Thap claiming the umbrella’s just for him but sneakily tilting it to protect In from the sun, leaving his own shoulder exposed? 😍 Fake grump with the softest heart ever! Melting over this destined duo 🔮💕
🌸 Hua Yong’s rut scenes in ABO Desire Ep 5 are EVERYTHING! 😍 Huang Xing absolutely nails the intensity and vulnerability, especially that chained scene—my heart was racing! The way they show his Enigma side coming through is chef’s kiss. No spoilers, but the emotional depth and those pheromonal vibes had me glued to the screen.
The literal translation is: “Place an insanely customized order at a café.” But honestly? That doesn’t capture the quiet rebellion underneath.
Try:
• Order something at a café that’s so extra, it shocks both me and the barista
• Customize a drink like I’m finally ready to speak up
• Be the kind of person I used to silently judge for having a complicated order
Okay but why am I emotional over this? 😭
I’m an extrovert. I’ve never struggled to say “Actually, can I get oat milk instead?” But I used to live in Japan, and I’ve worked with colleagues like Tojo. Brilliant, kind, responsible… and almost completely silent outside of meetings.
They would go out of their way to avoid anything that might lead to small talk. Even ordering coffee was kept to the bare minimum.
“One hot coffee.” No eye contact. No hesitation. No room for mistakes.
So when someone like Tojo puts “customize a coffee order” on his pre-40 bucket list, it’s not just about the drink.
It’s about allowing himself to want something. To ask. To be perceived.
And the barista? Probably had no idea they were witnessing someone’s soft launch into becoming a person who believes they deserve nice things.
Sometimes the smallest acts of self-care hit the hardest. And honestly, I love that for him. 💙
Memoir of Rati – Floating Lanterns and Feelings Galore
Okay, can we talk about Thee for a second?
So I’m watching this episode and literally screaming at my screen because HOW did this man just casually appear in Rati’s room? Like, I need answers. Did he climb through a window? Sweet-talk the servants and guards again? Because honestly, if someone woke me up like that, I’d either be calling security or swooning. There is no in-between.
But then he pulls out this handmade sachet with roses and cloves, and I’m like… okay, fine, you win this round, Thee.
Let’s appreciate the Loy Krathong vibes
Can we just pause and appreciate how gorgeous this festival looks? I mean, I knew about floating lanterns from other BL series, but seeing it in this show just hits different. The whole tradition of floating your wishes and cleansing your sins while honoring the water goddess is actually beautiful.
Loy Krathong happens on the full moon of the 12th lunar month in the Thai lunar calendar — which lands on November 5th in 2025. People create floating offerings called krathongs, usually made from banana leaves and decorated with candles, flowers, incense, and sometimes coins. These are floated on rivers or ponds to honor Goddess Khongkha, the spirit of the water. It’s a deeply spiritual ritual meant to release bad luck, past mistakes, and ask for blessings in return.
Now here’s where the show makes my heart combust: Thee and Rati float just one krathong. Not two. One.
This is major. In Thai culture, when two people share one krathong, it symbolizes romantic unity and shared destiny. It’s basically saying “we belong together and we’re sending our wish to the gods as one.”
And then the vow scene? I had to rewind. Multiple times. Because: • Thee is out here pledging his entire heart and existence to Rati • Rati responds with the exact same energy, no hesitation • I’m crying into my coffee
Whoever wrote this scene understands the assignment — and then some.
Lady Pa is actually… kind of amazing?
Okay, unpopular opinion maybe, but I’m starting to really like Pa. She walks into this whole mess, immediately clocks the tension between Thee and Rati (because girl has EYES), and instead of being the typical jealous fiancée, she’s just practical about it.
Quick cultural note here: In Thai, “Ying” (หญิง) is a formal prefix meaning “lady” or “miss.” It’s often used in historical dramas for upper-class women. That’s why in the English subtitles, she’s called Lady Pa, not Ying Pa. It’s not her name, it’s a title.
And that whole scene where she gives Thee an escape route? “I’ll count to three, you disappear, I’ll handle grandma.” Thee doesn’t even wait for her to finish. Gone.
