so what do you guys think that made YS changed his mind in the ex room?was it because when she said she expected…
His perspective is like I am not sure what to do, but hearing you say about what you want to do makes it easy for me to know what to do too. Like he might not have thought of finding a new person was on the table. Like he might have been holding back on finding someone new because he doesn't think its right and he doesn't want to hurt her. But he's like hey you came up with the idea of moving on first so that makes that decision much easier for me too. Cause now I will just go with what you said and not feel guilty about it cause anyway you were going to do the same too. But now that she is backpedaling, he is thinking she is coming back because she tried everyone there and because of lack of better options she is choosing him. So, he feels more like a back up option for her. Its all a mess. I don't know what it will take for them to get back together. Maybe be reminded why they fell in love in the first place and not listen to all the noise (reality).
so what do you guys think that made YS changed his mind in the ex room?was it because when she said she expected…
Let me speculate here, I think he changed his mind because he felt they had different priorities. To him, it felt he was making her miserable being with her. She wants marriage while he thinks he isn't stable enough to do that. While on the other hand, Minkyung thinks it only makes sense to get married after staying together that long. Look at this, Minkyung said he always relied on him in their relationship. So much that now even when she is struggling she is only thinking of him. That kinda tells you he is someone who values being reliable in a relationship. So, he will be big on being stable before taking the next step. Someone said here that he might have felt less and less attracted in her over time. I think thats partially true. Thats because him being not where he wants in terms of his career and maybe financially is certainly something that can stress you. Minkyung drove the idea of getting married while he would try to push himself such as taking extra dance teaching even though he was just starting out and still a student. As a result, he had little sleep time such that Minkyung describes when they were on a date, he would ask to sleep for like 30 minutes. Something you wouldn't wanna do is to quarrel with someone who is hungry and/or sleep deprived. They are extra sensitive and can snap at you. Her not understanding where he was coming from may have felt she didn't love him enough, which could cause his love to diminish and him not being forthcoming about his insecurity made her feel distanced or as she puts it, 'abandoned'. But I can't fault anyone in this situation. Or I can fault both of them. But the reality is that they met while young. They grew up but instead they outgrew each other. I don't know if you got that. It means with maturity and age, the values and beliefs they had while they were young have now changed. They're completely different persons for each other. Maybe its due to adulting. I know of a couple who were married for 12 years and broke up and divorced 3 years ago. They met while young but each person grew up and before they knew it they were different person for each other. And they had two children together. Its called personality difference. It might not show at the beginning as both of you are on the same wavelength. But with time, if both of you are not in tune to each other, adapt and accommodate one another, then you might wake up one day and think the person you have beside you feels like a stranger, not the person you once fell in love with (By the way, this is where people say they fell out of love).
So, you ask why the ex room changed his mind? Its because he was reminded of the issues they had in their relationship. And that made him feel they are causing misery to each other, which is compounded with her statement that she wanted to move on. And that made him feel like its much easier to let go. Did he make up his mind too to move on since the beginning? Not entirely true. Thats because we can see he was passive from the beginning. He never requested for dates. But that has started to change.
Wait wait wait....So during their conversation MK is kinda mad at YS that he didn't try to win her back and is…
I just think YS misunderstood her. She said she was trying to move on and went on to many dates but that didn't sound good to him. He thought that she made him a second option and her mind were already made up to move on. So, for him its like now that she doesn't have anyone else, she is turning to him.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 there were so many funny moments this EPS and BH definitely had the most. Lol it was also cute…
😂😂 Yeah, he was like a comedy relief in-between serious scenes around the entire episode. But thats short-lived. He's going to be stressed out next episode.
I went on to this episode all negative because I came to the comments first before watching. I got a bit discouraged. If I didn't know better, I would have reacted the same as the panelists with that final reveal. Overall, today's episode was still enjoyable for me. Its interesting everyone has a character they dislike from the show but I find everyone interesting. Its almost Iike I like everyone. That explains why I am enjoying it than most.
