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Don't Be Too Emotional thai drama review
Ongoing 8/12
Don't Be Too Emotional
21 people found this review helpful
by NLE Flower Award1 Golden Tomato Award1 Drama Bestie Award1 Clap Clap Clap Award1
Jun 29, 2026
8 of 12 episodes seen
Ongoing 1
Overall 10
Story 9.5
Acting/Cast 10.0
Music 10.0
Rewatch Value 10.0

Two BLs in One: University to Office Romance, with Thrills, Mystery and Toxic Obsession

Another university BL? That was honestly my first thought before pressing play. I could not have been more wrong.

Don’t Be Too Emotional starts like a familiar university BL, but then it does something I genuinely wish more BLs would do. The first six episodes take us through their university years, while the remaining six follow them as mature working adults. It feels like we are getting two BLs in one. First, a university romance, then an office romance, but with the same characters growing, changing, making mistakes, hurting each other, and carrying everything they experienced into the next chapter of their lives.

And I absolutely love that.

Instead of showing us their universities lives through endless flashbacks, we actually get to experience their journey. We get to watch them meet, fall in love, hurt each other, grow up, and become different versions of themselves. That alone makes this series stand out to me.

Don’t Be Too Emotional takes a familiar campus setting and turns it into something much more mature. It blends romance, mystery, and thriller elements without falling into the cringe or exaggerated melodrama that I sometimes associate with university BLs. It feels atmospheric, emotional, and mysterious, and most importantly, it feels different.

But the biggest reason this series has completely won me over is Tee and Heng. I have never watched Love Truck, so this was my first time seeing them together, and I was completely unprepared for how good their chemistry would be. Every glance, every smile, every little moment of silence between them gives me butterflies.

Their chemistry feels effortless, like these two characters naturally gravitate toward each other. Nothing feels overly forced or dependent on fan service. You can actually feel the attraction building between them, and that makes every interaction so much more exciting.

I was also shocked to find out that there is an eight year age gap between Tee and Heng in real life. Tee is 32 while Heng is 24, yet watching them together, I never once felt like they were anything other than equals. That is a testament to both of their performances.

And Tee? Tee absolutely owns Big Jane. This man is rich, mysterious, ridiculously handsome, and terrifyingly captivating. His first appearance alone had me staring at the screen. Walking into the room shirtless, surrounded by almost supernatural darkness, he did not even look like a normal human being. He looked like a demon who had casually wandered into the human world. And somehow, that feels exactly right for Big Jane.

Then we have Little Jane. Fearless, charming, confident, and completely unafraid of Big Jane. From the moment their eyes met on that soccer field, I knew I was going to become obsessed with their dynamic.

Neither of them feels like they are desperately chasing the other. Instead, they constantly test each other, challenge each other, and pull each other closer while simultaneously trying to figure out what the other person is hiding. And that tension? Electric.

The romance alone would have been enough to keep me watching, but the mystery is what truly hooked me. Because what exactly is Big Jane hiding? Every interaction with him feels like there is something happening beneath the surface. Every smile feels suspicious. Every lie makes you question what is real.

There is something dangerous about him, and I genuinely would not be surprised if we eventually discover that he is far more manipulative than we have seen so far. And honestly? I am here for it.

The cinematography is gorgeous, the soundtrack is beautiful, especially the English version, and the opening song feels like it was written specifically for this story. “You’re a red flag but I’m colourblind. I know you’re dangerous. If it burns, let it burn me alive.” That lyric is basically Big Jane in one sentence.

He is obsessive, manipulative, emotionally unpredictable, and a compulsive liar. Every red flag imaginable is waving directly in front of us, and yet I cannot look away.

He is the definition of a walking red flag, but Tee plays him with so much intensity and charisma that somehow I just want more. I genuinely have no idea how far Big Jane is willing to go, and that uncertainty makes every scene with him so much more exciting.

And then Episode 6 happened.
I usually love NC scenes, but this one? It destroyed me. Every touch felt heavier. Every kiss felt like a goodbye. Every glance felt like there were a hundred things they wanted to say but could not. Knowing that these would become their final moments together made the entire scene almost unbearable.

It should have been beautiful. Instead, it broke my heart.

And then came the letter. Big Jane writing about how special Little Jane was to him, followed by those ten reasons why he loved him, completely destroyed whatever emotional stability I had left. I cried through the entire scene.

And suddenly, I understood the title.

*Don’t Be Too Emotional.*

Because it was not just Little Jane who became too emotional. It was all of us.

That moment is when the series really got me.

There have been so many university BLs this year, but Don’t Be Too Emotional has already become my favorite. Not because it completely reinvents the genre, but because it takes something familiar and gives it a completely different emotional shape.

We get the university romance, the mystery, the heartbreak, and then we get to see these characters as adults. That university to working adult transition is easily one of my favorite things about this series. It makes the characters feel like actual people whose lives continue beyond the romance we initially fell in love with.

The chemistry between Tee and Heng is phenomenal. The mystery keeps pulling me deeper, the cinematography and music elevate every scene, and the story constantly leaves me desperate for the next episode. Every episode is so addictive that I genuinely never felt bored. There is always something happening, whether it is the romance, the mystery, the tension, or another Big Jane moment that has me questioning everything.

I went into this expecting another university BL. Instead, I got a university romance, an office romance, a mystery, a thriller, and a complete emotional breakdown all in one. Somehow, this series keeps giving me something new to obsess over, and even at Episode 8, I am still completely hooked.

10/10 from me so far. I came for another university BL and somehow ended up emotionally attached and completely obsessed with Big Jane and Little Jane. At this point, I am not watching Don’t Be Too Emotional anymore. Don’t Be Too Emotional is watching me lose my mind. 😭
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