Honestly, Pa deserves someone who wants to be there. This arranged marriage thing is clearly not it for either of them. And props to her for being classy while totally over it.
Mek and Dech are giving me all the feels
While everyone’s focused on the main couple (and rightfully so), can we talk about these two?
Mek’s French skills are creating this unexpected connection with Dech, and the way Dech lights up when they can communicate in a language that feels private and personal? Adorable.
There’s also that running theme of language as emotional intimacy — Dech wanting Mek to drop formal speech, but then getting caught by his scary noble dad for being “too casual.” That’s very Thai. In Thai society, formal vs. informal language reflects social status, and calling someone “Ai + name” is extremely familiar — usually reserved for close friends or people of equal standing.
Mek’s quick save? “I’m just a lowly servant, sir. Please let your son talk to me casually so I don’t drop dead from stress.” Honestly? Iconic.
And that heart-to-heart by the river? Dech admits he hates all the social games, how his future feels decided by his dad, and how boxing is the only thing that makes him feel like himself. Mek shares his quiet goal: to buy back his late mother’s land, which was taken due to debt and unfair interest rates — a sadly common theme in Thai period and even modern dramas, reflecting real-world land inequality.
The pinky-promise energy of it all? Peak second lead syndrome. I’m obsessed.
Random thoughts that kept me up • Someone needs to mass-produce those sachets because I NEED that rose and clove blend in my life • The fireworks scene was way more extra than I expected (in the best way) • Thee clinging to Rati after dinner like he’s afraid he’ll disappear. Sir, we see you • Mek’s fake-humble “please talk down to me” moment was cultural judo and I loved it
The cultural details hit different
What I really love is that the show doesn’t treat Thai culture like set dressing. They actually explain why traditions matter and what they symbolize — like how floating a krathong can honor a deity and also carry personal meaning, or how certain gestures and language choices say a lot about a character’s position and values.
Spotting Wat Arun in the background during the festival scene made everything feel even more real. It’s one of Bangkok’s most iconic temples, and the fact that it’s quietly framed during such a meaningful moment was such a respectful touch.
What’s got me stressed for next episode
The preview has me stressed. Rati getting knighted sounds incredible, but Thee’s dad showing up to talk wedding plans? Absolutely not. Not now. And Mek possibly being pressured to throw a boxing match? My heart is already preparing for pain.
I’m not okay and I will not be okay.
Final thoughts (because I have feelings)
This episode didn’t just give us romance — it gave us cultural depth, emotional vulnerability, and symbolic storytelling that genuinely feels respectful and meaningful.
Whether it’s Thee and Rati’s one-krathong devotion, Pa’s graceful dignity, or Mek and Dech’s growing closeness across social lines, everything is done with care. Nothing feels rushed or superficial. This drama knows what it’s doing and it’s doing it beautifully.
Also, the Thai fandom trending this episode while staying mindful of ongoing national issues? That’s real respect and solidarity. And it makes me proud to be part of a fandom that knows when to swoon and when to stand still.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go rewatch that lantern scene approximately seventeen more times. For research purposes. Obviously.
Next week cannot come fast enough, and I am not emotionally ready for it. Someone send help (and tissues).
One thing I absolutely love about My Sweetheart Jom is how gorgeous it looks!
While most BL dramas from Japan, Korea, and Taiwan clock in at around 20-something minutes with mostly indoor scenes (compared to Thai dramas that usually run 50 minutes), this show really goes all out with stunning outdoor locations. You can tell they put serious money and effort into those beautiful natural settings!
That scene of Yo biking around looking for Jom? Chef’s kiss 🚴♂️ All those fallen leaves and gorgeous trees - it was like watching poetry in motion. The cinematography in this series is just next level!
And can we talk about Yo for a second? I’ve seen so many comments about him being thirsty (lol, fair), but I think those intense moments where he’s trying to kiss Jom or being all possessive actually show how insecure he’s feeling. Like, imagine being compared to Jom’s ex who’s this successful, put-together adult - no wonder the poor guy is feeling a bit desperate to prove himself!
Also, today I learned that “Jom” is short for “Jomkuan” which means “sweetheart” and now I’m even more soft about this whole thing. 🥺Honestly, with how much focus there is on Yo’s emotional journey and insecurities, maybe this show should have been called “My Insecure Yotin” or “Yotin’s Sweetheart” instead!