This episode is Baek Hyun's gold episode. Never seen him funny than he was in this one. I don't know, he was kinda shaky when his ex was introduced. He lost most of the charm he had at the beginning (well to some viewers). But now I feel he is turning that around. Our ship even has a child now. Doodle is cute name😂. They have to stay strong until the end, at least for Doodle's sake.
Its called Live Captions. And you can do it on any streaming platform. Just google it on how it to set it up if you are tired of waiting for episodes to get subbed. Its not as efficient, I warn you. But I like it because its never too far off and it kills the suspense I have for waiting until the AI or the good translations.
What if they all get two exes on the program? How wild would that concept be?
Yeah, MK and YS would be losing out unless they invite someone they had a crush on when they were in elementary school, LOL. Yeah, I agree, it can't go to that extend.
The dif between yun yeongs ex who told the guy who's interested in her that she loves denim so he would wear something…
Stop twisting what he said to fit your agenda. No one said who their ex is. Also, he didn't say exactly that. He asked as a question, he asked, 'would you date someone you have to clean over for them?' He never exactly said she was dirty or not. He implied would you be comfortable being the one who does the cleaning in a relationship, And that was when he had just finished washing the dishes. Just like if I asked would you be comfortable being the one who cooks more in a relationship? And if you have noticed, Baek Hyun is almost always in the Kitchen washing the dishes. In almost every episodes, you will see him in the kitchen with some dishes. Also, in most episodes you will see him going to Min Kyung's room going to get vacuum cleaner. Just with those few scenes you can tell its almost his hobbies to always clean. So that tells you that you can't match his energy when it comes to cleaning if you date him. Because he does it as if its his hobby. I am slightly similar with Hyeon Ji, I don't like cleaning at all. But I can do other things around the house. Its like saying would you date someone who relies on me more to cook? Honestly, I like cooking than cleaning. I acknowledge this and honestly its not like I don't take a bath, I am untidy which is different from being dirty. And honestly I see this as my weakness and I wouldn't be offended about someone saying it as it is. But I compensate in different ways in a relationship. Just as I am sure Hyeon Ji was. There were some good things about her otherwise the main reason to break up would have been that. So it was a non-issue in their relationship. I dated 3 years with someone, after staying with them that long, I too develop somethings I would nitpick, you don't hate them for that, you just develop a tendency to complement each other's weakness. Anyway, you took what he said out of context. If you have to hate, at least do it the right way. Get the facts right.
I watched the entire episode with Live captions from google, which are even worse than AI translations. So, I couldn't exactly tell what was going on but reading the comments here kinda gives you a picture of what's happening. Its so clear most people are disappointed but I find that as part of the show. Maybe my expectations are low but overall I like everyone in that house. I kinda get everyone's point of view. Like she's bad to her ex but I can also kinda see why. And vice versa. Relationships with exes isn't a picnic either. So thats why my expectations are very low about them and I am least disappointed. About the producer having two exes? Well that tells you the mindset the producer had while producing this show. In the previous seasons, we saw the show focusing on developing new relationships despite the temptation of an ex. But this season you can see the producer isn't focusing on developing these new relationships. The casts are constantly being put in zones and rooms where they have to be constantly be reminded of their exes. I read someone say they can't see any chemistry between the couples in the house. Thats true but its not their faults. We're now in ep. 12 but I can't recall how many times the couple I am shipping have actually had a date that is aimed at getting to know each other. There is lots of communal interactions. So, we can see the PD is focusing on recreating a nostalgic kinda theme where they are forced to looked back at their exes. Maybe to create some drama or emotionally strain them.
Its a lovely group of people who have varying personalities. And beyond all that, you can see they're actually good people. Thats what keeps me watching the show.
But now that she is backpedaling, he is thinking she is coming back because she tried everyone there and because of lack of better options she is choosing him. So, he feels more like a back up option for her.
Its all a mess. I don't know what it will take for them to get back together. Maybe be reminded why they fell in love in the first place and not listen to all the noise (reality).
