I don’t want to defend him, and it bothers me that I have to put a disclaimer before saying anything related…
Yeah he’s toxic and obsessed and he will never change 🤷🏼♀️ That’s why I said that there isn’t a redemption arc for him. Because he won’t be able to better himself
I don’t want to defend him, and it bothers me that I have to put a disclaimer before saying anything related…
I completely agree with you.
To be honest, this comment section has genuinely made me enjoy this series less. Not because of the story itself, but because it feels impossible to discuss the characters without first adding a hundred disclaimers.
For me, some things are obvious. Condemning rape and abuse should be obvious. It shouldn’t have to be repeated every two seconds just to earn the right to talk about a character’s emotions, motivations, or psychology.
Yet every day I see people being accused of supporting Lu Feng simply because they’re discussing his POV or trying to understand what goes on in his head. That’s absurd.
This is the first time in my 29 years of life that I’ve felt unable to freely discuss a fictional toxic character because of the judgment of other viewers. And honestly, it’s ridiculous.
What I find ironic is that some people spend all their time criticizing Lu Feng for being toxic, manipulative, and aggressive, then turn around and attack real people for having a different interpretation of the story. They dig into the psychology of a morally grey character while simultaneously behaving in an aggressive and verbally hostile way toward other fans.
People keep comparing Lu Feng to every toxic BL ML, but somehow everyone forgets Day from Love Syndrome. That…
Day is WAY worse than Lu Feng and many other characters, yet I’ve never seen this level of outrage about him being a certified rapist.
And honestly, I’ve never seen the comment section of Love Syndrome become as toxic as this one. People disagreed, sure, but they weren’t attacking or insulting other viewers.
I have started to hate Lu Feng. Nothing about the hospital scene made me feel anything for him. He was saying,…
I don’t want to defend him, and it bothers me that I have to put a disclaimer before saying anything related to this series.
But I don’t think he meant “please wake up so I can do it again.” In the whole hospital scene, he was admitting that his revenge had lured him into a state of psychosis, and he acknowledged that it was all part of a plan to make Yi Chen pay for how much he had suffered. At that point, I think he just wanted him to wake up because he missed him.
That said, Lu Feng CLEARLY has problems. The first one is that he’s obsessed and he can’t let go of that obsession.
Also, I don’t think the story wants to redeem him. I think the story wants to show us the darkest side of love. He will always be a little manipulative and obsessed, and that’s part of his character.
This entire love story only exists because Lu Feng refuses to let go 😭😭If it were up to Yi Chen, they would’ve…
And you’re right! When it comes to Lu Feng he surely act like a coward.
Also, I do think he has feelings for Lu Feng. I just personally don’t see them as love. To me, love is also about choosing someone, standing by them, and putting them first when it matters. Yi Chen consistently puts other people above Lu Feng and is even willing to go against him to please those he considers more important. That’s why, from my perspective, it doesn’t feel like love.
I’m sorry, but I genuinely can’t get past the fact that Yi Chen’s brother has this much control over him.
I know the show wants me to see their bond as touching, but at this point it just makes me uncomfortable. I would’ve much preferred Yi Chen telling Lu Feng, “Bro, I can’t forgive you. I’m leaving and moving on with my life.”
At least that would’ve been HIS choice. Instead, he leaves because his brother asks him to.
For once, I’d like Yi Chen to make a choice because HE wants it, not because someone else does.
This entire love story only exists because Lu Feng refuses to let go 😭😭If it were up to Yi Chen, they would’ve…
Unfortunately, for me, it’s not love. Yi Chen doesn’t love Lu Feng, and not just because of the kidnapping. He didn’t love him long before that, and Lu Feng fucking knows it. That’s why he’s always trying so hard to hold on to him. Because deep down, he knows that if he lets go, Yi Chen won’t choose him
I wish that would tell us the time jumps! how much time has passed from waking up from the coma??? how long was…
He clearly remembers everything. When Lu Feng reached for the ladder and touched him, Yi Chen looked genuinely scared.As for the time jumps, we’ll probably never know 💀 They clearly want to keep that information from us. It could be a day, a year, or five years for all we know. 😂
I totally agree with you. I’m sorry, but this relationship can’t work. And not just because Lu Feng needs…
Exactly 💀
And he had the audacity to go, “Oh nauuurr, you shouldn’t have gotten married,” when he knows damn well their homophobic mother was trying to force Yi Chen into a marriage.
