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yea saw it on their douyin! was rooting for them towards the end, and followed them off the show after too. good that they actually tried to know each other offscreen, worked out and now engaged! 711 forever!!

yea each have their own issues, yet people like to keep bringing out others when the relationship is between hewen and yueer. we can talk bad of xilun all day long but thats not going to magically fix hewen and yueer issues lol. people rather look outwards then within themselves for answers and take blame.

there are things which i dislike about how xilun handle things, probably the most flawed for the guy side in this season. but sure they want to label me as xilun knights for wtv reason, go ahead, im too lazy to reply them anymore. last time ill reply about such a nothingburger issue.

so which part of my response did not mention that she did not want to sit there? thats the first thing i said. obviously xilun end up sitting there to block her from sitting with hewen. im saying, why could yueer simply not speak up or say along the lines that she wants to sit there and ask xilun to move along?

we can say how xilun is being shitty obstructive u name it. but im just asking if why couldnt she just say it, is it that hard to understand or what? no idea why u think u have to explain to me stuff which i know lol. u do realise both situation can be true at the same time right? they arent mutually exclusive. all u want to yap about is me defending xilun when xilun probably has the so called worst personality in this season since he feels so puppy and immature like with how he is handling his actions compared to mengmeng and xiaoyu lol.

was the comment section always crazy or what, think ill just come back at ep 7/8 when things are settled lol

instead of saying yueer wasnt direct and just simply go sit down with hewen. u chose to blame xilun for standing in front of here and sitting the space that yueer is "supposed" to sit? thats crazy no? u do know when things are happening in real life, its not as obvious and magnified compared for us viewers right?

yes we can tell that she wants to sit with hewen, but she hesitated and ended up sitting by herself. Its on her to just sit with hewen but she didnt. why put it on xilun if she cant managed herself? Yes yueer is more active with hewen but it really isnt getting anywhere, hewen is always walking on eggshells lol. i pretty sure any sane person here think hewen is better off with xiaoyu

after watching the school ep, mengmeng :c thankful that xiaoyu is always there for her, she even use her speech just for her insteand of saying it to hewen!!!

yea i agree with u. i mentioned that in my other comment, the one thing which i rejected strongly is the fact that he went down specifically just to apologise, he shouldve waited for them to be done, and apologise to her privately. other than that, i really dont think much of his actions. when i was talking about dinghao and xilun, i meant their treatment of ppl blaming them in the comments, they inherently are different ppl. dinghao was really a good one imo, i still followed him till now, really love him alot.the biggest question mark i had was yueer, her insecurity and sensitivity will wear out someone. hewen said before he wants it to be mutual and same effort, something along that line during the stargazing room segment. yueer needing the princess treatment kind really doesnt help hewen. btw i think hewen is great, great interpersonal skill, able to manage people well. xilun is just very rash kind? more like those highschool university kind, but if he could just calm down and be at ease, he will be much better.

maybe cuse we are older so we have different views but i see why younger adults would be liddis. also no beef with u, sorry if i came across as aggressive. i just hope people can realise there are different perspective in navigating a relationship, judt because one is true doesnt mean the rest is not true.

i really dont care about him lol, my fav are kaiyi yiheng yihang renfang. this whole comment section bashing xilun like how my boy dinghao was back in s7. i will reiterate, why do u think A asking B to do this, C ended up doing it, is bad? because its not in his place to do so? because he wasnt ask to do so? i mean i would just actively help tbh, if u want to help then help, if u dont want to help then dont. no idea why ppl are blowing things out of proportion. saying stuff its not in his place when the situation is just not complicated is funny isnt it. but seriously dont u think hewen need yueer to be more proactive and give him back some effort? if anything hewen deserves more lol. if ur a fan of hewen u would rather him end up with xiaoyu no? u shld know even if yueer and xilun is endgame, this kind is hard to last when yueer is insecure and sensitive to her "partner" behaviour.

