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Replying to InspectorMegre 3 days ago
Title The Husband
After thinking about this, in retrospect, I disliked this drama and almost dropped it. ML was poker faced and…
See? You admit that you jyst hate the ML without any ground. That's the reason why you just refuse to understand why ML had to behave the way you hate.
Yeah that's just your taste but it's NOT WRITER'S PROBLEM, NOT DIRECTOR'S PROBLEM, NOT THE ACTOR'S PROBLEM.
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Replying to InspectorMegre 3 days ago
Title The Husband
Gosh to all the robots, be gone! ML comes out of surgery, their kid is dead, his life is crying and in pain, and…
You need to realize that there are all kinds of people in the world, and that there are diverse ways of coping with extreme sadness or stress.

There are many people in the world who simply go blank or show no expression in such situations.

I recommend that you discard your one-dimensional and simplistic thinking—claiming that someone is a robot just because they don't cry out on the outside—and instead study human behavior.
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Replying to Danny_J 4 days ago
Title The Husband
Well, ML came to a police station in 1st ep. But the kidnapper noticed that and warned him abt it. Dont you remember?
Iam sorry but ML went to the police station, got caught by the kidnapper, and left when the kidnapper threatened to put his wife in even greater danger.

Didn't ML's father-in-law and mother-in-law end up calling the police? And the police showed the whole time that they weren't much help. In the end, ML became a suspect in the kidnapping case.

Are you leaving a comment without having watched the drama?
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Replying to InspectorMegre 4 days ago
Title The Husband
Moonlight wrote this, but said not to ask her about it. So I need help: "Taeju has already known the illegal…
ML has known for a long time even before his daughter's death and when the couple set on the sofa too.
That's the reason why he started keep distance from his wife. He just shut his mouth and avoid her. That's the reason why FL was asking if he is hiding something.
He also had a therapy session with cha myounghee and talked about illegal stem cells.
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Replying to tompouce 4 days ago
Title The Husband
Tried to get into it, but I find the premise lacking. Why did not he went to the police? I know he was told she…
Well, ML came to a police station in 1st ep. But the kidnapper noticed that and warned him abt it. Dont you remember?
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Replying to Bee 4 days ago
Title The Husband
the drama is really good. why is the rating so low?🥺
They dont have patience to keep watching sweet potatoes things and story development.
Misunderstanding of genre and characters in it.
Not many actor/actress's fans who will blindly throw 10s but many hater against the actor/actress.
Non-romance genre, etc.
Haha.
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On The Husband 4 days ago
Title The Husband
There are some things people don't realize and so get angry not realizing that.

Do you know that the timeline of this drama covers just THREE DAYS after FL is kidnapped?

Please keep that in mind when watching. The police may seem incompetent, but considering the time given and the limited clues for them, they are just average police officers. In fact, ML is faster than the cops. This is because former detective Lee Soo-hyung provided significant assistance, and the kidnapper left behind clues that only ML would know.

From the moment ML identifies the culprit on the second day, the crime scene becomes known, and the police begin their investigation properly.

Also, this drama is a CRIME THRILLER where ML is the protagonist uncovering the case. It is NOT a POLICE PROCEDURAL where the main characters are police officers or profilers. Cops in here are obstacles at first then turn into maybe cops later.

And the VIDEO is not a fake.
You can see the video isn a deep fake based on conversation btw No manhee, ML, and FL in several scenes!!
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On The Husband 4 days ago
Title The Husband Spoiler
"But let's describe the scene where he walks out of surgery, their child is dead, his wife yelling... and he is standing still and expressionless."



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It seems there are some people who are dissatisfied with ML's acting in this part, but if you look at the situation again based on how the story has unfolded so far, it is a very well done restrained acting that fits the situation.

Alright, let me explain ML's state in that scene.

The current situation is that his father-in-law, who has orchestrated performs illegal procedures, did not inform ML even when his granddaughter was rushed in in an emergency, and instead kept him to continue the illegal surgery. As a result, ML has become a father who cannot be with his daughter at the moment of her death.

However, from the perspective of the medical code of ethics, the father-in-law's actions were not wrong. Clearly, if ML had stopped the surgery and left, the patient would have been in a critical condition; therefore, while the fsther in law's decision was a cruel decision for the daughter, as a doctor, it was the right decision for the patient, even if it was an illegal surgery. Since ML is also a doctor, perhaps i guess ML couldnt fully blame the father-in-law.

After the surgery ended, he had already heard about his daughter's tragedy from his father-in-law, and in a state of utter despair, he witnesses his wife's hopelessness and is being unilaterally blamed by her.

What would you do? Would you scream and cry with your wife? Would you be enraged? Yeah, ordinary people would do the same.

However, in this situation, ML has to be agonizing over whether or not to reveal what his father-in-law did to him, and to his own daughter and granddaughter. Rather than going all-in on his own sadness, he is grappling with the coexistence of worry for his wife and the trauma she will have to endure in the future if she knows the truth .

At this moment, ML chose control over emotional outburst.

