Common sense here, what friend would ever be worried about you not calling or talking to them, then out of concern, through you, a sex clip saying the person looks like you?!!! Crazy and never should be taken as a friend's behavior.
Now I could understand him, having a mum like that and a father, worst of all, is trying to accept them, which didn't go as planned. Knew Tseng Ching Hua would be on my mind again.