Can we stop gendering things it’s kinda toxic especially when am pretty sure if the genders were reversed and…
I have to be honest this isn’t about gender. Avoiding a difficult conversation and asking someone else to be the middleman is cowardly, plain and simple. It doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or a girl if you can’t face a situation directly, you’re letting fear control your actions. Everyone gets anxious or needs a moment to think, but using that as a reason to completely avoid a conversation is irresponsible. It puts the emotional work on someone else and avoids dealing with the problem like an adult. Calling this just being human doesn’t make it okay. Being human also means taking accountability for your words and actions, even when it’s uncomfortable. Excusing this behavior because of anxiety or claiming it’s a gender issue misses the point ,this is about character, not chromosomes. If someone consistently avoids confrontation and expects others to do the hard part for them, that’s cowardly, and it’s not fair to anyone involved. We all handle conflict differently, yes but the goal should be to grow and learn to handle it, not hide behind excuses. Real courage isn’t about being fearless it’s about doing what’s right, even when it’s hard.
NGL, the car scene gave me the biggest ick. Lechen's facial expressions towards Doudou's answers which he doesn't…
Exactly This whole ‘past trauma card is getting boring 😴. Everyone has past trauma, but that doesn’t mean you have to disrespect people and make those ugly faces all time.
NGL, the car scene gave me the biggest ick. Lechen's facial expressions towards Doudou's answers which he doesn't…
His reaction was not good. The main reason people date is to find someone to marry and start a family with. If that’s not the goal, then why date or join a dating show. just for fun? 🤔
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We all handle conflict differently, yes but the goal should be to grow and learn to handle it, not hide behind excuses. Real courage isn’t about being fearless it’s about doing what’s right, even when it’s hard.