to toy with him by revealing the truthâthat the meeting was not actually with the person he liked.
In his mind, the thought âif onlyâŠâ must keep resurfacing. That is what makes it so hard for him to make peace with the pastâbecause of all those âif onlysâ constantly echoing in his head. And he wasnât really trying to blame Nie Xiguang for the accident (before he knew the truth that it was Ma Nianyuan who wanted to meet him). Rather, he felt that the accident became meaningless, his injuries became meaningless, because even the person he wanted to meet didnât care about him at all.
I don't understand the context of the inner demon that Lin Yusen is referring to. Is it some kind of obsession? Or something that continues to haunt him?
What did the FL's father actually gain by choosing a gold-digging woman and her conving daughter? He lost his…
To satisfy the superiority complex in him. For him, it's a needs. So, he willing to spend money for that. I don't think he cares about his mistress and her daughter. It's just they fit his needs.
TBH the ML's "nasty" tactics are rather nerdy- it's just overtime + more physical intensive work when…
And the reason she was injured actually had little to do with the ML. It was mostly due to her own recklessness in daring to climb onto the second-floor balcony. And because the ML's friend accidentally screamed when she saw her.
Both.It also doesn't help that since XG's father is close with one of Lin's toxic uncles, he knows how the family…
That's why his company is currently struggling financially, to the point where he's delaying payments to Shengyuan. With this mindset, and his mistress and her daughter constantly exploiting his wealth, he's just waiting for ruin.
Guys, don't pay too much attention to Nie Xiguang's father. If he had such a high level of awareness from the start, he wouldn't have hung out with that white moonlight, let alone divorced with his wife. In fact, if he suddenly showed awareness as a good father who gave his children freedom, especially in terms of choosing a partner, then he wouldn't be the chauvinistic Nie Chengyuan who constantly felt pressured because his wife was better than him in everything. I think this is why his wife divorced him, she was just tired of dealing with this person. Let alone his mistress. She just doesn't want to bother with them. The same goes for Nie Xiguang. She practically just ignored her father.
Exactly. That friend of his betrayed him the most.
That's what makes me most uncomfortable with people. When they act like nothing happened when someone else is hurt. Zhuang Xu is like that. His friend is too. But I think his friend probably thinks the ML has moved on, so he's hesitant to tell her. But still hiding it and acting like it's all in the past without caring about the ML's feelings can really hurt him.
I think Zhuang Xu respects Yusen more than Xiguang. The audacity of him to even doubt their relationship. I haven't…
I understand why Chris fall for him. Just like when xiguang haven't confessed to him. He seems like a normal guy who a bit aloof but handsome, charming, smart, hardworking, and responsible. I think besides fall of the first sight, these are the reasons why FL fall for him. Because he is like this before she confessed to her (It is shown that he cooks for her and her brother when there is no one to cook for them) . Chris also stated that before, she just likes his face and after he took responsibility for their friends that wounded, she also feel for the reliable and responsible him in her eyes.
I read a rather interesting comment about what might happen if Ma Nianyuan were to inherit her motherâs cunning…
Even actually in my opinion, Lin yusen didn't really want to seek a revenge to xiguang and everyone around her by making things difficult to her or targeted her father. It's just like, if we doesn't like someone or hold any grudges to someone, all of her actions could be escalated in front of our eyes, especially when she did something wrong. So, in my opinion, actually when Lin yusen did something that seems to targeted nie chengyuan, it also comes from his own considerations. However, because it concerned Xi Guang's father, his shortcomings and mistakes were magnified in his eyes. In other words, if it were anyone else, he would have taken similar actions, only on a scaled-down basis. Same as nie xiguang. When nie xiguang made a mistake, the mistake is magnified in his eyes, so he punishes her more harshly than he would if someone else had done it. But, that doesn't mean he's seeking revenge or anything. It's just that he's become more sensitive to her.
I read a rather interesting comment about what might happen if Ma Nianyuan were to inherit her motherâs cunning and intelligence in dealing with men and go to visit Lin Yusen in the hospital. Someone commented that if Ma Nianyuan were to do that, she and Lin Yusen would have more interactions, and Lin Yusen might end up falling into the cunning scheme laid out by Ma Nianyuan and her mother.
