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@ Winny Aye
And again that line of Jing, "you did not have me in your eyes at that moment" , to me he's very insecure of himself and also jealousy. I think.
I took that sentence from him differently. Not as him being jealous or insecure but him having self respect and wanting XY to give him that much.
like if you are spending quality time with me , respect me enough to no be thinking about another man. Especially a man who is giving you some TLC.
The same happened with XL when the 4 ( xY, XL, TSJ and YY) of them were looking at the bow. XL was not please at all that XY used him to make TJS jealous. He felt insulted by her action. He sent her a clear non verbal message : Respect me enough to not use me to make your lover jealous especially when I am out with you. Spending quality time.
That's how I interpreted that part.
I actually thought the same thing, cos it didnt look like insecurity or jealousy to me but self respect. To Jing, he felt XY didn’t have him in her eyes, so instead of taking advantage of her, he’d rather suffocate or quickly climb up to breathe. Other men would’ve kissed her for air, but not Jing cos he respects himself & XY, that’s also why he didn’t kiss her when she kissed him, remember she felt irritated to why he didn’t kiss her cos maybe he didn’t like her that much.
XY is stubborn, even if she has Jing in her eyes & heart, she wouldn’t show it cos of her pessimistic nature, which is also why she was heartbroken over Jing when she could’ve helped him knowing FFYY plots & so on.