I can understand Yotha's need to figure out his feelings. It's important in the long run. He's asked Gun to wait for him and Gun agreed even with the possibility that he'll end up being hurt. Since he asked Gun to wait, I'd expect him to treat Gun decently, cos to me, that's like the bare minimum. What I find hard to accept is how he's actively hurting Gun in the process of figuring out his feelings. How can you be all in Gun's mouth and business every chance you get, but the next day, you give him the cold shoulder? How can you cuddle and hug him to sleep every night and then claim you don't believe in love, proceeding to treat him so coldly? Gun is naive/innocent and bubbly. Poor guy isn't ready for the world of hurt that's coming for him. It's a lot for him to handle. I felt like throwing my hands at Yotha this episode, even though I understand him. The beauty of being 18 years old is that one still have all the time in the world to hurt, be hurt, to mend, heal and try again. He's gonna learn the hard way that love is beautiful, yet can be deadly, toxic and destructive.
Wa and Klao are stuck in a toxic loop of constant jealousy, possessiveness and reassurances. I won't continue dating someone that insecure to the extent he's that jealous and possessive, who always goes caveman on me all the time. But then again, I would not date a man who still has his ex in his life unless I have no idea about it. If I find out, I'll chose to leave the relationship if him and his ex are very very close, and if I choose to remain in that relationship, I need to learn to trust him. Without trust, a relationship is pointless. Wa has explained his situation to Klao and Klao choose to remain in that relationship. Wa has told him that he choose Klao over all others. He's constantly tried to reassure him that he loves him. Wa was the one who broke up with Yotha because his heart isnt in the relationship and that his feelings for Yotha are brotherly affection. Unpopular opinion- I respect Wa for this. I'll rather a lover breaks come clean, be honest with me and break up with me if his heart is not in the relationship than have him continue dating me despite knowing this, then he'll go and fall for someone else thereby cheating on me which makes it 10X worse.
We can see that Yotha is very important to Wa, and Wa is equally important to Yotha that despite the fact that they broke up and don't have feelings for each other anymore, Yotha still considers Wa as someone who made him safe. Wa must have created a secure and safe space for Yotha when they were together. Somewhat like a sibling bond. Thus, I understand why Wa is always ready to offer a shoulder to Yotha whenever Yotha is down. Personally, I don't remain friends with my ex, but it doesn't mean I can't understand others who do. We are all different. For some people, their ex became their family in a pure platonic way.
To end the long story, they both need to sit down and talk about their relationship, their boundaries and what they want from it.
In reality, Thai fans are more respectful than Koreans and don't tend to chase their faves outside of their events.…
That's what I'm saying. Thai actors and Idols are very much like regular people in Thailand. They actually tend to get harassed by interfans when they travel outside Thailand for fanmeets.
A company full of celebrities would know how to portray them in a show. Even Thai actors and Idols do go shopping…
He's already recorded all the members. If there's anything outstanding, It'll be impossible to record because MARS isn't ending anytime soon. Just because he was asked to record MARS' ending when he was hired doesn't mean that would be his only job responsibilities, otherwise, doesn't that mean he'll be layed off the moment MARS successfully disbanded?
This one hurts.ThamePo was one of my most anticipated shows since it was announced and it started really strong.…
A company full of celebrities would know how to portray them in a show. Even Thai actors and Idols do go shopping too. They even go unaccompanied without guards and all that. I bet there are places where they could safely shop in real life where they won't get rushed by a mob of fans. This is the Thai Tpop industry, not kpop.
As for Po, remember he's already completed the first main job which he took on when he was contracted back then. His job was to record a documentary cos they were splitting up. He did that and now, they're back together. Technically as a director, his job is beyond following Idols around all day to film them.
Okay. I have to admit something. I'm finally annoyed with Jun in this episode and I can't helped being very annoyed. I really do not like such behaviour. He knows Po likes Thame. Heck! He went on about how Thame might not be into guys and all that bruhaha but the moment he found out Thame might also like Po, he changed his strategy. He started manipulating Po by telling Po that he should achieve something in order to win Thame's love, as if the current Po is not worthy of Thame's love. He took the little time Po could have spent with Thame during the process of creating the MV and monopolised it all for himself. Of course, naive Po thought Jun was genuinely helping him. Shy and unexperienced Thame thought he needed to give Po space to do his job properly. Even without that stupid MV, Thame already likes Po anyway and even without Jun, Po can still do a good job of coming up with something. So, tell me, why after all that speech of "don't you want to do this well so that Thame will love you", tell me why he was disappointed when Po told him he's going on a date with Thame? Tell me where he got the audacity to be mad at Thame from, as if Po belonged to him. He even went as far as texting Po to leave the movie theatre just so that the date won't happen. What kind of friend is that? I'm disappointed in him. I gave him the benefit of doubt at the beginning. I thought Jun was just being naughty and provoking Thame in order to make him realize his feelings faster. I thought Thame needed a push and maybe Jun knew that, but nah, that's not it. That disappointment on Jun's face was loud and clear. I'm proud of Thame. Against all odds, he atleast had the emotional intelligence to reassure Po by showing up and making that promise.