The comment goes like this: " I support the protagonists and dislike the antagonistsâweâre purely discussing the characters within the drama and not extending it to anything beyond that. I think Lin holds himself in very high regard, and what he couldnât tolerate the most was that the first time he developed feelings for a girl, he ended up being toyed with like a monkey. If Ma were to twist the facts and make Lin believe that Xigua had played him, would he seek revenge? He has thought about it, and he has done it beforeâconstantly making things difficult for the scumbag father at work is a clear example.
When he is in a position of power, he is the one controlling the game. He doesnât care whether the chess pieces are black or white; he only cares about which ones are useful. He would never like someone like Maâhe could tell at a glance what kind of person she is. But would he use Ma to take revenge on Xigua? And how would he use her to do soâby increasing her leverage and raising her status? Any of these would increase the interaction between Ma and Lin.
On the other hand, the âthird womanâ might tailor a highly targeted strategy for Ma based on Linâs personality. Different people require different methods. The approach used against the scumbag father definitely wouldnât work on Lin, but a strategy designed specifically for himâwould Lin fall for it? Isnât there a saying that you only donât fall into traps because you havenât encountered one designed specifically for you?
I think the actors playing the villainous scumbag father and the third woman did a great job; they really understood their characters. The calculating looks of both the third woman and the scumbag father were full of nuance. Iâd also like to see more plotlines where the villains scheme against each other."
What do you think guys ??? Before, I genuinely think even if ma nianyuan visit Lin yusen, Lin yusen would just angry to her and kick her out. But, now, I really curious if this comment really have any possibility ?
Chris, RUN! run before it's too late. there's a hotpot boiling inside his heart, you're way too cool for him.…
Yes, I learned from this drama that it's really hard to judge people. At first, I thought appearances could be deceiving. But it turns out even good manners and responsibility can be deceiving. Or is Zhuang Xu really just acting that way towards Xiguang?
At first, he could accept it because he believed that the meeting was with the person he liked. Thatâs why he was able to accept the consequences. But when that person showed no concern at all for his condition after the accident, he could no longer accept it. Then, when he finally chose to let go of the past because he cared so deeply about that person, he was eventually able to accept that fate. But once again, fate seemed to toy with him by revealing the truthâthat the meeting was not actually with the person he liked.
In his mind, the thought âif onlyâŠâ must keep resurfacing. That is what makes it so hard for him to make peace with the pastâbecause of all those âif onlysâ constantly echoing in his head. And he wasnât really trying to blame Nie Xiguang for the accident (before he knew the truth that it was Ma Nianyuan who wanted to meet him). Rather, he felt that the accident became meaningless, his injuries became meaningless, because even the person he wanted to meet didnât care about him at all.
the mistake is magnified in his eyes, so he punishes her more harshly than he would if someone else had done it. But, that doesn't mean he's seeking revenge or anything. It's just that he's become more sensitive to her.
The comment goes like this:
" I support the protagonists and dislike the antagonistsâweâre purely discussing the characters within the drama and not extending it to anything beyond that. I think Lin holds himself in very high regard, and what he couldnât tolerate the most was that the first time he developed feelings for a girl, he ended up being toyed with like a monkey. If Ma were to twist the facts and make Lin believe that Xigua had played him, would he seek revenge? He has thought about it, and he has done it beforeâconstantly making things difficult for the scumbag father at work is a clear example.
When he is in a position of power, he is the one controlling the game. He doesnât care whether the chess pieces are black or white; he only cares about which ones are useful. He would never like someone like Maâhe could tell at a glance what kind of person she is. But would he use Ma to take revenge on Xigua? And how would he use her to do soâby increasing her leverage and raising her status? Any of these would increase the interaction between Ma and Lin.
On the other hand, the âthird womanâ might tailor a highly targeted strategy for Ma based on Linâs personality. Different people require different methods. The approach used against the scumbag father definitely wouldnât work on Lin, but a strategy designed specifically for himâwould Lin fall for it? Isnât there a saying that you only donât fall into traps because you havenât encountered one designed specifically for you?
I think the actors playing the villainous scumbag father and the third woman did a great job; they really understood their characters. The calculating looks of both the third woman and the scumbag father were full of nuance. Iâd also like to see more plotlines where the villains scheme against each other."
What do you think guys ??? Before, I genuinely think even if ma nianyuan visit Lin yusen, Lin yusen would just angry to her and kick her out. But, now, I really curious if this comment really have any possibility ?