He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more…
Anyway, I can't fault Ho Am too much. He just went with his gut feelings. And I also think he just trust his spirits a little bit more. He doesn't think they might be wrong. So when he saw they liked her and he had an initial interest in her, that must have magnified his feelings in her.
But from what I have learnt so far, fate or destiny doesn't mean much. It needs a little bit of human intervention. You must make an actual effort to make something happen too. Something may be meant for you, but your best chance of achieving them is by following the natural order of things. For example, the heavens can say a certain person/career is meant for me. I must realign myself to receive it. I shouldn't go over myself and be overconfident that I can get them. I should still be careful around it/them.
Fortunes can change. For example, in the current episode you saw he got a negative reading/fortune, which is opposite of what he got at the beginning.
He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more…
Ho Am fell in love with her more because his spirits get well with her. I think its a big deal for shamans or something. I saw somewhere where they said as a shaman you can like someone but the spirits do not agree.
Anyway, I might be wrong. It doesn't matter now. I think he came on too strongly. He was too convinced that she is the one. Its okay to feel that way but let that take time. Get to know them more. She may have felt overwhelmed because of that, maybe unknowingly.
You're right, she should have been honest. I also think she might be figuring her feelings out just like everyone else. Its just 4 days, so everyone is still trying to figure out their feelings. I hope she doesn't drag this out for too long though. It would be a little bit cruel.
ep 6 was fun despite too many empty edits, they could have put more of the 15min talk from the candidates with…
Its about being mysterious. Its an idea I am getting about many dating shows. Maybe its just the Korean shows. For instance, I didn't find Min Gyu that appealing in HS4 but he was popular mainly because he was mysterious. In the past, I would think the more transparent you are the more likeable you get. But it seems finding love its about taking a gamble. In gambling, its about reading (I say it that way instead of the word 'manipulation') situations, not in an active way otherwise that is considered being calculative and that is unattractive.
Maybe I am using a bad example with K-dating shows, but whenever you're getting to know someone romantically, make sure you keep them curious about you. Not by playing hard to get. Its by not revealing too much (or everything) about yourself all at once. Reveal it slowly to sustain that curiosity itself. Yu Geong seems to have satisfied her curiosity with Ho Am sadly so she is less likely going to be interested in him anymore.
He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more like a poker game. If you blink first you loose. Hide your feelings as much as possible until you confirm its mutual or its at the right timing.
Me saying he's stupid is because he thinks spiritually is all there is. Okay, your spirits may think she is the right person for you. But she won't date them. She is still a person. As spiritual as you are, you are a citizen of this mortal world not the spiritual one. So treat her like a woman, a person. So having your spiritual 'I DONT KNOW' agree she is the right girl for you means nothing. Approach her like a woman. Or at least keep that to yourself until maybe when its the right time (When you're dating or so). Embrace the unknown. Maybe knowing too much about the future is doing much harm than good in this show. Even in Yu Gyeong shoes, I would feel overwhelmed if someone said that we're meant to be when we're just getting to know each other. Being stupid means you don't know better. You can learn and do better. I hope Ho Am learns and becomes a better person in future. I like him and hope for the best for him.
You have to see the big picture here. In Korea social status is very important when considering a potential spouse.…
You know what, you might be right. Its a Korean dating show so they care about the superficial aspects too. Though I disagree that they may not work out in the long run. Staying together for a month and then choosing each other at the end means they really vibed with each other. I think its all about personalities. They have the same sense of humor. So the social circle isn't strong enough for them to break up.
I also think anyone who comes out of a dating show becomes a social influencer in some way or another. I can't think of a lot of people who didn't at least enjoy the perks of being popular that comes with the show. So my guess, they will do just fine. So if they break up after the show its due to personality difference and not because of his social circle. Anyway, my expectations of any of the couples working out outside the show are pretty low. We rarely get any. They stay together for like 6-8 months or even less and then break. Maybe the dopamine from the show doesn't last for long. So I at least try to enjoy them now as much as possible because when they're out its a whole different dynamic.
haneulโs flirting was STRONG! even as a viewer I was surprised haha ๐no wonder jimin looked flustered. I…
No, she did alright. She removed that image that 'I am just a friend'. She came on too strong so now Jimin knows better than to mess with her. He should take her feelings seriously. That's the vibe I got.