It is not an emotion like anger, resentment, or regret directed at someone or the father in law. While there may be feelings of grief, panic, and despair due to the child's death, his compassion for his wife takes precedence as he is unable to decide whether or not to explain the situation.

At this point, ML decided to control his own sadness and anger while becoming a "trash can" to absorb his wife's rage and screams.

He is in a state of emotional vacuum, filled with compassion for his wife who has a heartless father, simultaneously, compassion for himself suffering at the hands of such a father-in-law, emptiness, and helplessness.

I hope you look at his acting again through this lens. I hope you understand that there is a much deeper underlying context than a one-dimensional expression of emotion.
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Replying to InspectorMegre 4 days ago
Title The Husband
"treat characters as pepple and not just tools to tell story." imo refers to many characters here, esp…
No, acting can vary depending on the nature of the drama, the genre, and the character within it.

It just looks like you dislike it simply because the actor isn't acting the way you prefer for the character you imagined.

Of course, it is okay to dislike it, but you are going too far. You've been negatively writng so many posts abt ML's acting. But
you've been wrong about many of ML character analyses you've done too.

So, I hope you start by adopting a mindset to accept the character's personality as set by the director and writer, and watch the acting again. Then you will see differently.
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Replying to Danny_J 4 days ago
Title The Husband
Your post really shows how everyone views things differently. I consider Kim Kyung-ae to be the most multi-dimensional…
"But let's describe the scene where he walks out of surgery, their child is dead, his wife yelling... and he is standing still and expressionless."



>>>>>
It seems there are some people who are dissatisfied with ML's acting in this part, but if you look at the situation again based on how the story has unfolded so far, it is a very well done restrained acting that fits the situation.

Alright, let me explain ML's state in that scene.

The current situation is that his father-in-law, who performs illegal procedures, did not inform ML even when his granddaughter was rushed in in an emergency, and instead kept him to continue the illegal surgery. As a result, ML has become a father who cannot be with his daughter at the moment of her death.

However, from the perspective of the medical code of ethics, the father-in-law's actions were not wrong. Clearly, if ML had stopped the surgery and left, the patient would have been in a critical condition; therefore, while the fsther in law's decision was a cruel decision for the daughter, as a doctor, it was the right decision for the patient, even if it was an illegal surgery. Since ML is also a doctor, perhaps i guess ML couldnt fully blame the father-in-law.

After the surgery ended, he had already heard about his daughter's tragedy from his father-in-law, and in a state of utter despair, he witnesses his wife's hopelessness and is being unilaterally blamed by her.

What would you do? Would you scream and cry with your wife? Would you be enraged? Yeah, ordinary people would do the same.

However, in this situation, ML has to be agonizing over whether or not to reveal what his father-in-law did to him, and to his own daughter and granddaughter. Rather than going all-in on his own sadness, he is grappling with the coexistence of worry for his wife and the trauma she will have to endure in the future if she knows the truth .

At this moment, ML chose control over emotional outburst.

It is not an emotion like anger, resentment, or regret directed at someone or the father in law. While there may be feelings of grief, panic, and despair due to the child's death, his compassion for his wife takes precedence as he is unable to decide whether or not to explain the situation.

At this point, ML decided to control his own sadness and anger while becoming a "trash can" to absorb his wife's rage and screams.

He is in a state of emotional vacuum, filled with compassion for his wife who has a heartless father, simultaneously, compassion for himself suffering at the hands of such a father-in-law, emptiness, and helplessness.

I hope you look at his acting again through this lens. I hope you understand that there is a much deeper underlying context than a one-dimensional expression of emotion.
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Replying to InspectorMegre 4 days ago
Title The Husband
"treat characters as pepple and not just tools to tell story." imo refers to many characters here, esp…
I read your posts, and it seems you're just angry because ML isn't acting the way you want him to.

Just because I said he must have been exhausted by the situation doesn't mean the actor needs to outwardly express that exhaustion. That's way too one-dimensional, haha.

Also, it's not that ML doesn't express emotions at all; he only does so when it's necessary for the flow of the plot. If emotions aren't expressed at other moments, it leaves room for the viewers to deduce it themselves. That is how it has to be. Don't forget, this is a thriller, not a romance melodrama.

Consider the protagonist's current state carefully. He was already aware of the hospital's corruption—that stem cells were being illegally exploited and that the hospital was falsifying clinical trial results. He had kept this a secret from his wife for a long time. Because such issues existed even before the moment his daughter died, his relationships with FL had become distant, and he could not speak to anyone within the hospital; he only managed to confide in a female junior psychiatrist.

Here, he begins to unravel the inner workings of the crimes he already knew about, and he is performing the necessary acting for this role very well.

