Dear You (2026)

Dear You — A Story That Stays With You Long After the Credits Roll

There are films that entertain, and then there are films that quietly break something open inside you. Dear You is the latter.
Set against the backdrop of early Chinese emigration to Nanyang, the film does something rare — it puts a human face on a chapter of history that deserves far more telling. The Chow Shan community's struggle to build dignity in an unfamiliar land is rendered with such authenticity that you feel the weight of every sacrifice, every compromise, and every small victory.

The male lead is the kind of character you rarely see on screen anymore. Not a hero in the conventional sense, but something more admirable — a man of quiet selflessness, constantly searching for ways to grow and to lift those around him. His love for his wife and children isn't performed for the audience; it lives in the small, unspoken moments that reveal everything about his character. And when he ultimately gives his life protecting his neighbour, it doesn't feel like a dramatic plot device — it feels inevitable for a man like him. The fact that the children he helped educate later named schools after him is the kind of ending that hits hardest precisely because it's so understated.

The female lead matches him step for step. Her sacrifices are quieter but no less profound, and her decision to adopt a young boy as her own son is one of the most tender moments in the film — an act of love that expands even as everything else contracts. What makes her arc genuinely heartbreaking is the final image of her in old age, memories slipping away. A woman who lived so fully, reduced to forgetting. It's cruel in the way only life can be.

The one thought I couldn't shake leaving the cinema — if circumstances had held their course, these two would have found each other. The film never dwells on it, but you feel it. That quiet almost-love adds a layer of ache to everything.
Dear You is a film about people who built something lasting without ever expecting to be remembered. Ironically, it's exactly the kind of film that makes you want to remember them.

Rating: 9/10

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It's all fun and games 'til the tears start flowing

Fool was I to think during the first 20 minutes or so of Dear You that this would would be a whirlwind comedy with a smattering of poignant, emotional scenes. Instead, it ended up being the reverse.

Dear You is a story topped and tailed in the present day, but most of the plot is set during the mid-20th century. It revolves around qiaopi, the letters and money that Chinese overseas (in Thailand, in this case) sent back home to their loved ones.

What makes Dear You so touching is how it uses simple misunderstandings between characters to show how strong bonds between people actually are, and how yearning for home provides strength for a community. Human resilience and sincerity is the emotional force of this film.

Everyone in the movie theatre was trying to be polite and not cry too loudly, but I clearly wasn't the only one that spent the majority of Dear You in tears.

What surprised me when I was reading about the movie afterwards is how much they've achieved with a shoestring budget and relatively unknown actors. I would have never guessed this was such a cheap production!

It's also interesting to see how the movie's success seems to have spurred conversations in Singapore around language politics.

This is the first movie I've seen in Teocheow. I watch a lot of Chinese, Taiwanese, and some Hong Kong cinema, but haven't watched an entire movie or series that hasn't been in either Mandarin or Cantonese. I think the closest has been was the sporadic use of Taiwanese Hokkien in Autumn's Concerto.

This piece of history around qiaopi was also new to me. I think the icing on the cake was the epilogue of Dear You where they showed how qiaopi that had featured in the storyline were actually based on real life qiaopi. And so we all started crying again :')

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