Ye Shi Qi VS Tu Shan Jing
Tu Shan Jing was heir to being clan leader of Nine Tailed Fox. Or King of Fox tribe. (He had been King for several decades too.)That's how I get. Therefore, a lot of responsibility were on his shoulder. He did not fail his duty. He seemed to be a total opposite from his elder brother. Because he seemed to use intelligence thinking but Hou seemed to prefer going along with passion more. Its not that Jing is not passionate. He is passionate (being all artistic and play zither) but showed it in refine way. He is as a 9 tailed fox, known to be handsome and charming alongside with being intelligent in handling his tribe business. I have noticed that maybe back then, he's popular among ladies too. Actually he's not all that saint as seemed because XL had remarked that he's not someone one can take advantage from except those whom he cared about. In that sense I get that he is family oriented. Yet he also forseen ZX could be great. Therefore it could be said he has compassion for the world he's living in.
Ye Shi Qi is like a more carefree version of Tushan Jing. He did not have any burden of being a leader of clan at all. His life and care revolve around Xiao Liu and Hui Chui clinic family. He knew what he wanted very straightly and go for it. He knew himself so well that he wanted to live. His intelligent told him that getting revenge and living in the past wont give him any life. So he totally did not follow that path. His heart was set on Xiao Liu despite being in man form. In life and death situation there's a saying a man could fall in love fast. Xiao Liu cared about him even get shy although Shi Qi was still crippled, and did not have all those earthly weath. But a gem is still a gem. Shi Qi chose life of living fully with the one who gives him life rather than to die off with past vengeance path. . His heart was mostly set on XY, and I have no doubt she's important to him as life. He tried the best to handle situation in refine way. But then, it made him missed the damages his family could do to him and her.
As a man in love, Jing/Shiqi hoped to win XY's heart as well. That's something any decent man do. He is happy taking care of her and making her happy. He treated XY as the most precious thing that ever existed for him. He is direct with his feelings in which I think XY fell for it too, like he doesn't want her to doubt about the love he gives her. There's no playing game. He made himself option but of course the decisions are depending on XY. By hiring XL to talk to XY about not marrying feng long showed that he could be possessive. in here I have to clear off something, I don't think he actually meant to ruin the wedding but used XL to stop XY from marrying as he knew too well that he should not fueled her. Its not like any cowardice action like some maybe accusing him but more of considering the situations combined ) Nevertheless he's the only person that make XY felt she has most equal & freedom in decisions with life. Like she did not feel forced. Or at least, I feel it that way.
There is a lot of echoing situations with Jing and XY. I will discuss about it later. :)