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I am watching ep 14 and the words the mother states about happiness in the past being a memory and to look at what is in front is something I hope Shouhua takes note. Shouhua's situation is touching and I can understand her hesitation.

Maybe the way this started is not convincing me either. I am hoping I will start to feel something for this couple but as of now I feel so disconnected.

Thank you so much. I appreciate you doing this. When I watched it the second time, I was nervous if she was going to be upset that he swooped in the last min to help. She looked a little irritated that he was there giving his input when she did all the previous work. I made the correlation with FP while I was typing my last comment and wondered if Shouhuo wanted to be treated the way the ML treated the FL in FP.

Yes. I saw when he told Chai An he better not help her for fear of being accused of doing it for his own good or something like that. Maybe I should have watched from ep 11 again. LOL! I think I missed the boat from ep 11 and am floundering behind right now 🤣 I think I will pull out my life vest and float along till I get to the other side even if it means I miss out on the details happening in the boat. Then I will jump on the next boat which is 4th sister's and hope it feels stable enough for me to stand firm.

Beautifully written. This part made me pause to think. "Depression is suppressed negative emotions accumulating over time, causing your body—skin, senses, muscles, brain, heart— to become uncontrollable." Sometimes I find myself avoiding things I do not want to do such a filling out some forms or going to the dentist. I put them off until one day I pick up the phone and make the appointment. The more I avoid, the more I feel anxious. I know when I try to avoid the things I feel anxious about, the anxiety increases. Therefore, I tell myself to just do it and get it over with. Anyway, I don't want to get to personal but her words are inspirational. I hope people will see the good instead of looking for something to bash her. And why would anyone want to bash someone who is going through a tough time? I know there are crazy jealous fans, but shouldn't we be humans first?

I watched ep 13 again but not quite understanding what was so wrong with him helping that she was embarrassed. Now she proved she can help herself. I know this is how they get to know each other and the way they handle the differences strengthen their relationship so the conflicts are necessary. In Flourished Peony , the ML stepped back and waited for the FL to help herself. He was confident she could dig her way out of anything. I am not sure, but does Shuohua want him to see her as being capable of helping herself and not needing to depend on him. And is her objection that he used this to make himself look good?

Oh I forgot about that! I don't think it is the way it looks. Someone said WXY explained in an interview that it was fake or something like that. He will be fine. It is a HE I am sure. This drama seems to be developing as comedy.

But this block is not working for me. I am watching now carefully but I am not excited as I was watching Chai An and Kang Ning. I am not feeling the chemistry yet. I supposed it will take a little time.

I am in the middle of my second watch. I think when he stepped in to help her in ep 12, she feels he did it to make himself look good. I am not quite clear on this part. People are spreading rumors about her and now there is a bet going on in the area about who would win her from the scholar. This is the problem she is going to solve herself.

Now I can see there is so much going on in the dialogue.

The reason I was lost is because I was multitasking and not catching what they were saying. I was also looking for Chai An to appear. I find his character dynamic. But now I am going to focus.

I am already watching again. I have to read the titles carefully.

I started over on ep 13 because I watched it and couldn't focus. I have to try again because it lost me.

I am waiting for that too.

LOL! Read my post above.

I don't understand what happened in ep 13. I ate dinner while watching. Then I went to get some ice cream. The next thing I knew ep 13 was at the ending credits and I am not sure what went on. Should I start over? It didn't look exciting.

I am watching again. I think I missed the first part.

Maybe when it moves on to the next sister we will see something new.

I didn't like when Kang Ning kicked him out of the carriage and made him walk back. It was a bit much. They seem to be going into the husband in the doghouse trope.

After several hours and just home having dinner, it occurred to me why I didn't see why. It is because WTPR went too much into crime and the murders. It gave me such an uncomfortable feeling that it killed the romance. The ending also went off into a war zone. I will not be thinking of WTPR while watching Love's Ambition as I am certain it will not go in that direction.

Yes! I don't know how someone can act so ridiculous and still be sexy!

I am hoping I would start to feel something for him but so far nothing. I like that he protected his wife in ep 12.