This is IU's drama, since she portrays two characters in the story. IU has the most screentime among all actors…
If this question was asked at the beginning of the 8 episodes, your answer could have been different. But now its MSR and PHJ because what you see last leaves a lasting impression.
I think when two introverts fall for each other its pretty much game over. So I can already picture Je Yeon and Wonjae as the final couple. If Je Yeon changes her mind to Jimin, he must have really given his all. But for now all odds are in favor of Wonjae. If introverts can match energy, its hard to come in between because they rarely open up. So their connection must be pretty deep for them to take a chance on each other.
I love jimin but he had to change his behaviour because when your on a date with other girls please focus on them…
I promise you, Jimin is coming out of this show with someone. I am 100% sure of that. Not sure who it will be but a month is a long time. He's chances would have been slim if it was a week or so. But his charms will shine one way or another given the time. As for his career, I thought Samsung is one competitive place to get into. Those that get there are considered smart and elite. At least that's how the panelist Yoon Jong Shin said when Jimin revealed his job. He said he has friend he knows in that company and admitted its a tough place to get into. But I have to admit no one comes close to Chan Hyung career. He has the most attractive profession.
JiMin & JaeYeon cp ๐๐๐ i hope they end up together they are so cute lol btw is someone here knows the…
I don't think so. Jae Yeon and Wonjae are more likely pair. But let's see. She takes more initiative with Wonjae. Jimin just sways her but you can tell who she's more interested in.
Yunjeong... you're so depressed ใ ใ cheer upโผ๏ธ actually i feel good chemistry between yunjeong and sanghyeok…
Yeah, he was just frustrated with the voting that previous night. Yunjeong might have felt a little bit guilty for not choosing him so she acted a bit awkward in front of him. Which might have led him to think she's no way interested in him. So yeah that statement might have been his frustrations but also him becoming less interested in her. So if it is ever going to work out, she needs to approach him fast. Or at least explain her side of the story.
Idk but I think Yu Gyeong just want to know more about byeong yeol cause she was interested in him from very first…
You might be right. I just feel that some people may lose interest especially if they don't work for that romantic attraction. With Ho Am, its feels too easy for her. If you think I might be wrong, let's change the perspective a little bit. Why is she going for byeong yeol? You can argue that she was interested in him at first. However, from how she responded in her interviews was that 'she could not feel anything' from him. Its not because of his looks or personality. Its just that byeong yeol feels like a mountain to conquer, which can feel thrilling for her. In other words, she finds him mysterious. So there is that mystery that can have someone curious. She feels she has to work on it without knowing the results so it feels exciting for both parties. Why do I have to keep chasing Ho Am when I already know he likes me? She might not consciously know that because she's still a nice human being but that's how she might be feeling. Its just how the human brain is wired. In the set-up they are in, Ho Am would have done better to keep Yu Gyeong guessing and not let her guard down until they become a couple at the end of it all.
Now, if it goes on like this, they would have different interests. Yu Gyeong would want to explore other opportunities and Ho Am would feel ignored because he won't have anything else going on for him. He is pretty set on her. His frustrations might actually build pressure on her, which may cause them to drift apart.
I only know of that they called him fake because he came out with a girl but played gay character. In short, the brightwin ship were disappointed he got a girl at the end. The other stuffs about zionist bla bla I think its because he also posted a brand that I don't know was supporting Israel or something. I can't recall exactly but I do know his career has suffered somehow after that.