He's asked Gun to wait for him and Gun agreed even with the possibility that he'll end up being hurt.
Since he asked Gun to wait, I'd expect him to treat Gun decently, cos to me, that's like the bare minimum.
What I find hard to accept is how he's actively hurting Gun in the process of figuring out his feelings.
How can you be all in Gun's mouth and business every chance you get, but the next day, you give him the cold shoulder?
How can you cuddle and hug him to sleep every night and then claim you don't believe in love, proceeding to treat him so coldly?
Gun is naive/innocent and bubbly. Poor guy isn't ready for the world of hurt that's coming for him. It's a lot for him to handle.
I felt like throwing my hands at Yotha this episode, even though I understand him.
The beauty of being 18 years old is that one still have all the time in the world to hurt, be hurt, to mend, heal and try again.
He's gonna learn the hard way that love is beautiful, yet can be deadly, toxic and destructive.
I won't continue dating someone that insecure to the extent he's that jealous and possessive, who always goes caveman on me all the time.
But then again, I would not date a man who still has his ex in his life unless I have no idea about it. If I find out, I'll chose to leave the relationship if him and his ex are very very close, and if I choose to remain in that relationship, I need to learn to trust him.
Without trust, a relationship is pointless.
Wa has explained his situation to Klao and Klao choose to remain in that relationship. Wa has told him that he choose Klao over all others. He's constantly tried to reassure him that he loves him.
Wa was the one who broke up with Yotha because his heart isnt in the relationship and that his feelings for Yotha are brotherly affection.
Unpopular opinion- I respect Wa for this. I'll rather a lover breaks come clean, be honest with me and break up with me if his heart is not in the relationship than have him continue dating me despite knowing this, then he'll go and fall for someone else thereby cheating on me which makes it 10X worse.
We can see that Yotha is very important to Wa, and Wa is equally important to Yotha that despite the fact that they broke up and don't have feelings for each other anymore, Yotha still considers Wa as someone who made him safe. Wa must have created a secure and safe space for Yotha when they were together. Somewhat like a sibling bond.
Thus, I understand why Wa is always ready to offer a shoulder to Yotha whenever Yotha is down.
Personally, I don't remain friends with my ex, but it doesn't mean I can't understand others who do. We are all different. For some people, their ex became their family in a pure platonic way.
To end the long story, they both need to sit down and talk about their relationship, their boundaries and what they want from it.
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You can thank me laterπ
As for Po, remember he's already completed the first main job which he took on when he was contracted back then. His job was to record a documentary cos they were splitting up. He did that and now, they're back together. Technically as a director, his job is beyond following Idols around all day to film them.
I'm finally annoyed with Jun in this episode and I can't helped being very annoyed. I really do not like such behaviour.
He knows Po likes Thame. Heck! He went on about how Thame might not be into guys and all that bruhaha but the moment he found out Thame might also like Po, he changed his strategy.
He started manipulating Po by telling Po that he should achieve something in order to win Thame's love, as if the current Po is not worthy of Thame's love.
He took the little time Po could have spent with Thame during the process of creating the MV and monopolised it all for himself. Of course, naive Po thought Jun was genuinely helping him. Shy and unexperienced Thame thought he needed to give Po space to do his job properly.
Even without that stupid MV, Thame already likes Po anyway and even without Jun, Po can still do a good job of coming up with something.
So, tell me, why after all that speech of "don't you want to do this well so that Thame will love you", tell me why he was disappointed when Po told him he's going on a date with Thame?
Tell me where he got the audacity to be mad at Thame from, as if Po belonged to him.
He even went as far as texting Po to leave the movie theatre just so that the date won't happen.
What kind of friend is that? I'm disappointed in him.
I gave him the benefit of doubt at the beginning. I thought Jun was just being naughty and provoking Thame in order to make him realize his feelings faster. I thought Thame needed a push and maybe Jun knew that, but nah, that's not it. That disappointment on Jun's face was loud and clear.
I'm proud of Thame. Against all odds, he atleast had the emotional intelligence to reassure Po by showing up and making that promise.