I'm shocked at this comment.Nobody said she did the right thing by leaving. We just understand her reasons for…
Not everyone that has been SAd will admit to it. Some don't even know what they went through is SA. You think you're spitting facts but you are so wrong. If we conduct a poll here now asking how many of the commenters have been SAd, you would be so shocked. How do you know I haven't gone through what Wen Yi Fan has? At least she had the courage to speak up, but was ignored.
However painful or triggering it might be to certain members in the audience of this drama, it is still highly…
Punishment for sexual offenders is better in some countries/cultures than others. In my country, we have a high profile case at the moment. A female member of our Senate accused the Senate president of sexual harassment. What was the response? 1. Her fellow women from the Senate president's home town took up placards to defend the man. 2. She was suspended from the senate for 6 months stating that she caused a disturbance because she raised her voice at one of the meetings. A woman was amongst the disciplinary committee by the way. 3. Our very own first lady said that there are rules and regulations in politics and bla bla bla.
This is a woman in a high political position in the country, even she wasn't heard. What about the common women?
All those comments saying, Do you know how much trauma an SA victim has to handle? How much PTSD they might have?—and…
I'm shocked at this comment. Nobody said she did the right thing by leaving. We just understand her reasons for doing so. We are talking about a person that has been through SA, abandonment, harassment. She hasn't gotten any psychological treatment that we know of. Obviously, she's going to have flaws. Everyone has different response to trauma and PTSD. Just because most people haven't been through what she has doesn't mean we can't empathise. Are you telling us you can't try to understand someone who has been through SA? Oh My God!!!!
I think after reading everyone’s comments and also chatting with some people there’s something that needs…
I remember in the novel, her mother remarried about a month after her father's death AND she was pregnant at that time [she lost that baby though]. It means that she was probably cheating, maybe it started as innocently seeking support from the man while Wen Yi Fan's father was sick. But the emotional cheating must have started before he died. She's despicable honestly.
Me too. I'm doing the same. I'm annoyed they wasted a whole 2 episodes for this. They should have squeezed it into 1 so we can move on with the good parts. No wonder it's 32 episodes. 🙄🙄🙄
personally, I’m not mad AT her, I’m mad at the director for doing this to WYF’s character development. Changing…
Exactly, I was mad at her at first, thinking "Why did she have to run away?" Then I remembered that people handle trauma and it's effects differently, her reflex reaction is flight mode. It has always been that way. Some other people might fight, but that's not Wen Yi Fan. We need to understand her.
I blame the screenwriter like you said, they changed everything completely. And I hope they give us a satisfactory resolution as well.
The ML following the FL around without her knowledge is making me uncomfortable.
If you are uncomfortable, why continue watching? We are already more than half way through the drama, if you were truly uncomfortable you would have dropped it ages ago. You just come here to try and raise trouble under the guise of having a conversation. Some of us watching TBT have seen your comments about TFF there. You can't deceive us.
I just saw the previews, that security guard is the best, such a solid guy. He must be one of us, rooting for our couple.
Telling Dr He, "You still have time to eat Hotpot? Your house is on fire" [translation- someone is trying to steal the girl you're pursuing and you still want to eat?] 😂😂😂😂
You think you're spitting facts but you are so wrong.
If we conduct a poll here now asking how many of the commenters have been SAd, you would be so shocked.
How do you know I haven't gone through what Wen Yi Fan has?
At least she had the courage to speak up, but was ignored.
In my country, we have a high profile case at the moment.
A female member of our Senate accused the Senate president of sexual harassment.
What was the response?
1. Her fellow women from the Senate president's home town took up placards to defend the man.
2. She was suspended from the senate for 6 months stating that she caused a disturbance because she raised her voice at one of the meetings. A woman was amongst the disciplinary committee by the way.
3. Our very own first lady said that there are rules and regulations in politics and bla bla bla.
This is a woman in a high political position in the country, even she wasn't heard. What about the common women?
But seeing some takes on here is scary.
😆😆😆
Nobody said she did the right thing by leaving.
We just understand her reasons for doing so.
We are talking about a person that has been through SA, abandonment, harassment. She hasn't gotten any psychological treatment that we know of.
Obviously, she's going to have flaws.
Everyone has different response to trauma and PTSD.
Just because most people haven't been through what she has doesn't mean we can't empathise.
Are you telling us you can't try to understand someone who has been through SA?
Oh My God!!!!
It means that she was probably cheating, maybe it started as innocently seeking support from the man while Wen Yi Fan's father was sick. But the emotional cheating must have started before he died.
She's despicable honestly.
Thank you.
Especially 26, she is going to do the right thing.
Wen Yi Fan, fighting 💪💪💪
We are rooting for you.
I believe the next 2 episodes will soften the blow of today.
I'm annoyed they wasted a whole 2 episodes for this.
They should have squeezed it into 1 so we can move on with the good parts.
No wonder it's 32 episodes.
🙄🙄🙄
I don't and can't blame her.
I'm sad for both of them.
Then I remembered that people handle trauma and it's effects differently, her reflex reaction is flight mode. It has always been that way. Some other people might fight, but that's not Wen Yi Fan.
We need to understand her.
I blame the screenwriter like you said, they changed everything completely.
And I hope they give us a satisfactory resolution as well.
I'm going back to sleep, maybe I can sleep away the sorrow.
😩😩😩
We are already more than half way through the drama, if you were truly uncomfortable you would have dropped it ages ago.
You just come here to try and raise trouble under the guise of having a conversation.
Some of us watching TBT have seen your comments about TFF there.
You can't deceive us.
Most people do it in order to either boost or drag down the rating of the drama.
He's a fave.
Telling Dr He, "You still have time to eat Hotpot? Your house is on fire" [translation- someone is trying to steal the girl you're pursuing and you still want to eat?]
😂😂😂😂