This drama really knows how to combine beautiful visuals with genuine emotional moments. It’s giving me all the feels in the best way possible!
My brain: okay Thee just needs to get a diplomatic posting to France, follow his man home, BOOM problem solved—
Mek and Dech exist
Me: EVERYONE GET DIPLOMATIC IMMUNITY AND FLEE 😭
Why am I out here like a career counselor for fictional gay couples instead of eating breakfast??? Historical BL really said “let’s ruin this girl’s entire morning” 💀
Haibara’s got that rare “I want to adopt you, not date you” vibe, and honestly? It’s so refreshing. He sees a cute guy and immediately shifts into protective big brother mode. No romance, just full emotional guardianship.
The way he’s out here collecting little brothers like Hajime and Kuromiya? Peak wholesome chaos. No ulterior motives. Just pure “I will throw hands for my found family” energy. And he is completely unhinged about it in the funniest way.
This man probably keeps a mental spreadsheet of his brothers’ favorite snacks and daily routines. Meanwhile, he has zero awareness of how weirdly intense his big brother performance looks to everyone else. The comedic timing is perfect.
It’s wild how much more compelling a character becomes when their default setting is nurturing instead of horny. I need more chaotic big brother energy in anime, immediately.
A Perfect Ending: "The Ex-Morning" Finale Delivers 11/10 Chaos and Joy!
It's literally midnight, and I'm finally getting a moment to gush about The Ex-Morning finale – and honestly, this ending was absolutely perfect! I'm easily giving it an 11/10. The entire vibe was pure chaos and joy, culminating in a full, traditional Thai same-sex wedding ceremony, complete with legal registration. And what a cute Easter egg: the government office worker who officiated Phi and Tam’s marriage was actually P’Lit, the show’s director!
Episode 10 felt like one giant Thai wedding extravaganza. The wildest part? They performed the groom’s procession ritual for both sides. We got double the chaos with matching procession teams carrying identical ceremonial items. My mind was blown; normally in straight weddings, only the groom’s side goes through this elaborate tradition. If you’ve seen the Thai version of Ossan’s Love, you'll recall only Earth’s side had the procession for Mix. But here? KristSingto basically said, “Why choose?” and went full maximum chaos mode with both sides doing it – truly iconic behavior.
A Note on Wedding Traditions
Speaking of wedding traditions, the Thai custom of bridesmaids blocking the path with rope and making the grooms do challenges for red envelopes had me cracking up! (A Thai American friend explained this custom to me after the show.) It instantly reminded me of a Taiwanese wedding I attended where those bridesmaids made the groom do 100 push-ups – I was absolutely dying then too!
Back to the Show!
That scene where they dragged all the wedding guests into the rain? Pure cinema! It beautifully referenced Tam’s favorite movie, the 2013 classic About Time, specifically that iconic rain scene with the leads. So, when our boys decided to have their wedding blessing in the downpour, it exuded major romantic movie protagonist energy – literally letting the universe shower them with blessings! Traditional Thai weddings conclude with guests pouring water from conch shells over the newlyweds as a blessing. Everyone was having the time of their lives getting completely soaked, embracing that "we’re already here and already wet" energy.
However, I have to call out Tam for claiming to be such a planner who thinks of everything, yet having zero backup plan for rain! Sir, where was your contingency plan? Don’t blame Phi’s weather forecast when you didn’t even consider indoor alternatives!
The wedding games also had some sneaky references. When asked about the first show Phi and Tam watched together, the answer was SOTUS! Though Gie asked about movies, and Phi totally missed the assignment, haha.
The bedroom blessing scene with the parents was incredibly sweet, and Tam’s mom dropping that relationship wisdom about "adding fuel to the fire" to keep the passion alive? Honestly, that’s iconic life advice! Also, major props to them sitting in traditional Thai style the entire time – anyone who’s tried this knows your legs will be screaming by the end!
The post-credits scene was actually educational, demonstrating exactly how to register for same-sex marriage in Thailand now that it’s legal! Remember to bring your partner (duh) and two witnesses with proper ID. Fill out the paperwork, and boom – you get your official marriage certificate! Love that for us.
