I saw Jimin's post in IG. All I have to say is that he's smiling in it. So whatever happens in the show, whether he gets rejected or not, at least we can say he got his smile back. I am trusting in that so I will be less worried about him. From todays preview, it looks like he won't have something to be happy about in the upcoming episodes. If you could have a choice, I would wait until ep. 9 next week (If you haven't watched todays episode). There's too much suspense to wait for another week. Todays episode will leave you wanting for me.
Poor jimin can never rest, his facial expressions are killing me😂😂
He thought he had to only worry about Woojae. Newsflash, now he has a bigger competition, who's actually interested in Jeyeon than Woojae was, to worry about.
Or maybe the rumors predicted the catfish choosing Jeyeon for a date when he got in and not the final choice. The rumors are always half truth and half false. They're never completely true. Take it from me who has watched many dating shows while they're airing. You can't dismiss the rumors because some aspect of them come true but never completely.
Wow, todays messaging is so surprising. You won't imagine who sent the message to who. You can definitely look up for that. Also, Jimin is too far gone for any girl to really make him go from Jeyeon. So if the rumors have any hint of truth, then it means Jeyeon really broke his heart that he only had to move on. I don't see Jimin looking at another girl or even remotely becoming attracted except Jeyeon. So it would take only Jeyeon breaking his heart for him to move on. Also, someone said that Jeyeon isn't that smitten by him. When I saw them together I thought she was finally opening up. Maybe I was wrong. She may see him only as a friend even though I felt their scenes were heart fluttering. Because if she is even remotely interested in him, she won't be easily swayed by the catfish. Or maybe the catfish is too charming to change her mind. I mean he's already handsome. So if his personality is good enough to match that face, Jeyeon may become swayed, I guess. I won't be mad at either. Its hard to predict the matters of the heart. So I will understand them irrespectively.
@Bliss Ace Of course you're weird. But hey, weird is the new sane. 😄Honestly, you're probably in the 0.0001%…
Wow, thank you. That certainly gives me a new perspective. If someone places their self-worth on their body, comments about it would definitely hurt. And we as the society are definitely the problem women face about their bodies and self worth. I totally agree with that. I just hope more girls just embrace themselves. I think the first step is seeing its still beautiful. I mean your body can change over a matter time and circumstances like giving birth. But the beauty of it all is that its all you.
I'm 99% sure the reason her ex couldn't sleep with her is that he's gay. It had nothing to do with her body and…
No, I don't think so. It has to do with his manhood. He has a problem with getting it started. It may be that he is not attracted to her as a woman and he's gay like you said. But I think it might be a medical condition which he wasn't open with her because it might be embarrassing in his perspective. Or he could also be asexual. Those people don't fancy sex at all.
I guess you also didn't appreciate being fat/body shaming incidence? That's the source of misery watching this drama? Because no way that's what you hated the drama. No way you thought it is promoting promiscuous woman?
Am I weird because I will never get mad if someone called me fat or something? People act like being fat or being…
I always thought I am self-conscious. That means I deeply care about what other people think. I am coming to a realization that that may not be the case. So I have been this chill of a person and I never knew it. My mindset is always like you guys can say everything about me but that doesn't distort my version of truth. Like if you met me and called me fat, which by the way I don't see it as insult, its either I am or not---anyway if you called me fat and I don't think so, I will simply brush it off. I won't have existential crisis because of it. I am curious though. What's with being fat? Are they that repelling that you don't want to be associated with or be one? Don't get me started on the age. Like why do people want to be associated with being young? Like yeah, if I am old, I am just that. If you said I am old, its perfectly okay. I just think there are advantages of being either old or young. So, I don't see any offense. Anyway, these are topics I find it weird people get offended about. Like people can literally cut you off if you carelessly comment about their age or weight. Here, I am just owning things. Since, I don't have an objective view about myself, I am always actually intrigued when someone gives an opinion about me. I am like, wow so this is how you see me? Depending on their comment, I will be like, well you don't know me enough or I will simply own it.
Am I weird because I will never get mad if someone called me fat or something? People act like being fat or being called one is like being cursed or its a disability. Also, people say its body shaming. Its not just the comments here but also in real life. I find people are sensitive about being associated with being fat or being called one. Maybe its because I think when you're fat or at least not to the dangerous levels, you're healthy. Its not the obese kind. Just a healthy body with good muscles. So when my friends say I am fat I actually think, wow so I have been eating well. And when my mom says I am fat, she is actually proud because I have been eating. I am not saying the obese type of fat, which is unhealthy. But if its healthy and manageable, I find that okay. Like yeah, that makes me healthy. Also, if at any point in my life I feel uncomfortable with my weight, I just think I have a hand in it. It might require pain and a little bit more effort, but it can be changed.
So never in my life have I ever thought being fat is actually body shaming. I mean if I am fat then I am fat. If I am not, then you're just plainly lying. If I am not comfortable, well there's only one way to fix that. After all, I might have a hand in how my body got there. Easy.
Anyway, that's not my point, I think body shaming is like saying I have a big or unattractive nose. Well, I am not planning to have my nose replaced be it cosmetic surgery or anything. And even with that, I wouldn't even be offended. Well, you can just stick around people with pretty nose. I guess its just your preference and I am not. It doesn't matter to me. So, I am thinking body shaming is actually on a part of your body that is natural. Like you have big eyes and they start calling you rude names because of it. I mean you can't gouge your eyes out. Its pretty serious if someone body shames you that way.
