Mei Gui Guan Mian (2023)

YOUR CHOICES DEFINE YOU

A lovely story of three people recognizing their own feelings. The drama is built over the tentative overtures of the two leads and contrasted to the vulgarity of the second male lead. The acting is sweet and sentimental and highlights the relationships, past-present and overlapping, between the various characters. No one seems superfluous and the pace keeps you pulled in. It's quite different than most of the other vertical romance films as it lacks any(?) of the typical tropes used for drama but keeps you invested in the feelings of the three main characters. I have watched it numerous times and continue to return to it when I want something heart-warming but watchable.

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Gentle, sweet, and fluffy romance.

A vertically filmed micro drama (I rate these on their own sliding scale). The story focuses on the interactions between the main leads and how their relationship grows. There are no major interferences or crazy plot shenanigans. It's a gentle love story.

General Spoilers below. Expansion of synopsis that sets up the story at the bottom.

I would not consider this a steamy drama, though there are a couple moments of medium-high sexual tension, and a couple brief kisses with small to medium movements (where the lips touching are actually shown, unlike some of the other productions these two have done together that had none or were head-blocked). It is satisfying how the two characters look at each other, especially later on as the FL falls in love. Her smiles of joy and eyes filled with adoration were lovely and very believable. It was also fun to watch when she decided to woo her husband in return, and try to figure out how to entice him to take further steps with intimacy. The way she got a little embarrassed though nervously excited was adorable and also very realistic.

The ML is quietly steady and a little too perfect, lol, but the FL deserves it. He pampers the FL every single day, often with lots of gifts. He trusts, supports, and encourages the FL.

The actor of the SML deserves a special mention; he gives a fantastic performance! His character is not evil or sadistic, but he's not really likeable. He is a self-absorbed man and has been taking the attention of the FL for granted. While his temperament is not likeable and he is not good husband material, the acting and writing still manage to make him pitiable. It would be really easy to turn this character into a cartoonish caricature, but the actor is nuanced and believable in his delivery, and makes him feel like a real person.

A little more on the set-up synopsis (within the first 7 minutes):
The FL has been chasing the SML since highschool (10 years) and now works as one of his secretaries. They have an ambiguous relationship and one day the FL overhears him say, essentially, that he won't consider her for marriage because she's an adoptive daughter and not on the same level as his family. It's not shown how they meet, but the FL then drunkenly sleeps with the ML, who is another highschool classmate from a wealthy family that is now a CEO. Afterwards, the ML essentially asks her to "take responsibility" for him and marry to keep things above board in the public eye. He persuades her saying she can keep half his property after they divorce. A short while later, when explaining their quick marriage to another, the ML reveals that he has secretly loved the FL since highschool. The FL, however, believes he his just acting for show. Thus begins the story of the ML wooing his wife by showing his sincerity through actions.

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