They wrapped everything up with a gorgeous cast photo that left me feeling all the feels. If they do a special episode, I'm definitely manifesting some honeymoon shenanigans!
I don’t know if The Ex-Morning brought new fans to the Peraya fandom, but the longtime stans definitely aren’t going anywhere – if anything, we’re even more obsessed now 💜
A toast to the finale: This series really said “what if we ended with actual perfect writing AND phenomenal acting” and honestly? Revolutionary. Krist and Singto saved their best for last and I’m obsessed. Peak Peraya energy right until the very end 🥂✨
CC probably thought he could handle it, you know? Like he’s with WSW now so obviously he’s moved on from Wang Shuo and can just hang out like normal people. Classic mistake - thinking you’re over something when you’re really just avoiding it. Maybe he wanted to prove he could be mature about it or something.
Wang Shuo though… that man had an agenda. No way he just happened to be back in town and thought “oh let me casually hang with my ex and the guy I cheated with.” He wanted to see something - if CC still had feelings, if he could still mess with his head, who knows. Maybe he regrets what happened or maybe he just missed the attention.
And GCY setting this up is honestly the weirdest part. Like what was his endgame here? Does he think getting everyone in the same room will magically fix the mess he helped create? Or is he one of those people who stirs the pot because he can’t handle unfinished business? Part of me wonders if he just likes being in the middle of the drama he caused.
The whole thing screams unresolved issues and nobody wanting to admit they’re not actually over what happened. What a train wreck.
Episode two was really good! I loved watching Hill and Bay hunt for their dating game male lead prototype. Going after influencers and internet celebrities first? Total disaster, but honestly I saw that coming from a mile away. Of course they’d end up with the company boss as their guy.
Okay, tiny nitpick here: I think I’ve watched way too much of Koji Mukai doing his idol thing in Japanese, because something feels off with his Thai performances. Like those drunk scenes? They just didn’t hit the same way - felt kinda flat, you know?
When Thada can’t win an argument with Armin, he always puts his hands in his pockets, and it gives me such classic old movie gentleman vibes. Oh my god, that rehearsal scene - after Armin left, I literally thought for a moment that Thada was going to break into tap dancing like those old movie stars! 😂
The way he just stands there with that classic pose… it’s giving me major vintage Hollywood leading man energy and I am HERE for it!
OMG I can’t even right now 😭😭 sorry if spoilers but I literally cannot contain myself after this episode
GUYS. I am not okay. Like actually not okay. They really had Ren and Thiwthit bribing prop people to put real bullets in the gun??? WHO THOUGHT THIS WAS A GOOD IDEA. I was literally yelling at my screen like “NO NO NO NOT AGAIN”
And when Armin got shot I genuinely thought they were gonna kill him off AGAIN and make him restart his whole life and I was like absolutely not, my heart cannot take this twice 😩
But Thada’s reaction though… the way he just completely lost it… I felt that in my SOUL. Like this man really said “if anything happens to Armin I will burn this whole world down” and honestly? Valid.
I know the writers are just trying to show us how much Thada loves him but like… it’s working??? I’m sitting here married with a whole husband and somehow getting butterflies over fictional Thada being all protective 💀
The hospital scene had me crying happy tears I’m not even ashamed. We all just want someone to love us like Thada loves Armin don’t we??
Anyway I’m gonna go rewatch that scene where he panics bc apparently I enjoy emotional damage
10/10 still obsessed with this show
im sayinnn. Never had an issue with the uni bls. How could I when that's how I fell in love with the industry?…
The winery analogy is PERFECT and honestly so wholesome 🍷✨ You’re so right - just because we’ve developed more refined tastes doesn’t mean the classics should disappear!
Love how you flipped the whole “selfish bastards” thing lmao. Thailand really has mastered the uni BL formula and honestly? Respect the craft! Plus you never know when curiosity might bring us back to check out a “new vintage” 😌
Well said haha I was like ofc once again an engineer student with a medical student, then there's a fight , there'll…
STOPPP the accuracy is sending me 💀 You really just called out the entire BL formula in one comment!
