Tbh I don't think Hewen and Yue'er will survive being together long term, but their current status is quite passionate. We can see from the gaze they give each other and the conversations they have that the both of their emotions are deeply affected by the other person which shows that they care about each other a lot, but unfortunately neither of them can put aside their pride. I find watching their scenes very interesting as it has a very tom and jerry type vibe to it. Hewen comfortably teases Yue'er and Yue'er also seems to enjoy what they have going on. I feel like they might get along better in a setting that is not a dating show as then their bickering won't have insecurities and uncertainty in it.
And Xilun, though a little immature at times, he is pretty good as a person as he learns from his mistakes and is very attentive. But I think that Yue'er might not be the right match for him as he's too good for her.
Basically, the main reason I support Yue'er and Hewen despite their bumpy journey is that Hewen (though slightly problematic himself but who's perfect) is bold enough to point out Yue'er's problems. We can see that while Yue'er is a nice person, she still is young and quite selfish (as we can see from her double standards regarding the dating card and other things as so far, I've never seen her express care or concern for anyone other than being on the receiving end of it and I'm not talking about the one time she cooked). I'm not saying it in a bad way as it is totally okay to be selfish and value yourself more but someone like Hewen might make her introspect on herself. I think they have more potential to grow together. Though they may fight, I don't think Hewen will give in to her actions as we can see he is more mature and thinks about being considerate to everyone (while this doesn't work in a dating show I think in real life his character should be very good to be around).
Xilun on the otherhand is too nice to Yue'er so I feel like even if he enters a relationship with her, it will be one-sided giving from his side and he seems too nice and nervous around her, always aiming to please her that he might not be able to put forward his needs too. While he seems happy doing it now, it can be draining in the long run. Their relationship, in my opinion, won't be on an equal wavelength. Of course, this is all from what we've seen so far as we can see that Yue'er state is completely different with both Hewen and Xilun.
And while I said all this, I think Hewen and Xiaoyu are quite cute as well. I shipped MengMeng and Xilun as well but it seems like their story has come to a full stop.
I find watching their scenes very interesting as it has a very tom and jerry type vibe to it. Hewen comfortably teases Yue'er and Yue'er also seems to enjoy what they have going on. I feel like they might get along better in a setting that is not a dating show as then their bickering won't have insecurities and uncertainty in it.
And Xilun, though a little immature at times, he is pretty good as a person as he learns from his mistakes and is very attentive. But I think that Yue'er might not be the right match for him as he's too good for her.
Basically, the main reason I support Yue'er and Hewen despite their bumpy journey is that Hewen (though slightly problematic himself but who's perfect) is bold enough to point out Yue'er's problems. We can see that while Yue'er is a nice person, she still is young and quite selfish (as we can see from her double standards regarding the dating card and other things as so far, I've never seen her express care or concern for anyone other than being on the receiving end of it and I'm not talking about the one time she cooked). I'm not saying it in a bad way as it is totally okay to be selfish and value yourself more but someone like Hewen might make her introspect on herself. I think they have more potential to grow together. Though they may fight, I don't think Hewen will give in to her actions as we can see he is more mature and thinks about being considerate to everyone (while this doesn't work in a dating show I think in real life his character should be very good to be around).
Xilun on the otherhand is too nice to Yue'er so I feel like even if he enters a relationship with her, it will be one-sided giving from his side and he seems too nice and nervous around her, always aiming to please her that he might not be able to put forward his needs too. While he seems happy doing it now, it can be draining in the long run. Their relationship, in my opinion, won't be on an equal wavelength. Of course, this is all from what we've seen so far as we can see that Yue'er state is completely different with both Hewen and Xilun.
And while I said all this, I think Hewen and Xiaoyu are quite cute as well. I shipped MengMeng and Xilun as well but it seems like their story has come to a full stop.
Anyone has any ideas on the endgame?