But from what I have learnt so far, fate or destiny doesn't mean much. It needs a little bit of human intervention. You must make an actual effort to make something happen too. Something may be meant for you, but your best chance of achieving them is by following the natural order of things. For example, the heavens can say a certain person/career is meant for me. I must realign myself to receive it. I shouldn't go over myself and be overconfident that I can get them. I should still be careful around it/them.
Fortunes can change. For example, in the current episode you saw he got a negative reading/fortune, which is opposite of what he got at the beginning.
Anyway, I might be wrong. It doesn't matter now. I think he came on too strongly. He was too convinced that she is the one. Its okay to feel that way but let that take time. Get to know them more. She may have felt overwhelmed because of that, maybe unknowingly.
You're right, she should have been honest. I also think she might be figuring her feelings out just like everyone else. Its just 4 days, so everyone is still trying to figure out their feelings. I hope she doesn't drag this out for too long though. It would be a little bit cruel.
In the past, I would think the more transparent you are the more likeable you get. But it seems finding love its about taking a gamble. In gambling, its about reading (I say it that way instead of the word 'manipulation') situations, not in an active way otherwise that is considered being calculative and that is unattractive.
Maybe I am using a bad example with K-dating shows, but whenever you're getting to know someone romantically, make sure you keep them curious about you. Not by playing hard to get. Its by not revealing too much (or everything) about yourself all at once. Reveal it slowly to sustain that curiosity itself. Yu Geong seems to have satisfied her curiosity with Ho Am sadly so she is less likely going to be interested in him anymore.
Me saying he's stupid is because he thinks spiritually is all there is. Okay, your spirits may think she is the right person for you. But she won't date them. She is still a person. As spiritual as you are, you are a citizen of this mortal world not the spiritual one. So treat her like a woman, a person.
So having your spiritual 'I DONT KNOW' agree she is the right girl for you means nothing. Approach her like a woman. Or at least keep that to yourself until maybe when its the right time (When you're dating or so). Embrace the unknown. Maybe knowing too much about the future is doing much harm than good in this show.
Even in Yu Gyeong shoes, I would feel overwhelmed if someone said that we're meant to be when we're just getting to know each other.
Being stupid means you don't know better. You can learn and do better. I hope Ho Am learns and becomes a better person in future. I like him and hope for the best for him.
I also think anyone who comes out of a dating show becomes a social influencer in some way or another. I can't think of a lot of people who didn't at least enjoy the perks of being popular that comes with the show. So my guess, they will do just fine. So if they break up after the show its due to personality difference and not because of his social circle.
Anyway, my expectations of any of the couples working out outside the show are pretty low. We rarely get any. They stay together for like 6-8 months or even less and then break. Maybe the dopamine from the show doesn't last for long. So I at least try to enjoy them now as much as possible because when they're out its a whole different dynamic.
As for his career, I thought Samsung is one competitive place to get into. Those that get there are considered smart and elite.
At least that's how the panelist Yoon Jong Shin said when Jimin revealed his job. He said he has friend he knows in that company and admitted its a tough place to get into.
But I have to admit no one comes close to Chan Hyung career. He has the most attractive profession.
If you think I might be wrong, let's change the perspective a little bit. Why is she going for byeong yeol? You can argue that she was interested in him at first.
However, from how she responded in her interviews was that 'she could not feel anything' from him. Its not because of his looks or personality. Its just that byeong yeol feels like a mountain to conquer, which can feel thrilling for her.
In other words, she finds him mysterious. So there is that mystery that can have someone curious. She feels she has to work on it without knowing the results so it feels exciting for both parties.
Why do I have to keep chasing Ho Am when I already know he likes me? She might not consciously know that because she's still a nice human being but that's how she might be feeling. Its just how the human brain is wired.
In the set-up they are in, Ho Am would have done better to keep Yu Gyeong guessing and not let her guard down until they become a couple at the end of it all.
Now, if it goes on like this, they would have different interests. Yu Gyeong would want to explore other opportunities and Ho Am would feel ignored because he won't have anything else going on for him. He is pretty set on her. His frustrations might actually build pressure on her, which may cause them to drift apart.