Engineer/medical student + fight + beach scene + “same cringey stuff” = the BL starter pack we all fell for at some point 😭 And you know what? We were FED and we said thank you!
And this is how China takes over the BL industry with RL (literally breaks GagaOOLala every time an episode releases)…
Yesss the Chinese BL renaissance is real! Love that you’re still loyal to your Thai BL roots though - LITA and Not Me were iconic gateway drugs! And honestly you’re so right about keeping an open mind because you never know when they’ll drop another gem like Reset or TharnePo that just hits different ✨
You got it perfectly. Because watching the first episode and trailer itself made me think I would've eaten this…
Aw that’s actually so wholesome though! Like you’ve come full circle - from “baby’s first BL” energy to seasoned veteran back to appreciating the gateway shows for what they are 🥺
It’s giving elder millennial wisdom vibes and I’m here for it. Sometimes we need that reminder that the “basic” stuff still has its place and deserves respect for bringing new people into the fold! Plus lowkey those comfort tropes hit different when you’re feeling nostalgic ✨
you know, I wish there was the basic BLs for the newbies and then BLs that are just for us seasoned BLs fans out…
Yes! The two-tier system would be perfect - like having your cozy comfort shows AND the stuff that actually makes you kick your feet and giggle like you’re 16 again 😭
You nailed it with the “beautiful sweet caring moments” - that’s literally what we’re all here for! When the chemistry and tenderness actually hit different and you’re just sitting there like “why am I single” lmaooo. We need more of that magic ✨
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“カフェですごいカスタマイズをする”
The literal translation is:
“Place an insanely customized order at a café.”
But honestly? That doesn’t capture the quiet rebellion underneath.
Try:
• Order something at a café that’s so extra, it shocks both me and the barista
• Customize a drink like I’m finally ready to speak up
• Be the kind of person I used to silently judge for having a complicated order
Okay but why am I emotional over this? 😭
I’m an extrovert. I’ve never struggled to say “Actually, can I get oat milk instead?”
But I used to live in Japan, and I’ve worked with colleagues like Tojo. Brilliant, kind, responsible… and almost completely silent outside of meetings.
They would go out of their way to avoid anything that might lead to small talk. Even ordering coffee was kept to the bare minimum.
“One hot coffee.” No eye contact. No hesitation. No room for mistakes.
So when someone like Tojo puts “customize a coffee order” on his pre-40 bucket list, it’s not just about the drink.
It’s about allowing himself to want something.
To ask.
To be perceived.
And the barista? Probably had no idea they were witnessing someone’s soft launch into becoming a person who believes they deserve nice things.
Sometimes the smallest acts of self-care hit the hardest.
And honestly, I love that for him. 💙
Okay, can we talk about Thee for a second?
So I’m watching this episode and literally screaming at my screen because HOW did this man just casually appear in Rati’s room? Like, I need answers. Did he climb through a window? Sweet-talk the servants and guards again? Because honestly, if someone woke me up like that, I’d either be calling security or swooning. There is no in-between.
But then he pulls out this handmade sachet with roses and cloves, and I’m like… okay, fine, you win this round, Thee.
Let’s appreciate the Loy Krathong vibes
Can we just pause and appreciate how gorgeous this festival looks? I mean, I knew about floating lanterns from other BL series, but seeing it in this show just hits different. The whole tradition of floating your wishes and cleansing your sins while honoring the water goddess is actually beautiful.
Loy Krathong happens on the full moon of the 12th lunar month in the Thai lunar calendar — which lands on November 5th in 2025. People create floating offerings called krathongs, usually made from banana leaves and decorated with candles, flowers, incense, and sometimes coins. These are floated on rivers or ponds to honor Goddess Khongkha, the spirit of the water. It’s a deeply spiritual ritual meant to release bad luck, past mistakes, and ask for blessings in return.
Now here’s where the show makes my heart combust: Thee and Rati float just one krathong. Not two. One.
This is major. In Thai culture, when two people share one krathong, it symbolizes romantic unity and shared destiny. It’s basically saying “we belong together and we’re sending our wish to the gods as one.”
