I am pretty sure Hyeon Ji wouldn't be as mad as you are if she finds out about that.
You would be very upset yet would gladly talk about him that way? I think what you are falling for is gender norms and not what Baek Hyun said or not. In society men are not supposed to overshare otherwise its labelled as not manly enough like you said. Again, saying your ex wants to get back with you is not BITCHING at them. He's saying exactly as it is. Why are people offended? He's not making up things about her.
It didn’t come off like he was bitching about her. Almost everyone talks about their relationships with their…
Yeah, like I don't get that. How's saying your ex wants you to get back together be bitching about them?😁😂 Let me sip my tea. People easily get offended these days.
I am pretty sure Hyeon Ji wouldn't be as mad as you are if she finds out about that.
He's not happy? He's confused so he asked him what he thinks about it. Also, its not a matter you 'can you die for me' friend. Inappropriate? Whats so inappropriate about your ex asking to get back together? Aren't most of them asking that? Also, look at this, they're doing it while we watch it. No the whole country. You feel its like a secret or ashaming that they broadcast it live?
I am pretty sure Hyeon Ji wouldn't be as mad as you are if she finds out about that.
You are the one who thinks he called her filthy. In fact he has never even used the word 'dirty' to describe her. You are putting words in his mouth. But what do I know. Also, you might think everything is about plotting and being wicked but don't do the girls too talk to each other when they need some advice from each other. Baek Hyun telling Yooshik is because he is his friend in the house so its more like asking for an advice.
Also, why are you making out that an ex asking to get back together to be such a bad thing? She did say that. And she did tell Baek Hyun that she STILL likes him, which to me feels significant because he loved her. He has to take into consideration what she said. Its a little hard for him to ponder so he asked Yooshik who he sees as a friend about it.
Anyway, I am saying that its nothing wrong saying that your ex wants to get back together. More than half of the casts want their exes back. In fact, the one he is telling to, his ex wants him back too. So is it that 'embarrassing' for an ex to want you back such that its something HE DID TO HER?
All I am saying is that you're tiny bit immersed on the show, which has you overthinking. Either that or you just have some personal business with the casts.
Meanwhile @Hajarft is everywhere in the comments going on about how Baek Hyun is fake. I never see her make any comment other than that or about him. At this point, BK must be an eyesore to her. You would think BK was her ex and broke up with her😂. She doesn't have a favorite to say nice things about but sure does have someone she hates. I mean c'mon, you already established he's fake and performative so its useless to try argue otherwise. But why do you keep focusing on him? Are you expecting for him to change or you're unsure about what you think is true so you keep coming back for more? Or you have a secret liking? Maybe just maybe, if he's fake and performative then you're giving him just what he wanted. Your attention.
These are my thoughts about Hyun Ji after seeing the new eps:- She was actually thinking of getting back with…
It feels like you and Hyeon Ji are blowing what SY said out of proportion. Feeling relieved didn't imply that he was relieved about losing her or the relationship. He even explained it. Maybe he's not a good speaker but he meant that he was relieved that he no longer had to fight with someone. You could tell given his personality, he doesn't like conflicts. He likes to settle things quickly. For example, when the mood was serious between him, BK and HJ, you saw him try to make a joke. Thats a perfect example of his personality. He likes to keep the mood light. So, fighting and conflicts may drain a lot of his energy. So relieved in the sense that he doesn't have to put up with another fight. But he later became sad because it meant he would lose that person. On the case of BK, its just a case of someone who tries to take things logically. Probably because he has been emotional in the past and tries to dissociate that part of him. Mostly, because acting on your emotions can somehow translate to immaturity. So, as part of his growth, he tries to go with whatever his head tells him. Like this thing will just make me depressed (head), okay, I will just throw it. However, if he realizes his true feelings and embraces them, he would be a whole lot of a different person. So, does he lie? Probably. But he is lying more to himself than to you. In most cases, what he is telling you is what he wants he himself to believe. So, thats slowly becoming deep part of personality that you make him to be a bad person. But he actually isn't. If you open his eyes to something he is doing and tell him its bad, he might change. So, yeah. Just like you and me. Some experience shape us in a way we are toxic and interestingly we don't notice when we are.
Also, why are you making out that an ex asking to get back together to be such a bad thing? She did say that. And she did tell Baek Hyun that she STILL likes him, which to me feels significant because he loved her. He has to take into consideration what she said. Its a little hard for him to ponder so he asked Yooshik who he sees as a friend about it.
Anyway, I am saying that its nothing wrong saying that your ex wants to get back together. More than half of the casts want their exes back. In fact, the one he is telling to, his ex wants him back too. So is it that 'embarrassing' for an ex to want you back such that its something HE DID TO HER?
All I am saying is that you're tiny bit immersed on the show, which has you overthinking. Either that or you just have some personal business with the casts.
On the case of BK, its just a case of someone who tries to take things logically. Probably because he has been emotional in the past and tries to dissociate that part of him. Mostly, because acting on your emotions can somehow translate to immaturity. So, as part of his growth, he tries to go with whatever his head tells him. Like this thing will just make me depressed (head), okay, I will just throw it. However, if he realizes his true feelings and embraces them, he would be a whole lot of a different person.
So, does he lie? Probably. But he is lying more to himself than to you. In most cases, what he is telling you is what he wants he himself to believe. So, thats slowly becoming deep part of personality that you make him to be a bad person. But he actually isn't. If you open his eyes to something he is doing and tell him its bad, he might change. So, yeah. Just like you and me. Some experience shape us in a way we are toxic and interestingly we don't notice when we are.