Meet Yourself (2023)

Both feel so real. And the focus on scenery and subtle details are very much the same feel! Super calming and relaxing to just hear the natural sound take its spot as the background music in both dramas.

- Healing , cute and comforting series, with a solid couple, even the viewers are despairing to see them so cautious!!
- Story well written, intelligent, full of wisdom.
- Slow paced to fit the rhythm of life of the inhabitants.
- Magnificent landscapes, magnificent images... Makes you want to go to Dali (Yunnan):)
- Extraordinary actors: grand-mother, aunts, children, roommates,... => very endearing.
- the OSTs are fitting, beautiful... Perfect.

even though there are many disimilarities kinda same vibe
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Both dramas have the same feel, although the plot lines themselves are different.
In terms of similar vibes, both have a more mature feeling than other Cdramas out, where the main leads value and respect the others opinions. There is also a huge factor of community in both dramas which is refreshing. Both dramas have many side characters and plots that drive the story. Although both dramas have different plots, nothing "major" per se happens in either drama, both are more slice of life about modern people trying to earn a living, succeed in love, and generally live a great life.

I recommend this both drama because , Male lead and Female lead
try to solve problem
In one drama explosion and another student murder/suicide

Both dramas are about women from the big city moving/returning to a small town. Meet Yourself has a lighter tone, but both focus on family relationships, generation gaps and the challenges these small and remote towns are facing, trying to keep up with a big and modern world.

Except from being a BL, everything else is similar:
- city person moves to small village/town
- adjusting to country life
- village beau/chief that's respected by everyone as the love interest
- self discovery
- interacting with locals and children, and integrating into community
- goes back to city/original home
- slow burn romance
- masculine ML
- grand return at the end, and happy ever after
- death as inciting incident to leave former life behind for a change of scenery

the parallels go on forever! just that ATTS is BL and Meet Yourself is het.

Synopsis

The drama tells the story of how an ordinary girl Xia Guo chooses when faced with two different choices, and what happens. The drama is presented in parallel time and space. The different choices of the heroine will lead to different endings.There are the challenges and dilemmas of the big city; but on the other hand, there is the stability and triviality of the small town. In life it is always necessary to make concessions, without fear of loss, and moving forward to embrace that sense of the "extraordinary." If life could have other versions, and the "if" could be experienced, what would it look like? The drama realizes this "if" so that the heroine experiences two lives in parallel. How she will handle those choices is the big question.

"I live elsewhere" (from original title in chinese).

Source: DramaWiki

Similarities
* Slow "slice-of-life" romances
* strong FL and capable supportive ML
* No rushing to get through the plot
* Family and friends important characters

MET is high-school and college ages. MY is stable career.

MY is a small town in summer, where the FL finds comfort and healing in a group of locals.
WN is a small town in winter, where the FL re-connects with her family and neighborhood friends.

Both dramas have a cozy vibe and in both dramas a restaurant/café brings together a group of people and they start to build a life together although they don't plan on staying forever.

WN has a time travel element but only in the first and last episode.

They have a similar atmosphere when it comes to the themes of healing and overcoming,
Discovering love,
It's part of the friends to lovers trope,
It also talks a little about mental health,
And overall just the visuals.

Actually i don't know why anyone added our bules recommendation in this drama, so i added,
you know why........

?.healthy fun watching
?. first, both country side setting
?.both island setting.
?.Death
?. Slow Burn romance Story,
?.both slice of life drama.
?.Healing drama.
?.No toxic
?.happy Ending

Both Dramas have:
- a grown-up, competent and very likeable female lead changing her life
- cute and healthy romance without the typical tropes, but still squeal-worthy
- a positive. can-do vibe that makes you feel good after every episode

If you need a Drama to lift you up and give you a happy mood - both of them are great!

- has village/alley lifestyle like countryside
- includes citylife

Healing, slow burn romance, various relationships, parent-child relationships, village island setting, hard working female lead, childhood sweetheart return