CristyRawks

That's fair. An FYI, the further I go the better I feel. I think what I'm coming to the realization is that the drama itself is the same trope that we have seen tons of times and it's getting boring to me. I'm even lackluster about SWL whom I love. sigh... I guess dramas aren't what they used to be for me. Thank you for your respect.

"an opinion is an opinion" so why is everybody blowing all of this out of proportion? It's becoming quite tedious. I don't like her acting in this drama.... I have the freedom of speech on my side and I never dissed her physical appearance. so let's end this long drawn out story. Respect.

I appreciate that. I just wish human beings are allowed to critique without being called a hater. It's two totally different things.

That's fair.

Right. It's the same trope as hundreds of others.

Again, like I've commented on other posters using the term "haters, hating, hatred", it's being misused compared to opinions or critiquing. Different.

Hating? or simply a critique on her acting. This gen needs to understand and respect the difference.

Whenever someone has a difference of opinion regarding just about anything in the world today, it's called hating. Whatever happened to critics in the entertainment industry? The term "haters" is a flaw that is totally different than voicing an opinion or critiquing. (I commented on her acting, not her body type or her looks or her hair, and so on and so on). But thank you.

Fair, but if he would be given better roles maybe he can show his skills. Such as in The Bionic Life, Find Yourself, Go Ahead, and Everlasting Longing. Too many times, good actors are stereotyped and given the same characters by their companies/management. Then they start to disappear such as Xing Zhao Lin did. As for Angel Zhou, to me, she is annoying in this role and maybe it's the directing, but right now, she's not all that. I am on Ep 10, so I will give it some time. Thx for your considerate reply.

Song Wei Long is too good of an actor to play opposite this substandard actress. Her acting is stilted and annoying. Not worthy of the others that far surpass her in delivery, acting, and emotion.

Oh but somewhere there really are people who are experiencing this same exact scenario. lol

NOT correcting my dear 182, just breaking it down to a clean 10 year gap.

Yes I saw what you said. And true about the 30 vibe. I was essentially breaking it down to the 10 year gap issue. ;-)

Thank you TwoThousandThree.

I think it's brave of Michelle Chen to do this age-gap drama becuz of the 20 year gap in real life. But if we are all of age when we find true love, why let age stop us from living love and our truth? Right?

IKR? I am at Ep 22 and I am going really slow becuz there is only a few left and I don't want it to end. He Yu is one of the hottest MLs right now. I can't wait to see how he does his costume drama coming up. sigh...

6 years later when they reconcile, she is 35 and he's 25.

In real life she is 42 ? and he is 23.

She was 10 years older, so at 19 when he came to live with her, she was 29.

Watch Speed and Love. It's so deliciously hot and He Yu and Esther Yu have sizzling chemistry! BTW, I made myself watch Sniper Butterfly regardless of it's problems cuz I really wanted it to get better. it does, but then other things have popped up that annoy me. I'm on 25 now and yes I will finish it, but I'm giving it a 7.5.