lol at u saying after reading my comments and realised that im just a fan of xilun, incredible inference skill that is incredibly wrong.

so do u think he is interfering in their conversation, was it a private conversation that only both of them shared? i just find it weird people are picking at stuff like this. If A in real life ask B for help to find sth, C also went to find it, u will be mad that C actively helps? xilun is clingy yes but cmon thats a weird way of thinking no?

so in real life, u will tell C, no no dont search for it, A is asking for me specifically to find it, not for u. dont u find it funny? do u think A minds or cares that much who find it at the end? or will u be mad that as B, u got ur "rights" taken away?

in the kitchen, in a public area where everyone was, they should be left alone?? bro seemingly forgots that xiaoyu exists in all of that. i agree the part where xilun shldnt have went down to apologise, shldve just waited for them to be done and do it instead.

other than that why is xilun even at fault when both hewen and yueer are not exclusive? they are not bf or gf, neither hewen nor yueer push away xilun and xiaoyu nor express their discomfort. U are basing ur judgement on if its being polite when it simply doesnt make sense.

Before u come at me, i dont care for this hewen yueer xilun xiaoyu drama, i shipped others instead. u saying stuff like as a westerner and someone who isnt polite speaks more of ur own character lol. how would u put him in his place? scold him? get physical? call him out for being too clingy?

coming from a neutral watcher who doesnt care for this big group of ppl. this is some crazy ass take. Ur linking his own behaviour like eye twitching to negative connotations without any backing lol. what if he is inherently doing it subconsciously? saying stuff like he meddle where he shouldnt, u want him to completely disappear or sth? why not mention about xiaoyu, she is essentually doing the same as xilun. selective bias to fit ur narrative since u dont like him is funny.

good that that bohan have moved on to xingxing, hope it ends well them. yuyang renfang, sisi yihang, and kaiyi yiheng shld be stable unless theres plot twist. mengmeng is really going to have a bad ending with how things are going.

now for the main "drama". This feels like s7 muchen xiaomi dinghao yufan situation again. whilst hewen and yueer have mutual interest/liking/preference for each other, it just feels like we are looking at 2 prideful lions. look at muchen xiaomi at the end, all i can say is if they settled their issues, dinghao wouldnt have a chance at all (my fav in that season). honestly hewen is great, but yueer needs more affirmations, i think shes sensitive and insecure. And for Hewen, he needs somebody who can put in the same effort, same amount of proactiveness. Honestly, both hewen and yueer are more at ease and feels like their actual self when they are with their second "love line". i rather they end up with them instead.

7.5 on mdl is crazy when comparing to other dating shows like singles inferno which averages out at 8 on mdl. 7.5 really isnt reflective for the quality romance line albeit only for 2ish couple, theres also character development which i will always emphasise in dating shows, and finally the bond of the casts. so if u wonder if you should watch even with a 7.5 rating which i believe shld be at a minimum 8, yes please give it a try.

usually takes about 2mths max to finish, everything shld be out by end of september/early october

from what ive seen till the most recent ep, along with the ending teaser, dont think hewen and yueer is endgame.

i felt mixed from the watchalong, mainly cuse it looks like theyre close enough to be a bickering couple, or just really good friends who banter with each other.

also at 33.20mins, they were bickering about still not sending each other messages, which makes me think yueer likely send to xilun and hewen probably to xiaoyu till the end? We will only know what they said are likely true IF the next signal message moment, they both send to somebody else instead. if this was to happen then the likelihood of them being endgame should be low.

edit: i could very well be wrong from the naunces, but these are my thoughts from what i heard instead of the subtitles

it was season 6, the twin was one of the most memorable person in that season for me. Really love that season for her experience and courage.

https://v.douyin.com/Pdw_iGNK4fo/

here is the post from his douyin account if you wanna watch, no translation sadly but you can see the behind the scenes

yea saw his recent post of BTS and proposal, so happy for them as a couple!

qi xuan CP
yu yang CP
en xing CP

may all the couple last long