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Who says I'm talking about you ? 😂

If you're happy then suit yourself but not every coupl is like you.

And mind you I'm talking about equality in a relationship. If WSW didn't feel anything about this whole he wouldn't have said "WHAT LOGIC IS THAT YOU NONSENSE SPOUTING IDIOT".

I never said that. Infact I'm saying if something like this happens in reality it would be disastrous.

I wonder what boundaries are you talking about.

That's called PRIDE. What's PRIDE in front of your lover ??

Nobody gets high in the very morning 9 AM.

I saw your other reply and replied you too.

WSW was crying to JXS in the beginning when CC and WSW were about to start the relationship.

He said "I would never get to top if i'm in a relationship with CC". That's his concern but he can't really do anything about it.

Sure. You take your time.

I heard CC saying "I'll never be a subordinate in this life" in ep. 23 and I'm all sure now. He takes pride in that.

I want to know the same.

Why ? There are tonnes of comments only missing and praising both of them you can't take just 6 comments that speaks their reality or atleast speaks different from what you all think ??

Yes. Idk how it worked in the novel and I'm not even planning to read it.
But didn't some of y'all say the author of the story "Chai Ji dan" told not to relate the series with the novel ??

Also if it has never been shown that CC let WSW take the top position in the series how would I know that he did ??

Yes. I keep finding faults in CC and i want to point it out everytime bcz i cannot digest his disturbing behaviour sometimes.

If this is your first BL .. you need to watch more to understand respect comes from both sides.
I recommend you to watch Bad buddy to know what respect between a couple is.

So if people have different way of seeing things it means "THEY'RE TALKING NONSENSE" ?! and you're talking sense.

Nobody is talking about their daily life and CC once allowing him to take charge of his expenses.

I was always talking about them in bed. Why should it always be Chi Cheng and not Wu Suo Wei ?? Can CC not accept being a bottom for once ? Is it that hard ? He can't even please his lover jokingly ?

Shame on you that how you have full info on how CC is so dominant over WSW but you still chose to talk like this.

That's exactly right I was talking about them in the bed and not normal daily life.

WSW also deserves to TOP CC. Why should it be CC all the time ?? Does CC not have heart to be a BOTTOM for WSW even once in his life ??

I was NEVER talking about their daily life.

I've understood this perfectly now that CC has "DOMINANT SYNDROME".

Let me share to you all the exact conversation that happened b/w CC and WSW in the bathtub scene when WSW escaped from CC's dad -

(They were talking about the passwords WSW sent for CC to decode and save him but CC couldn't guess.)

CC - My brain isn't working well, okay ?!

WSW - It seems like I'll have to take charge of this house. (JOKINGLY)

CC - Alright, you call the shots.

WSW - THEN YOU WILL BE THE SUBORDINATE AND I WILL BE THE SUPERIOR. (AGAIN, NOT SERIOUS)

CC - DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT.

WSW - Why ?

CC - I HAVE A PHYSICAL DEFECT, SUCH AS A LEFT HANDED PERSON CAN'T USE THE RIGHT HAND. A PERSON WITH FLAT FEET CAN'T WALK LONG DISTANCES. I'M TELLING YOU "I WON'T EVER BE SUBORDINATE IN THIS LIFE".

WSW - What kind of absurd logic is that YOU NONSENSE SPOUTING IDIOT.

Some might find this conversation romantic (maybe) and unproblematic but this is oddly disturbing and disrespectful. CC couldn't say "YES I CAN BE YOUR SUBORDINATE" even jokingly to make WSW happy. He is the dominant one and he takes pride in it. If someone (even if his lover) tries to take his dominance he will not accept it.

That's not how relationships work. You both need to be submissive for eachother. Will this type of relationship last ?? In Fiction. Yes.
But in real life ??

EDIT - Guys I was never talking about their daily life. 😑

Now i remember, I thought you said the conversation happened b/w Chi Cheng and Jiang Xiao Shuai.
I read wrong my fault.

I remember the whole thing how GCY made WS spill everything to clear the air.

Oh well, I understand maybe CC took GCY's name over WS's bcz they were so close as "FRIENDS" but obv WS will take the wrong idea cz he's his LOVER. No lover wants to hear that.

Yepp. Thank-you.

I mean they do look good together. 👀
JXS and WSW also ship them lmao .. it's not just us.

I'm on ep. 22 right now and I don't recall a conversation like this happening b/w JXS and CC. Can you tell me from which episode can it be ?

Though I clearly remember CC telling GCY that "I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT IF YOU WEREN'T HERE". In around ep. 18 or 19 after his brief break-up with WSW when the truth was revealed and he was staying at GCY's home.

Why would you tell me to drop it ? Keeping main couple's messy and problematic relationship aside it's very entertaining and funny. Especially the friendship b/w WSW and JXS .. the chatty duo.

Ngl, Wang Shuo is such a cutie too. After knowing everything I felt bad for him. He's so broken and played.

Also We've another couple to watch. They're cute. Atleast GCY respect JXS unlike CC who even hates the thought of being WSW's subordinate .. even as a joke.

Right. I should add GCY too. I was so shocked in the very first episode on seeing that young man's traumatized eyes whom GCY traded with CC.

Rather than cutting ties with GCY that sick guy started sleeping with every guy GCY gave him.

I'm so lost in this horrendous story. Seriously.