Meanwhile, his boyfriend accused Lu Feng of pushing Yi Chen Junior down the stairs, and now this little shit is suddenly like, “Actually, I provoked Lu Feng. He didn’t mean to push me.”
Oh, NOW we’re being honest? NOW we’re clarifying things?
I totally agree with you. I’m sorry, but this relationship can’t work. And not just because Lu Feng needs…
I honestly don’t think Yi Chen loves him. He has never really shown me that he does.
Taking a bullet isn’t enough to convince me, especially given the circumstances. What matters more to me are his choices, and Yi Chen keeps putting other people before Lu Feng. I genuinely want to believe the people who see love on Yi Chen’s side, but I just can’t see it myself.
And I don’t think Lu Feng should keep trying to force a relationship with someone who doesn’t love him.
That’s why I said that there isn’t a redemption arc for him. Because he won’t be able to better himself
To be honest, this comment section has genuinely made me enjoy this series less. Not because of the story itself, but because it feels impossible to discuss the characters without first adding a hundred disclaimers.
For me, some things are obvious. Condemning rape and abuse should be obvious. It shouldn’t have to be repeated every two seconds just to earn the right to talk about a character’s emotions, motivations, or psychology.
Yet every day I see people being accused of supporting Lu Feng simply because they’re discussing his POV or trying to understand what goes on in his head. That’s absurd.
This is the first time in my 29 years of life that I’ve felt unable to freely discuss a fictional toxic character because of the judgment of other viewers. And honestly, it’s ridiculous.
What I find ironic is that some people spend all their time criticizing Lu Feng for being toxic, manipulative, and aggressive, then turn around and attack real people for having a different interpretation of the story. They dig into the psychology of a morally grey character while simultaneously behaving in an aggressive and verbally hostile way toward other fans.
And honestly, I’ve never seen the comment section of Love Syndrome become as toxic as this one. People disagreed, sure, but they weren’t attacking or insulting other viewers.
But I don’t think he meant “please wake up so I can do it again.” In the whole hospital scene, he was admitting that his revenge had lured him into a state of psychosis, and he acknowledged that it was all part of a plan to make Yi Chen pay for how much he had suffered. At that point, I think he just wanted him to wake up because he missed him.
That said, Lu Feng CLEARLY has problems. The first one is that he’s obsessed and he can’t let go of that obsession.
Also, I don’t think the story wants to redeem him. I think the story wants to show us the darkest side of love. He will always be a little manipulative and obsessed, and that’s part of his character.
Also, I do think he has feelings for Lu Feng. I just personally don’t see them as love. To me, love is also about choosing someone, standing by them, and putting them first when it matters. Yi Chen consistently puts other people above Lu Feng and is even willing to go against him to please those he considers more important. That’s why, from my perspective, it doesn’t feel like love.
What a clown 🤡
I know the show wants me to see their bond as touching, but at this point it just makes me uncomfortable.
I would’ve much preferred Yi Chen telling Lu Feng, “Bro, I can’t forgive you. I’m leaving and moving on with my life.”
At least that would’ve been HIS choice.
Instead, he leaves because his brother asks him to.
For once, I’d like Yi Chen to make a choice because HE wants it, not because someone else does.
That’s why he’s always trying so hard to hold on to him. Because deep down, he knows that if he lets go, Yi Chen won’t choose him
If it were up to Yi Chen, they would’ve been strangers after the first breakup
And he had the audacity to go, “Oh nauuurr, you shouldn’t have gotten married,” when he knows damn well their homophobic mother was trying to force Yi Chen into a marriage.
Meanwhile, his boyfriend accused Lu Feng of pushing Yi Chen Junior down the stairs, and now this little shit is suddenly like, “Actually, I provoked Lu Feng. He didn’t mean to push me.”
Oh, NOW we’re being honest? NOW we’re clarifying things?
Taking a bullet isn’t enough to convince me, especially given the circumstances. What matters more to me are his choices, and Yi Chen keeps putting other people before Lu Feng.
I genuinely want to believe the people who see love on Yi Chen’s side, but I just can’t see it myself.
And I don’t think Lu Feng should keep trying to force a relationship with someone who doesn’t love him.