Sorry to say i disagree with all of u. As a women submitting yourself is the biggest defeat. Is it absolute gurantee…
? You are basing your conclusion on the assumption that Qian Qian KNOWS that QM tortured Bao Er. She literally doesn't, they have not met each other for a while until Chang Ning and Bao Er was brought to her together.
Qi Min didn't change? He did stop putting a knife to Bao Er's neck when Qian Qian submitted the first time, didn't he?
Why must Qian Qian only do something about this situation only when she can "guarantee" that Qi Min will not continue to torture Bao Er? This thinking is naive, with that madman, there is NOTHING Qian Qian can do that will "guarantee" her son's safety. The only thing she can do is PRETEND, so there is a CHANCE that her son can live.
Also, PRETEND submission = defeat? What kind of logic?
Do you understand what "PRETEND" means? The definition is to "make it appear that something is the case when in fact it is not." She is not "submitting", she is ”PRETENDING to submit".
So what do you suggest she does? Antagonise Qi Min further, and watch her son die in front of her? What? Or kill herself, and very possibly leave Bao Er to fend off that demon himself?
Xie Zheng Character Weibo update😐😐😐: https://weibo.com/8382706065/5276439215341734
Translation: "The wristbands, and the tangerine peel candy… since you still have me in your heart, then I refuse to acknowledge a single word written above (referring to the divorce letter). I also don’t want to let you go."
Bruh. Stop talking to yourself and fess up to Chang Yu already😑
There is a stark difference between changyus and qians character which makes changyu a jade .Changyu was trapped…
Also how tf is submitting to QM = weak as a woman and a mother??? If anything it makes her so damn strong, she's so scared of QM, but for the sake of the kids, she will do anything to keep them safe, including face her literal ABUSER straight on. Hello??
There is a stark difference between changyus and qians character which makes changyu a jade .Changyu was trapped…
Uh what? Are you blaming the victim here? Qian Qian is NOT Chang Yu, she knows she doesn't have the strength to overpower QM. She is SMART, she knows her only chance is to pretend to submit to him, did you miss the part where she told the kids that she will take them and run when the time is right?
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Qi Min didn't change? He did stop putting a knife to Bao Er's neck when Qian Qian submitted the first time, didn't he?
Why must Qian Qian only do something about this situation only when she can "guarantee" that Qi Min will not continue to torture Bao Er? This thinking is naive, with that madman, there is NOTHING Qian Qian can do that will "guarantee" her son's safety. The only thing she can do is PRETEND, so there is a CHANCE that her son can live.
Also, PRETEND submission = defeat? What kind of logic?
Do you understand what "PRETEND" means? The definition is to "make it appear that something is the case when in fact it is not." She is not "submitting", she is ”PRETENDING to submit".
So what do you suggest she does? Antagonise Qi Min further, and watch her son die in front of her? What? Or kill herself, and very possibly leave Bao Er to fend off that demon himself?
"The wristbands, and the tangerine peel candy… since you still have me in your heart, then I refuse to acknowledge a single word written above (referring to the divorce letter). I also don’t want to let you go."
Bruh. Stop talking to yourself and fess up to Chang Yu already😑