And then the vow scene? I had to rewind. Multiple times. Because:
• Thee is out here pledging his entire heart and existence to Rati
• Rati responds with the exact same energy, no hesitation
• I’m crying into my coffee
Whoever wrote this scene understands the assignment — and then some.
Lady Pa is actually… kind of amazing?
Okay, unpopular opinion maybe, but I’m starting to really like Pa. She walks into this whole mess, immediately clocks the tension between Thee and Rati (because girl has EYES), and instead of being the typical jealous fiancée, she’s just practical about it.
Quick cultural note here: In Thai, “Ying” (หญิง) is a formal prefix meaning “lady” or “miss.” It’s often used in historical dramas for upper-class women. That’s why in the English subtitles, she’s called Lady Pa, not Ying Pa. It’s not her name, it’s a title.
And that whole scene where she gives Thee an escape route? “I’ll count to three, you disappear, I’ll handle grandma.” Thee doesn’t even wait for her to finish. Gone.
Honestly, Pa deserves someone who wants to be there. This arranged marriage thing is clearly not it for either of them. And props to her for being classy while totally over it.
Mek and Dech are giving me all the feels
While everyone’s focused on the main couple (and rightfully so), can we talk about these two?
Mek’s French skills are creating this unexpected connection with Dech, and the way Dech lights up when they can communicate in a language that feels private and personal? Adorable.
There’s also that running theme of language as emotional intimacy — Dech wanting Mek to drop formal speech, but then getting caught by his scary noble dad for being “too casual.” That’s very Thai. In Thai society, formal vs. informal language reflects social status, and calling someone “Ai + name” is extremely familiar — usually reserved for close friends or people of equal standing.
Mek’s quick save? “I’m just a lowly servant, sir. Please let your son talk to me casually so I don’t drop dead from stress.” Honestly? Iconic.
And that heart-to-heart by the river? Dech admits he hates all the social games, how his future feels decided by his dad, and how boxing is the only thing that makes him feel like himself. Mek shares his quiet goal: to buy back his late mother’s land, which was taken due to debt and unfair interest rates — a sadly common theme in Thai period and even modern dramas, reflecting real-world land inequality.
The pinky-promise energy of it all? Peak second lead syndrome. I’m obsessed.
Random thoughts that kept me up
• Someone needs to mass-produce those sachets because I NEED that rose and clove blend in my life
• The fireworks scene was way more extra than I expected (in the best way)
• Thee clinging to Rati after dinner like he’s afraid he’ll disappear. Sir, we see you
• Mek’s fake-humble “please talk down to me” moment was cultural judo and I loved it
The cultural details hit different
What I really love is that the show doesn’t treat Thai culture like set dressing. They actually explain why traditions matter and what they symbolize — like how floating a krathong can honor a deity and also carry personal meaning, or how certain gestures and language choices say a lot about a character’s position and values.
Spotting Wat Arun in the background during the festival scene made everything feel even more real. It’s one of Bangkok’s most iconic temples, and the fact that it’s quietly framed during such a meaningful moment was such a respectful touch.
What’s got me stressed for next episode
The preview has me stressed. Rati getting knighted sounds incredible, but Thee’s dad showing up to talk wedding plans? Absolutely not. Not now. And Mek possibly being pressured to throw a boxing match? My heart is already preparing for pain.
I’m not okay and I will not be okay.
Final thoughts (because I have feelings)
This episode didn’t just give us romance — it gave us cultural depth, emotional vulnerability, and symbolic storytelling that genuinely feels respectful and meaningful.
Whether it’s Thee and Rati’s one-krathong devotion, Pa’s graceful dignity, or Mek and Dech’s growing closeness across social lines, everything is done with care. Nothing feels rushed or superficial. This drama knows what it’s doing and it’s doing it beautifully.
Also, the Thai fandom trending this episode while staying mindful of ongoing national issues? That’s real respect and solidarity. And it makes me proud to be part of a fandom that knows when to swoon and when to stand still.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go rewatch that lantern scene approximately seventeen more times. For research purposes. Obviously.
Next week cannot come fast enough, and I am not emotionally ready for it. Someone send help (and tissues).