Look at this, Minkyung said he always relied on him in their relationship. So much that now even when she is struggling she is only thinking of him. That kinda tells you he is someone who values being reliable in a relationship. So, he will be big on being stable before taking the next step.
Someone said here that he might have felt less and less attracted in her over time. I think thats partially true. Thats because him being not where he wants in terms of his career and maybe financially is certainly something that can stress you. Minkyung drove the idea of getting married while he would try to push himself such as taking extra dance teaching even though he was just starting out and still a student. As a result, he had little sleep time such that Minkyung describes when they were on a date, he would ask to sleep for like 30 minutes.
Something you wouldn't wanna do is to quarrel with someone who is hungry and/or sleep deprived. They are extra sensitive and can snap at you. Her not understanding where he was coming from may have felt she didn't love him enough, which could cause his love to diminish and him not being forthcoming about his insecurity made her feel distanced or as she puts it, 'abandoned'.
But I can't fault anyone in this situation. Or I can fault both of them. But the reality is that they met while young. They grew up but instead they outgrew each other. I don't know if you got that. It means with maturity and age, the values and beliefs they had while they were young have now changed. They're completely different persons for each other. Maybe its due to adulting. I know of a couple who were married for 12 years and broke up and divorced 3 years ago. They met while young but each person grew up and before they knew it they were different person for each other. And they had two children together. Its called personality difference. It might not show at the beginning as both of you are on the same wavelength. But with time, if both of you are not in tune to each other, adapt and accommodate one another, then you might wake up one day and think the person you have beside you feels like a stranger, not the person you once fell in love with (By the way, this is where people say they fell out of love).
So, you ask why the ex room changed his mind? Its because he was reminded of the issues they had in their relationship. And that made him feel they are causing misery to each other, which is compounded with her statement that she wanted to move on. And that made him feel like its much easier to let go. Did he make up his mind too to move on since the beginning? Not entirely true. Thats because we can see he was passive from the beginning. He never requested for dates. But that has started to change.
Yeah, I agree, it can't go to that extend.
Also, in most episodes you will see him going to Min Kyung's room going to get vacuum cleaner. Just with those few scenes you can tell its almost his hobbies to always clean.
So that tells you that you can't match his energy when it comes to cleaning if you date him. Because he does it as if its his hobby.
I am slightly similar with Hyeon Ji, I don't like cleaning at all. But I can do other things around the house. Its like saying would you date someone who relies on me more to cook? Honestly, I like cooking than cleaning. I acknowledge this and honestly its not like I don't take a bath, I am untidy which is different from being dirty. And honestly I see this as my weakness and I wouldn't be offended about someone saying it as it is. But I compensate in different ways in a relationship. Just as I am sure Hyeon Ji was. There were some good things about her otherwise the main reason to break up would have been that. So it was a non-issue in their relationship. I dated 3 years with someone, after staying with them that long, I too develop somethings I would nitpick, you don't hate them for that, you just develop a tendency to complement each other's weakness.
Anyway, you took what he said out of context. If you have to hate, at least do it the right way. Get the facts right.
Relationships with exes isn't a picnic either. So thats why my expectations are very low about them and I am least disappointed.
About the producer having two exes? Well that tells you the mindset the producer had while producing this show. In the previous seasons, we saw the show focusing on developing new relationships despite the temptation of an ex. But this season you can see the producer isn't focusing on developing these new relationships. The casts are constantly being put in zones and rooms where they have to be constantly be reminded of their exes.
I read someone say they can't see any chemistry between the couples in the house. Thats true but its not their faults. We're now in ep. 12 but I can't recall how many times the couple I am shipping have actually had a date that is aimed at getting to know each other. There is lots of communal interactions.
So, we can see the PD is focusing on recreating a nostalgic kinda theme where they are forced to looked back at their exes. Maybe to create some drama or emotionally strain them.
Its a lovely group of people who have varying personalities. And beyond all that, you can see they're actually good people. Thats what keeps me watching the show.