Somehow I enjoyed the first episode. That tells you about my state of mind, I guess. Its silly but I somehow think its funny. I am not serious going into this. I am not expecting some mind bending plot twist. Just here to enjoy every moment. I think it reminds me of Gaus Electronics. It was silly but somehow funny and enjoyable.
After seeing his IG, I can definitely see Jeyeon choosing him. He's handsome almost like an idol. I couldn't see…
Yeah, I wouldn't go as far and say she wavered because of just looks. Its definitely one of the reasons but not the only one. What I am saying, you date someone because you find them attractive. So to some extend we're shallow. I wouldn't blame her if she chose him. Good looks get you in but it doesn't let you stay. Your character does.
When I meet you for the first time, I am not attracted to your character. I mean I don't know you yet. Its your looks. So yeah attraction is that shallow if you will. But love isn't obviously. Its the character that maintains the relationship.
So everyone let's take care of our looks too as much as we do with our character. Human attraction is that basic (or shallow). I like to encourage people to have good personality but that shouldn't be the only thing.
Personally, I am not attracted to mainstream beauty. I love peculiar features, what many may not find attractive. Just because I don't subscribe to what the media defines as beauty doesn't mean I don't go for beauty. So I am just as shallow as the rest. Just that my definition of beauty is different.
If you could have a choice, I would wait until ep. 9 next week (If you haven't watched todays episode). There's too much suspense to wait for another week. Todays episode will leave you wanting for me.
You can't dismiss the rumors because some aspect of them come true but never completely.
Also, someone said that Jeyeon isn't that smitten by him. When I saw them together I thought she was finally opening up. Maybe I was wrong. She may see him only as a friend even though I felt their scenes were heart fluttering. Because if she is even remotely interested in him, she won't be easily swayed by the catfish. Or maybe the catfish is too charming to change her mind. I mean he's already handsome. So if his personality is good enough to match that face, Jeyeon may become swayed, I guess. I won't be mad at either. Its hard to predict the matters of the heart. So I will understand them irrespectively.
Like if you met me and called me fat, which by the way I don't see it as insult, its either I am or not---anyway if you called me fat and I don't think so, I will simply brush it off. I won't have existential crisis because of it.
I am curious though. What's with being fat? Are they that repelling that you don't want to be associated with or be one?
Don't get me started on the age. Like why do people want to be associated with being young? Like yeah, if I am old, I am just that. If you said I am old, its perfectly okay. I just think there are advantages of being either old or young. So, I don't see any offense.
Anyway, these are topics I find it weird people get offended about. Like people can literally cut you off if you carelessly comment about their age or weight. Here, I am just owning things. Since, I don't have an objective view about myself, I am always actually intrigued when someone gives an opinion about me. I am like, wow so this is how you see me? Depending on their comment, I will be like, well you don't know me enough or I will simply own it.
Its not just the comments here but also in real life. I find people are sensitive about being associated with being fat or being called one.
Maybe its because I think when you're fat or at least not to the dangerous levels, you're healthy. Its not the obese kind. Just a healthy body with good muscles.
So when my friends say I am fat I actually think, wow so I have been eating well. And when my mom says I am fat, she is actually proud because I have been eating.
I am not saying the obese type of fat, which is unhealthy. But if its healthy and manageable, I find that okay. Like yeah, that makes me healthy.
Also, if at any point in my life I feel uncomfortable with my weight, I just think I have a hand in it. It might require pain and a little bit more effort, but it can be changed.
So never in my life have I ever thought being fat is actually body shaming. I mean if I am fat then I am fat. If I am not, then you're just plainly lying. If I am not comfortable, well there's only one way to fix that. After all, I might have a hand in how my body got there. Easy.
Anyway, that's not my point, I think body shaming is like saying I have a big or unattractive nose. Well, I am not planning to have my nose replaced be it cosmetic surgery or anything. And even with that, I wouldn't even be offended. Well, you can just stick around people with pretty nose. I guess its just your preference and I am not. It doesn't matter to me. So, I am thinking body shaming is actually on a part of your body that is natural. Like you have big eyes and they start calling you rude names because of it. I mean you can't gouge your eyes out. Its pretty serious if someone body shames you that way.
I think it reminds me of Gaus Electronics. It was silly but somehow funny and enjoyable.
Her: Really? I found your butt tasty.
Me: WTH
What I am saying, you date someone because you find them attractive.
So to some extend we're shallow. I wouldn't blame her if she chose him.
Good looks get you in but it doesn't let you stay. Your character does.
When I meet you for the first time, I am not attracted to your character. I mean I don't know you yet. Its your looks. So yeah attraction is that shallow if you will. But love isn't obviously. Its the character that maintains the relationship.
So everyone let's take care of our looks too as much as we do with our character. Human attraction is that basic (or shallow). I like to encourage people to have good personality but that shouldn't be the only thing.
Personally, I am not attracted to mainstream beauty. I love peculiar features, what many may not find attractive. Just because I don't subscribe to what the media defines as beauty doesn't mean I don't go for beauty. So I am just as shallow as the rest. Just that my definition of beauty is different.