While most BL dramas from Japan, Korea, and Taiwan clock in at around 20-something minutes with mostly indoor scenes (compared to Thai dramas that usually run 50 minutes), this show really goes all out with stunning outdoor locations. You can tell they put serious money and effort into those beautiful natural settings!
That scene of Yo biking around looking for Jom? Chef’s kiss 🚴♂️ All those fallen leaves and gorgeous trees - it was like watching poetry in motion. The cinematography in this series is just next level!
And can we talk about Yo for a second? I’ve seen so many comments about him being thirsty (lol, fair), but I think those intense moments where he’s trying to kiss Jom or being all possessive actually show how insecure he’s feeling. Like, imagine being compared to Jom’s ex who’s this successful, put-together adult - no wonder the poor guy is feeling a bit desperate to prove himself!
Also, today I learned that “Jom” is short for “Jomkuan” which means “sweetheart” and now I’m even more soft about this whole thing. 🥺Honestly, with how much focus there is on Yo’s emotional journey and insecurities, maybe this show should have been called “My Insecure Yotin” or “Yotin’s Sweetheart” instead!
This drama really knows how to combine beautiful visuals with genuine emotional moments. It’s giving me all the feels in the best way possible!
Thee and Rati have ONE soft moment
My brain: okay Thee just needs to get a diplomatic posting to France, follow his man home, BOOM problem solved—
Mek and Dech exist
Me: EVERYONE GET DIPLOMATIC IMMUNITY AND FLEE 😭
Why am I out here like a career counselor for fictional gay couples instead of eating breakfast??? Historical BL really said “let’s ruin this girl’s entire morning” 💀
The way he’s out here collecting little brothers like Hajime and Kuromiya? Peak wholesome chaos. No ulterior motives. Just pure “I will throw hands for my found family” energy. And he is completely unhinged about it in the funniest way.
This man probably keeps a mental spreadsheet of his brothers’ favorite snacks and daily routines. Meanwhile, he has zero awareness of how weirdly intense his big brother performance looks to everyone else. The comedic timing is perfect.
It’s wild how much more compelling a character becomes when their default setting is nurturing instead of horny. I need more chaotic big brother energy in anime, immediately.
It's literally midnight, and I'm finally getting a moment to gush about The Ex-Morning finale – and honestly, this ending was absolutely perfect! I'm easily giving it an 11/10. The entire vibe was pure chaos and joy, culminating in a full, traditional Thai same-sex wedding ceremony, complete with legal registration. And what a cute Easter egg: the government office worker who officiated Phi and Tam’s marriage was actually P’Lit, the show’s director!
Episode 10 felt like one giant Thai wedding extravaganza. The wildest part? They performed the groom’s procession ritual for both sides. We got double the chaos with matching procession teams carrying identical ceremonial items. My mind was blown; normally in straight weddings, only the groom’s side goes through this elaborate tradition. If you’ve seen the Thai version of Ossan’s Love, you'll recall only Earth’s side had the procession for Mix. But here? KristSingto basically said, “Why choose?” and went full maximum chaos mode with both sides doing it – truly iconic behavior.
A Note on Wedding Traditions
Speaking of wedding traditions, the Thai custom of bridesmaids blocking the path with rope and making the grooms do challenges for red envelopes had me cracking up! (A Thai American friend explained this custom to me after the show.) It instantly reminded me of a Taiwanese wedding I attended where those bridesmaids made the groom do 100 push-ups – I was absolutely dying then too!
Back to the Show!
That scene where they dragged all the wedding guests into the rain? Pure cinema! It beautifully referenced Tam’s favorite movie, the 2013 classic About Time, specifically that iconic rain scene with the leads. So, when our boys decided to have their wedding blessing in the downpour, it exuded major romantic movie protagonist energy – literally letting the universe shower them with blessings! Traditional Thai weddings conclude with guests pouring water from conch shells over the newlyweds as a blessing. Everyone was having the time of their lives getting completely soaked, embracing that "we’re already here and already wet" energy.
However, I have to call out Tam for claiming to be such a planner who thinks of everything, yet having zero backup plan for rain! Sir, where was your contingency plan? Don’t blame Phi’s weather forecast when you didn’t even consider indoor alternatives!
