Shubham

She was sane enough to say no to Her friend .right now people will defend even cheating with bullcrap excuse . Next you will gonna say she was bored and someone take advantage so it's not cheating ?? So exactly when will it considered cheating by your defination ??

Mistake is something you take risk on or do unintentionally. choice is something you knew the consequences and then choose to do it so Cheating is considered as choice because there is no benefit of it and you know that but still choose to do it .

She was sane enough to say no to Her friend .right now people will defend even cheating with bullcrap excuse . Next you will gonna say she was bored and someone take advantage so it's not cheating ?? So exactly when will it considered cheating by your defination ??

Mistake is something you take risk on or do unintentionally. choice is something you knew the consequences and then choose to do it so Cheating is considered as choice because there is no benefit of it and you know that but still choose to do it .

I think you missed the ending scene . She meet ML again the same way she met him first time which hinted that they will date in the future . She cheated on ML and then Goes into another relationship without ever thinking and feeling sorry for ML . She never apologize to him so She get better part of the deal . ML get accused of cheating . He followed her like a fool and didn't get anyone to back him and in the end again meet the cheater and probably get back together .

I think maybe he know that Dh is a idol . Even panelist recognised her so I think he was going for her because of her popularity but flirting with everyone thats why he said I didn't have particular person in mind but I will go hard against anyone ex but I don't think DH will choose him because she was too emotional for her ex if her ex didn't gave her attention till the end then maybe she will choose someone else otherwise she will choose her ex because they have have been through too much and had sacrifice too much for each other . 13 year is very long time and I don't think 13 days can make even a dent in it .

I don't think he don't want her to be with someone else . I think he don't like Kwangtae personally . He was ok with others but he don't like him . He is not like Gyumin . He understands her and feel the pain .you can see he was also struggling but he know if he become soft now it will only gonna hurt her . He know they are not a good match or things will go as they were so he is trying to avoid it and for once he want to live for himself . He was always sacrificing first his idol caree , then he became her manager , took part time job to help her , work with his parents for her , gave her money and supported her dream throught , things were hard , he could not declared his relationship even maybe could not tell his friends about her , never able to freely go on a date with her because people recognise her but he didn't minded but later he realise after all those year he actually never live for himself .he was always giving .
She also did her best but she was always on the better end . That's why you can see why she is trying too hard for him because she know how much he has sacrificed for her . He never had a life of his own always living for her and supporting her . I would be better if they end up together and now work for each other but I don't think it will happened . Either they will endup alone or one of them with someone else .

I think he is actually a player who like attention remember he was upset that he get two vote second day bro be happy you get two why are you upset that you get one less vote some even didn't get any vote . Panel are praising him but from the start I didn't liked him. he was too proud in himself . I loved his date when the girl didn't gave him much attention you can see on his face . I hope none of the girls fall for him . He kind of give me red flag vibe . He is just better at acting .

I think it's really important to act cute in Korea and Japan they actually liked it . Just see how k-pop behave many have claimed that they don't like behaving cute but they have to because it bring more fans. even guys act cute forget about the girls .

Na , when she heard ML the first thought come to her mind was Her friend and then sleep with him. don't say it's taking advantage of he .it's her own decision because if I were her I will never cheat with someone to get back . She never regretted her decision even after years so I don't think it's taking advantage of her. What worst was instead of giving Happy ending for ML writer gave happy ending for cheater .

Because she can see the growth and mature Minjae now she can see how he has grown through all those year so she didn't want to be friend she wanted to be a lover and gather her courage to confessed it . She was really straightforward that's why she did that . Its really crazy that two of the best girl on the show end up alone . If I were minjae and watch the show I would have definitely give her chance outside the house but I think he was too set on they will not work out . I hope she find someone better who cherished her as she did for others . Sometime I really think how could some Men or Some women don't see best option in front to them even minjae didn't get any vote for first week . Maybe because they don't have behind footage or they realise too late because I have seen in many dating show The greenest flag always end up alone .

Advantage ?? She was ready to start a family the next day of cheating and then again dated the same friend who she cheated with for some time .it's not advantage .it's choice .

There is a difference between mistake and Choices . What ML did was mistake to let her ex enter his home. What FL did was Choice . What baffle me is that in the end there is a hint that they end up dating again even after cheating. So it not actually people but the writer try to glorify cheating without concequences. She behaved badely, She cheated on ML then next morning Start dating Her friend then again in the end found ML .where as ML was going here and there like a crazy person in search of her and didn't do anything wrong and end up alone .

Which stat you are watching ?? Statically Women are better at hiding at cheating . If we talk about statically then more men are virgin or getting less sex than women . Statically average Women have on average 10x more offer than above average men so I don't know which stat you are talking about .Fact is something which is backed by truth not opinion and what I said is proven by many institution.

