well this makes sence now... but idk he kinda went too hard when he was trying to get her to go work to the supermarket and the strawberry jelly jelousy
I think he didn't wanted her to go after the eight feet ghost when she was younger it was better for her to believe…
I think bcs he didn't wanted to go after that ghost? To him the main thing was to ascend to heavens not go around helping people. But yeah it made his life harder and her not wanting to trust him all this time.