The wedding games also had some sneaky references. When asked about the first show Phi and Tam watched together, the answer was SOTUS! Though Gie asked about movies, and Phi totally missed the assignment, haha.
The bedroom blessing scene with the parents was incredibly sweet, and Tam’s mom dropping that relationship wisdom about "adding fuel to the fire" to keep the passion alive? Honestly, that’s iconic life advice! Also, major props to them sitting in traditional Thai style the entire time – anyone who’s tried this knows your legs will be screaming by the end!
The post-credits scene was actually educational, demonstrating exactly how to register for same-sex marriage in Thailand now that it’s legal! Remember to bring your partner (duh) and two witnesses with proper ID. Fill out the paperwork, and boom – you get your official marriage certificate! Love that for us.
They wrapped everything up with a gorgeous cast photo that left me feeling all the feels. If they do a special episode, I'm definitely manifesting some honeymoon shenanigans!
I don’t know if The Ex-Morning brought new fans to the Peraya fandom, but the longtime stans definitely aren’t going anywhere – if anything, we’re even more obsessed now 💜
CC probably thought he could handle it, you know? Like he’s with WSW now so obviously he’s moved on from Wang Shuo and can just hang out like normal people. Classic mistake - thinking you’re over something when you’re really just avoiding it. Maybe he wanted to prove he could be mature about it or something.
Wang Shuo though… that man had an agenda. No way he just happened to be back in town and thought “oh let me casually hang with my ex and the guy I cheated with.” He wanted to see something - if CC still had feelings, if he could still mess with his head, who knows. Maybe he regrets what happened or maybe he just missed the attention.
And GCY setting this up is honestly the weirdest part. Like what was his endgame here? Does he think getting everyone in the same room will magically fix the mess he helped create? Or is he one of those people who stirs the pot because he can’t handle unfinished business? Part of me wonders if he just likes being in the middle of the drama he caused.
The whole thing screams unresolved issues and nobody wanting to admit they’re not actually over what happened. What a train wreck.
Okay, tiny nitpick here: I think I’ve watched way too much of Koji Mukai doing his idol thing in Japanese, because something feels off with his Thai performances. Like those drunk scenes? They just didn’t hit the same way - felt kinda flat, you know?
The way he just stands there with that classic pose… it’s giving me major vintage Hollywood leading man energy and I am HERE for it!
sorry if spoilers but I literally cannot contain myself after this episode
GUYS. I am not okay. Like actually not okay.
They really had Ren and Thiwthit bribing prop people to put real bullets in the gun??? WHO THOUGHT THIS WAS A GOOD IDEA. I was literally yelling at my screen like “NO NO NO NOT AGAIN”
And when Armin got shot I genuinely thought they were gonna kill him off AGAIN and make him restart his whole life and I was like absolutely not, my heart cannot take this twice 😩
But Thada’s reaction though… the way he just completely lost it… I felt that in my SOUL. Like this man really said “if anything happens to Armin I will burn this whole world down” and honestly? Valid.
I know the writers are just trying to show us how much Thada loves him but like… it’s working??? I’m sitting here married with a whole husband and somehow getting butterflies over fictional Thada being all protective 💀
The hospital scene had me crying happy tears I’m not even ashamed. We all just want someone to love us like Thada loves Armin don’t we??
Anyway I’m gonna go rewatch that scene where he panics bc apparently I enjoy emotional damage
10/10 still obsessed with this show
Love how you flipped the whole “selfish bastards” thing lmao. Thailand really has mastered the uni BL formula and honestly? Respect the craft! Plus you never know when curiosity might bring us back to check out a “new vintage” 😌
Engineer/medical student + fight + beach scene + “same cringey stuff” = the BL starter pack we all fell for at some point 😭 And you know what? We were FED and we said thank you!
It’s giving elder millennial wisdom vibes and I’m here for it. Sometimes we need that reminder that the “basic” stuff still has its place and deserves respect for bringing new people into the fold! Plus lowkey those comfort tropes hit different when you’re feeling nostalgic ✨
You nailed it with the “beautiful sweet caring moments” - that’s literally what we’re all here for! When the chemistry and tenderness actually hit different and you’re just sitting there like “why am I single” lmaooo. We need more of that magic ✨