She didnt response ?? She ate dinner with him even before the story started without her bf knowledge. Its not about response it's about either not blocking him and letting him message her and not telling you bf all that even her one friend said it cheating if you are not letting your bf know about him .it's not about if she enjoyed the drink with him or not it's about letting the situation reach to that level . It didn't matter if you enjoyed s*x with someone else or not if you had s*x it cheating . If you had fight with you partner you go to friends not to drink with some stranger who you know what to sleep with you.
I will suggest you to Google what is emotional cheating ?? She was having drink with some Stanger without his bf knowledge and it's not emotional cheating ??
You being shock doens't mean you get the licence to disrespect others . How the hell carrying a drunk lady in the hotel was disrespect?? We also help drunk people when they are on street that's doesn't mean we are cheating ?? Its very convenient to give excuses like she was upset with ml so drank with stranger , she was shocked so she let a stranger grab her in front of her bf , she was bored so she let someone message her , she was hungry so she let someone take her on dinner . What next she was horny so she slept with someone else ?? Only a fool can't defend and give excuses for things like that . ML had other problems like he is not good with communication or he became too comfortable in relationship but he was never disloyal or said anything bad about her . Even said sorry and I love you I didn't heard those words from FL ever . Even after elevator scene she said what do you want me to say ?? Like seriously you don't know ?? .

I think some of the cast were odd . One was too young to get choosen that's why after few episodes he end up with 0 vote .Two were hung up on their ex . One was too into one girl that he never even gave someone else chance and two were join too late in the game so they didn't have much chance . One was practically away for half time and the dynamic changed when she join .

Jungkwon : He was too young and young people have bad result in dating show I rarely see young people getting their end game . That's why many rejected him . He was also stuck to thee one girl and didn't saw the red flag that's why you need experience to view all those things and don't become someone backup .

Minjae : The walking Green forest . The guy was walking example of how mature person should look like and what growth should be like . As a teenager he dint understand his ex but now he know he made a mistake and really tackle the subject like a mature person . Even taken care of other offer respectfully . Also the way he show respect to his rival and first ask him if there is a change he can get back together because he first didn't want to go blind .

Coco : She was one of the few contestant that Won my heart . She was so pure and Mature . The way she helped other girls even when she was herself suffering was mind-blowing . How could Men were bling to see her . Only if Minjae let go of his principle to not date his ex they would have been the best couple that dating show have ever created . She really wanted someone to warm her heart but men were too blind to see her green flags .

juhwi and minyoung : They were bunch of coward who wanted others time just to solve their love querral. If they wanted to date one another then why come to this show ?? Maybe for clot because you could have solved your difference outside in better way . From day one Juhwi said I don't like anyone but her and she also said I regret breaking up with him so it was clear they wanted to date each other but gave false hope to other people and made them suffer .specially Min-young who till the end said my decision is not certain. I don't know if it's script or acting but they were really villan in this show .

I really fell bad for new comer who didn't get any time to know anyone I don't know why people agree to join show from the middle because I rarely see people of come late who get happy ending .they always left alone .maybe they join for clout .

Bo Hyun : I think she was very emotional person and never actually liked Minjae . She only liked his persuasion. She liked that he was constantly choosing her . She always mention that Minjae was not her idel type and she hate his tatoo and smoking but only choose him because he liked her . The way she acted toward end was also trashy . She encouraged his Ex to peruse her and always gave him benifit of the doubt . Only when in truth and dare she come to realisation that two other women is after Minjae then she became active even panel felt that she was too passive before . Minjae didn't everything for her from day one . He did so much that two other girl fell for him but she was still hanging for her ex . Only gave 7/10 to minjae . At first she was my fav . She was bubbly and cute but later I realise she was not ready for relationship or still liked her ex . If her ex should have persuaded her more actively . She definitely have choosed her ex. She was also kind of red flag . Even Coco felt that . Coco was on her side but when she saw all her behaviour later she warned Minjae aging and again that she is not good for you give someone else change . Its not suprise they didn't workout . Their relationship was way too one sided . She never said I like minjae .she always said he liked me that's why I like him .

Minjae and Coco : Man I would have given up anything to see them together . The friendship they both have . The maturity and the way they cheered for one another . They probably have more chemistry than entire cast together . Just like a said only if Minjae let go of his fear that things will not work out .they would have become power couple .I know choosing your ex is big mistake but they breakup 20 year ago and they grew much more mature . I always felt coco have some feeling from him but later she herself confirm it but it's so sad they didn't end up together . Coco really did everything to find love . She was open to everything but didn't find one . Minjae and Coco date was the most fun date and they were really on same page were as Minjae and Bo Hyun was never on same page remember the water date .

There was something wrong with Fan yilan because you can see befor the episode when she cried .she was bubble and always participate in activity but suddenly she came home and get mad at William who didn't do anything wrong . I always thought he was the mature in that relationship . I think the reason was maybe her ex approach her when the show was shooting and she start questioning William who I thought always acted mature than his age .

Hou siyi and xiao sun : I always thought Hou would have better suited for hou ge . He was more mature , kind and sensible than Xiao . I always thought the she made a wrong decision. Maybe she thought it will be fine outside but it will not . Outside is different world where you have to face many difficulty and I think Hua was better suited for that job but maybe she knew her better than me so each of their own .