Please, I hope you do not criticize the actor or the character just because they are not acting in the style you prefer, nor force that style upon others.
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Replying to InspectorMegre 7 days ago
Title The Husband
"treat characters as pepple and not just tools to tell story." imo refers to many characters here, esp…
Why is it important to know his feelings? Presumably, once the veil is lifted on the entire case, you will come to understand the protagonist's state of mind.
Right now, the protagonist is in the process of exposing the reality of the hospital corruption he has known since long time ago and been investigating. Given his circumstances and personality, there is really nothing here to be surprised or shocked by ; he is simply exhausted and wants to bring the situation to a close. The only scenario likely to trigger a massive emotional upheaval in him would be if the ultimate villain turned out to be his wife.
Remember, this drama is not a romance or melodrama. It is a crime thriller about a weary doctor—acting in the stead of the police—who is digging into a case.
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Replying to Danny_J 7 days ago
Title The Husband
Your post really shows how everyone views things differently. I consider Kim Kyung-ae to be the most multi-dimensional…
Having characters conceal their emotions is a directorial style for this director; he assign secrets to every character and keep them hidden, only to reveal those secrets or backstories toward the end.
As for the male lead, given his personality, there isn't much reason for him to outwardly express his emotions, aside from his interactions with his wife after his wife being free.

It seems some international fans really dislike characters with this kind of personality. Is this because we all grew up in different culture? Personally, however, I view the male lead's facial expressions and vocal tone as unique traits of the character, and I find this type of personality appealing.

If you look at Namgoong Min's other dramas, you can see he is an actor capable of a wide range of emotional shifts and expressive acting. In this instance, he is simply portraying a character with a different temperament—and I happen to prefer this kind of character.
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Replying to Danny_J 7 days ago
Title The Husband
Did you watch Ep9~10? That’s where I started to see some chemistry between them.Up until then, there hadn't…
Yeah right.
actually, since this is a thriller rather than a romance drama, the romantic element isn't all that significant.
The narrative doesn't really focus on their love story; instead, the main point seems to be how their marriage—already facing a crisis —will ultimately play out due to a kidnapping. Haha.
We still dont know why the ML asked to murder his wife in the video. Haha.
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On The Husband 8 days ago
Title The Husband
Namkoong Min is brilliantly carrying this drama.
The secret surrounding the character Kang Taeju was finally revealed in episodes 9 and 10.

I hope those who previously hated the character without grounds—and without making an effort to understand him need now to re-examine Kang Taeju and to see the ML's acting with fresh eyes. He is introverted and aloof, appearing to lack any passion for life. Yet, he had no choice but to be that way, as he was someone who had to quietly swallow and endure everything internally.

It is fine to dislike the character Kang Taeju, but one must shed the foolishness of loathing the actor portraying the character simply because you dont like the character.
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Replying to ffanta 8 days ago
Title The Husband
they really should treat characters as pepple and not just tools to tell story. there really isnt very good reason…
Your post really shows how everyone views things differently. I consider Kim Kyung-ae to be the most multi-dimensional and multifaceted character in this drama; just look at the range of performances she has delivered across the episodes—she is anything but one-dimensional. She comes across as far a more compelling villan than No Manhee and is a character shrouded in secrets.
The case with Seyoon—let’s see how things unfold in the remaining two episodes. It seems likely there are secrets surrounding Seyoon as well.
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Replying to user2728272827 8 days ago
Title The Husband
I really liked the eps of ml being the investigator and found out so quick (no shade to that guy who lost his…
Did you watch Ep9~10? That’s where I started to see some chemistry between them.
Up until then, there hadn't been any romantic moments; the focus was mostly on them keeping their distance or clashing, so making divorce seemed like the right choice. But starting with Episode 10, as the couple began to be honest with each other, I see the chemistry btw them finally.
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Replying to 4NiriN 8 days ago
Title The Husband
j’en suis à l’épisode 4, mais me dites pas que le gars avait comme maîtresse gyeong Ae ét que c’est…
Not at all :) Enjoy!
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Replying to Yume95 8 days ago
Title The Husband Spoiler
Hmm I want to know if I'm getting their backstory right or not, some comments are confusing me. The reason the…
The reason the male lead didn't tell his wife was the fear that, upon learning the truth and being unable to bear it, she might commit suicide. She had desperately sought the ML for their daughter's operation but her father didnt tell him that; consequently, ML proceeded with the surgery unaware of the accident, never realizing his daughter was dying.
He believed that if she discovered her own father let her daughter die for his vip patient surgery, the shock might drive her to take her own life, especially given the severe psychological trauma she had already suffered after losing their daughter.

It remains unclear whether the male lead continued to participate in the crime or stopped after discovering the illegal nature of the surgery.
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Replying to Namenamenamename 22 days ago
Title The Husband Spoiler
I guess it's just me who sees Taeju as a giant awkward nerd who has honestly gone much further than I expected…
Before getting swept up in such a kidnapping things, ML comes across as a socially awkward, deeply introverted nerd—a quiet humanist who excels only in his own field, lacking social skills and having no interest in office politics or money.
However, once he becomes entangled in the kidnapping case, he ends up fleeing the police station, engaging in car chases, and even pointing a gun at someone. Haha.
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Excited to see how the character will develop over the remaining six episodes.
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