Hou ge and Ruqing : Their relation was better they get less time than any couple but created most memory and they both acted mature when they talk about outside world and vent about their insecurity and later come to the term and realise their mistake and corrected it and I am also happy Hou ge become brave and acted mature and move on from Siyi and told her good bye and also realise Ruqing was better suited for him and didn't let that chance slip from his hand . I really like their chemistry .

Zeng ge and Haoyin : I Zeng maturity was played a big part in why their relationship survived and it also has a stable and great earning job and it also helped and he was funny . I never thought Big Qi have a chance tbh because him and Lucky chemistry was not anywhere near Lucky and Zeng chemistry so Zeng never needed to worry . You can also see she was more open with Zeng than Qi .

I feel bad for MoMo and her sister . The production did them dirty . They shouldn't have casted young consultant like them . Momo try her best untill the end but didn't succeed. But hats up to her for trying because she was crying the whole time but still stick till the end .

The guy who rejected MoMo by saying she was too young .get rejected by another girl for same reason karma or not but I didn't felt bad for him .

There was something wrong with Fan yilan because you can see befor the episode when she cried .she was bubble and always participate in activity but suddenly she came home and get mad at William who didn't do anything wrong . I always thought he was the mature in that relationship . I think the reason was maybe her ex approach him when the show was shooting she start questioning William who I thought always act mature then his age .

Hou siyi and xiao sun : I always thought Hou would have better suited for hou ge . He was more mature , kind and sensible than Xiao . I always thought the she made a wrong decision. Maybe she thought it will be fine outside but it will not . Outside is different world where you have to face many difficulty and I think Hua was better suited for that job but maybe she knew her better than me so each of their own .

Hou ge and Ruqing : Their relation was better. they get less time than any other couple but created most memory and they both acted mature towards each other. when they talk about outside world and vent about their insecurity and later come to the term and realise their mistake and corrected it . I am also happy Hou ge become brave and acted mature and move on from Siyi and told her good bye and also realise Ruqing was better suited for him and didn't let that chance slip from his hand . I really like their chemistry .

Zeng ge and Haoyin : Zeng maturity has played a big part why their relationship survived and he also has a stable and great earning and he was funny . I never thought Big Qi have a chance tbh because him and Lucky chemistry was not anywhere near Lucky and Zeng chemistry so Zeng never needed to worry . You can see that she was more open with Zeng than Qi .

I feel bad for MoMo and her sister . The production did them dirty . They shouldn't have casted young contestant like them . Momo tried her best untill the end but didn't succeed. But hats up to her for trying because she was crying the whole time but still stick till the end .

The guy who rejected MoMo by saying she was too young get rejected by another girl for same reason karma or not but I didn't felt bad for him .

Again with the same typical response he treated her like that .if she was unhappy she needed to leave not cheat . I don't know if people realise it or not but when you cheat you lost a little part of yourself because your brain know its wrong you have to be a narssistic to be ok with cheating without concequences .

If she wanted to provoke reaction . She neede to tell him that someone message me . If she didn't told him about the message then it became cheating . The elevator scene was so painful that I can't describe . She let someone else touch her in front of her bf and enter the same elevator where her bf was standing that was plain disrespect and trash behaviour.

So you are saying Only men cheat but not women ?? What's that world called "Banana public " . People rant because it's a forum to rant . Calling someone "incels " because they have different view on something it just childish behaviour. Cheating is a sensetive topic and its range vary from people to people some even ok with sharing their partner but some even considered it cheating if their partner is flirting with someone else and I don't think you and me can dictate what's they should considered as cheating . Emotional cheating is also considers as cheating so it's depend on person whats their boundry . Fl was clearly cheating from the start when she was ok with someone messing her without her bf knowledge or she was ok with going for the drink with her messenger even after knowing his intentions. What made me mad was elevator scene in episode 2 When she saw her bf and still let someone put his hand on her and didn't say anything it's the last nail for cheating .you don't need to sleep with someone else to considered it as cheating but that scene was just painful and so disrespectful for her bf .

Some people even defend it by saying the drama background and lighting was good so you should watch that and I am like but it theme and story it cheating then why are you looking at its lighting ?? We are here mainly for the story and if it's trash then it's trash don't try to defend it by new love and lighting or others bullshit .

We will start "We the Men " Campaign for the justice of Kdrama husbands who get cheated on 💪💪.

Its not yisoo, anyone who he would have choosen for his relationship that would have gone strong because he is very deep thinker like me .I knew whoever he choose it will gonna last because people like us not make choices that easy but when we do we stick to it no matter what . That's why it's frustrating for me to see him so confused and make other confused. He also gave Jiyoung false hope this was more frustrating. If he didn't liked her he should have told her in their second date that he didn't like her but no he kept her hanging and flirting but always choosed someone else . He cockblock other guys to give their 100% because everyone thought he will choose her . so they didn't try much. Even JiYoung didn't try much with other guys but when she realise he will never choose her and gave other guys chances everything look diffrent for her and she was able to choose someone else. She didn't get much time to decide who is better for her .untill last episode he was keeping her in loop . If he liked someone it's good but you have to tell others that we are not a match or I don't like you . She was suffering because of him and he didn't even address anything and keep avoiding her. He was always flirting with everyone in front of her . Its was just plain disrespect.